To trans women and girls that shame guys who like to bottom!

[BCboyCOMINGatYA!]

I am not sure what this forum is like for this subject, I did do a search but didnt turn much up.

I am 32 and live in vancouver, there is an ok tg scene here but just way too many guys that like them to a slightly lame number of trans girls . Over my years, I have been called all kinds of shit for my sexual preferences , and fucked up enough, genetic females are pretty much the only ones who always just dont mind the idea of it or think its hot.

I like to bottom for tgirls , so straight people consider me gay, gay people just get annoyed and or think I am fucked up for liking cock but not theirs (Though lots usually just seem disapointed and or just walk away rudely) And tgirls, half of them would call me everything from a "Tranny chaser" To a "Closet faggot" To just saying they are a "Fetish" To me. Now I understand their point of view on the matter, most dont want to top, some get sick at the idea.... But for fucks sake, to straight up shun people that are attracted to trans women for something they cant help , someone that one day may go to bat for yo well that shit is just fucked up with what you girls have to go through in life (And I think ,and hope its going to get a load better for you ladies soon enough )

But really, you can ignore guys that like it, you can tell em "Not interested" But to be rude to someone based on what they like sexually? Honestly, the only thing I hate about myself, is my sexuality. I think I;d rather just be gay , I'd be able to find a good lay once in a while and instead of hearing some fucking slur half the time when I say what I like, I'd get to hear "Shitty I am a bottom too" LOL. But alas I got close to being with a dude once and I turtled like it was trying to turn into a vagina lol. Not for me... Not for me.

All I am saying is, Look at guys like me however you want, its your right, but be accepting and not a cunt about it. One girl called me a closet faggot, she had pics of her at a huge LGBT parade somewhere , in her profile she preached about LGBT rights, so in my reply I asked her "So where do I fit into in all that?" She tells me I am straight and blah blah blah...... From faggot to straight in 2 seconds flat! I know not all girls are like that, but I love trans women, but I gave up one them, I havnt met one in 8 years. Just saying, guys like me, or at least me, did not pick this as our sexuality and not all of us are just fucked up dudes wanting to get off.

I am just hoping at least a couple of girls read this and the next time they are on a dating site and about to type in "Bottoms go the fuck away, ewwww" You realize that you arent showing anything but that you are shallow, selfish, and just straight up intolerant, girls like you OF ALL people should know what the fuck its like to be shunned or shamed due to something you can't help. Right now I am looking at t girls again and looking to travel, and still, almost 10 years later I see the same profiles. you dont like bottoms? SAY IT, BUT SAY IT WITH SOME FUCKING CLASS.

Who knows how any of you guys or gals will respond to this, agree, disagree, call me a whiny shit, I have noticed I like how some people respond in this forum (Seriously, 10 times more mature then my gun forum... Aint that funny?... And a bit scarey)

[SanDiegoPervySage]

The LGBT pride thing is funny because it seems like they really aren't united, at least when it comes to gays and trans. Just going off of what I've read in chat groups and other forums, but they treat each other like shit. Referring to gays as fags and whatnot. Hell, some(and I only mean some) trans women who are far along in their transition will say some nasty shit about women who are not pretty enough, or very far or even began their transition, so there's discrimination within their own group. I mean damn. It's hard to give a shit their issues with so much pettiness floating around. I'm curious what the average, completely passable, 10/10 hot trans person feels towards the not so passable or attractive trans person.

[Laphroaig]

Most (though not all) trans girls want to be seen and treated fully as women. It could be argued that being a top isn't really compatible with that. If they are on dating (as opposed to escort) sites, then presumably they are looking for a long term relationship, during which they may want to undergo gender reassignment surgery, thereby losing the ability to top altogether. If the guy she's dating is a confirmed bottom, then there's a good chance of losing him at the same time. Why take that risk? Does it not make more sense to state that they are not interested in bottoms from the outset?

It's just the same as defining preferences on any dating profile where people will say "no ages under/over xx, no fatties, baldies, short arses, etc need apply", in order to try and maximise the chances of getting replies from "compatible" people only. I agree though, there's right and wrong ways to state those preferences.

[BCboyCOMINGatYA!]

