Question for the guys!!!

[SashaLondon]

Hey everyone,

Although I've been on here a while, I haven't really posted much in the past. I feel like I'm at a bit of a crossroads in life, and have a question for you all!

I have been considering escorting for a while now.

So guys: Have you, or would you, date a trans girl who is currently escorting? What do you think are the pros and cons of it?
... I am single but just wondering what guys think about it.

Sasha xx

[Laphroaig]

Have a read.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...ng-a-TS-Escort

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Have not and would never.

Pros:........a source on income, you aren't selling drugs or contract killing

Cons: Dating someone who gets fucked for money. Hearing about their "day at work". Knowing someone is getting sexual with multiple other people on a regular basis. Unless I was allowed to fuck around with other girls, I wouldn't see it as fair although I would never want that in a relationship anyway. A girl who escorted in the past? Very unlikely. It would depend on how long ago it was, long she did it for and what her goals in life are. I'd most likely still not date her.

[tacocorp]

If the chemistry was there and all then possibly, but she would have no need to continue escorting then. Well, I've dated a gg dancer girl, which is different, but not by much?

Anyway, good luck

as for cons - the feeling that your gf had had sex with some possibly ugly dude, not the best one I'd assume, and I am not very jealous... so yea.

[Gillian]

Bound to be difficult, but "needs must" and all that. Whilst perhaps not so lucrative, is camming a possibility?


(Love your sunset photo, btw ... )

[SashaLondon]

Have not and would never.

Pros:........a source on income, you aren't selling drugs or contract killing

Cons: Dating someone who gets fucked for money. Hearing about their "day at work". Knowing someone is getting sexual with multiple other people on a regular basis. Unless I was allowed to fuck around with other girls, I wouldn't see it as fair although I would never want that in a relationship anyway. A girl who escorted in the past? Very unlikely. It would depend on how long ago it was, long she did it for and what her goals in life are. I'd most likely still not date her.

Interesting ... Have you ever paid to see an escort? If so, how do you justify that within yourself, to be able to have sex with a sex worker but not date a girl who is/used to be a sex worker?

[SashaLondon]

If the chemistry was there and all then possibly, but she would have no need to continue escorting then. Well, I've dated a gg dancer girl, which is different, but not by much?

Anyway, good luck

as for cons - the feeling that your gf had had sex with some possibly ugly dude, not the best one I'd assume, and I am not very jealous... so yea.

Well most trans women escort because of 1) lack of education, 2) poor job opportunity, especially due to point 1, and 3) because for a lot of younger girls surgery is very important to them.
... Now being in a relationship would not change any of them issues, unless you were happy to pay for any/all surgery that she wanted, and were happy to basically support her financially on a day-2-day basis too.

[SashaLondon]

Bound to be difficult, but "needs must" and all that. Whilst perhaps not so lucrative, is camming a possibility?


(Love your sunset photo, btw ... )

For me personally? Absolutely not.

I'm at university and I have two jobs - I'm thinking of escorting due to the privacy it would give me over web camming, which is especially important to my future career. Its just rather impossible living in central London and saving money for surgery even though I work (alongside my studies)

[scorpeo777]

no issues with escorts, some need to pay bills and other transformation expenses etc.

but as far as dating, I wouldn't date an escort as I'm not into sharing my girl. Just personal preference.

[soulvett]

I actually dated a GG who "escorted", I say that in quotations because it was more of a companion or girlfriend experience rather than just straight up sex, though I assumed it led to that generally at some point anyway. Really, it was tough, I cared for her deeply and we had a history before she took up that gig.. But I had issues in the bedroom with her simply because I kept thinking earlier in the day some other guy(s) was in her balls deep.

It fucks with you. We tried talking about it and working it out and that helped some, but in the back of my mind its there, and that's something I feel every guy (or girl, if roles were reversed) has to deal with.