Question for the guys!!!

[Lester316]

Guys might not give you the best answers; not sure how many have genuinely dated a TS-girl let alone an escort. Those that have done neither will only be making assumptions on how they will feel.

Perhaps ask for opinions from TS-girls who have escorted on how it affected their dating/relationships, you might get a more realistic reflection of how things can be by doing that.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Interesting ... Have you ever paid to see an escort? If so, how do you justify that within yourself, to be able to have sex with a sex worker but not date a girl who is/used to be a sex worker?

I have not. And it's easily justifiable to fuck an escort when you aren't dating her or anyone else. There is no potential for hurt feelings unless they wrong each other in some other way

[SashaLondon]

Guys might not give you the best answers; not sure how many have genuinely dated a TS-girl let alone an escort. Those that have done neither will only be making assumptions on how they will feel.

Perhaps ask for opinions from TS-girls who have escorted on how it affected their dating/relationships, you might get a more realistic reflection of how things can be by doing that.

I understand what you are saying, but I'm more interested in guys opinion of working girls, all the pros and cons in how they feel about the situation. I can imagine that guys can be put off by the situation but I'm interested in more than that.
Without being disrespectful to my sisters, I find that a lot of working trans girls views on men are a little ... tainted by their occupation. I don't want to hear "all men are dickheads, charge them all" type of speech which has happened when I've asked before

[SashaLondon]

I have not. And it's easily justifiable to fuck an escort when you aren't dating her or anyone else. There is no potential for hurt feelings unless they wrong each other in some other way

Very true. I think it there is upfront honesty on the situation, and no feelings of jealousy, then I guess some people are able to do it. I don't think if I did escort I could ever do it whilst being in a relationship, no matter how much I viewed it as work. In fact I've never really thought too much about escorting at all, up until recently when surgery became more of a priority for me.

Have you ever dated a trans girl or are you more of an admirer from afar?

[Jericho]

Pros: Free hooker sex.
Cons: Jealousy, mistrust, and eventually, an acrimonious break-up.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Very true. I think it there is upfront honesty on the situation, and no feelings of jealousy, then I guess some people are able to do it. I don't think if I did escort I could ever do it whilst being in a relationship, no matter how much I viewed it as work. In fact I've never really thought too much about escorting at all, up until recently when surgery became more of a priority for me.

Have you ever dated a trans girl or are you more of an admirer from afar?

If you could make it work, more power to you. I've kinda dated one but neither of us were very serious. Relationships don't interest me at all. It's not a TS thing.

[northshoreman52]

Next time I am in London, which hopefully will be soon, I would love to take you out on a date. Zuma's for drinks and dinner for a start? How does that sound?

[nysprod]

Hey everyone,

Although I've been on here a while, I haven't really posted much in the past. I feel like I'm at a bit of a crossroads in life, and have a question for you all!

I have been considering escorting for a while now.

So guys: Have you, or would you, date a trans girl who is currently escorting? What do you think are the pros and cons of it?
... I am single but just wondering what guys think about it.

Sasha xx

There are two basic broad categories of escorting

1. Taking all comers with cash. Escorting is their primary and pretty much only source of income.
2. Selectively choosing which people they'll see for cash. Escorting isn't their only source of income and for some reason, it's seen as a temporary situation.

As far as dating goes, no normal guy is going to date a #1...and for that matter the vast majority of #1's, gg or ts, have a low opinion of a man who'll date them.

Number 2 is a vastly different category...the question of dating depends on what's involved and who the girl is.

[hwbs]

I def have in the past many times... I say no for anything in the future.. Not for the obvious sex part.... Dealing with chasers 24/7 is very intrusive and very toxic part of escorting because these guys need to feel needed and wanted at all endless hours of the day...not to mention them randomly showing up at your place unannounced... I can't even go on a date here anymore without some chaser waiting for me to go to the bathroom at a restaurant so they can foolishly try to win her over

[nysprod]

I def have in the past many times... I say no for anything in the future.. Not for the obvious sex part.... Dealing with chasers 24/7 is very intrusive and very toxic part of escorting because these guys need to feel needed and wanted at all endless hours of the day...not to mention them randomly showing up at your place unannounced... I can't even go on a date here anymore without some chaser waiting for me to go to the bathroom at a restaurant so they can foolishly try to win her over

See what I mean? lol