Most (though not all) trans girls want to be seen and treated fully as women. It could be argued that being a top isn't really compatible with that. If they are on dating (as opposed to escort) sites, then presumably they are looking for a long term relationship, during which they may want to undergo gender reassignment surgery, thereby losing the ability to top altogether. If the guy she's dating is a confirmed bottom, then there's a good chance of losing him at the same time. Why take that risk? Does it not make more sense to state that they are not interested in bottoms from the outset?

It's just the same as defining preferences on any dating profile where people will say "no ages under/over xx, no fatties, baldies, short arses, etc need apply", in order to try and maximise the chances of getting replies from "compatible" people only. I agree though, there's right and wrong ways to state those preferences.

not sure if you're replying to MY post? I dont think you read it in its entirety. If your that lazy, save some time, read the second to last paragraph... And if being so lazy is a problem, read the upper case letters just at the end of the paragraph, thanks.

I dont need to be told that girls with vaginas cant top, thanks though.

[giovanni_hotel]

IMO it's no different than being guy into GG and telling those women you don't like to fuck and only want to be penetrated.

How do you think those women are going to react??

Most the TG women I know prefer to bottom even if they're vers.

How do you feel about being topped by a CD/DQ??

Just saying you might have better luck finding partners.

[BCboyCOMINGatYA!]

IMO it's no different than being guy into GG and telling those women you don't like to fuck and only want to be penetrated.

How do you think those women are going to react??

Most the TG women I know prefer to bottom even if they're vers.

How do you feel about being topped by a CD/DQ??

Just saying you might have better luck finding partners.

Again, its not about finding partners, I have accepted my partners will come when I open my wallet. Its about not being a fucking cunt.

I am not new to this, again, I think you need to read the entire post. Its about how someone says it. I am not into guys, but my profiles dont say "No men, stay away you faggots" There is way of saying it properly wouldnt you say?

"IMO it's no different than being guy into GG and telling those women you don't like to fuck and only want to be penetrated." Yeah.... I;d say its a little bit different since one might have the ability or even like to do it, while the other has a box. I am into GG , I dont have a choice lol, I top because I can and it gets me off, but its not what I love, so is that my fault that its what I like? I dont think so, again, READ the post, I said if I had a choice that wouldnt be it, and its the one and only thing I hate about myself

. AND , again, READ THE ENTIRE POST, most girls arent as against assplay as you might think I actually specifically said that females by FAR take that news the best.

I mean shit , you say "Only like to be penetrated" Come on man, you didnt even read the title of this post lol. I send a post out to girls and two guys dont read it and answer to it ?

[Laphroaig]

not sure if you're replying to MY post? I dont think you read it in its entirety. If your that lazy, save some time, read the second to last paragraph... And if being so lazy is a problem, read the upper case letters just at the end of the paragraph, thanks.

I dont need to be told that girls with vaginas cant top, thanks though.

Oh dear...

I take it then that you didn't read my final sentence which was a direct responsr agreeing with your upper case words...

[TheBlueEyedKid]

The bottom line (pardon the pun) is that people who discriminate against others because of their gender or sexual preference are usually weak and insecure about themselves. You're right to point out the hypocrisy of some trans people, but people like that normally get what's coming to them in the long run.

I have a related question. How many guys on here are open about their fondness for TS girls with their friends / family? I must admit I'm not. It's not because I'm afraid of being labelled as a homosexual, it's more that I wouldn't know where to start as I am not just a 'tranny chaser', I'm someone who simply finds women attractive whether they have a pussy or a cock.

I have been lucky enough to date a TS girl, I was always proud to be seen out with her, but it never got to the point where she met my friends or family.

Anyone here crossed that bridge yet?

[BCboyCOMINGatYA!]

Oh dear...

I take it then that you didn't read my final sentence which was a direct responsr agreeing with your upper case words...

You gotta beleive me that I tried to edit that post and for whatever reason it wont let me based on the fact it sounded a bit prickish when I reread it and it was not my intention

"If the guy she's dating is a confirmed bottom, then there's a good chance of losing him at the same time. Why take that risk? Does it not make more sense to state that they are not interested in bottoms from the start?" I figured that was in regards to or disagreeing with something I said, the question marks made me think so. Sorry, I am kind of annoyed I cant edit any of my posts

The bottom line (pardon the pun)
Anyone here crossed that bridge yet?

I havn't, hell, my family has barely ever met any of my gg girlfriends lol.

[Jericho]

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