Why is it so hard to start a relationship with a T-girl?

[NYTSJulie]

Correct me if I am wrong but don’t relationships usually start by meeting someone first, then you come to the decision if you want to be with them long term or not? I think for someone to say, “I want a relationship with a TS,” means they are seeking something more on the lines of sex. A statement like that says you’re not looking at who the person is but looking more at what that person is. So there for you are objectifying them, and I think a true relationship where there is true love is not about that objectification, so I say hire an escort and go get your rocks off.

Kiss Kiss,
Julie

[BeardedOne]

In my experience, 'true love' only exists on a Hallmark card, so I second the suggestion of finding an escort to meet your needs.

[DamionXXX]

Я Люблю Вас Ulyana, я Люблю только Вас ... теперь и для остальной части моей жизни.

[Dina Delicious]

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[Dkg]

But is it really so hard?
you meet her
talk to her
see if you share intrests, values, beliefs, etc
go on a few dates (hopefully invloving some sex )
and if you still have great intrest in each other then you have yourself a bonifide relationship
Works no different from a GG than a TG

It's like Julie said, you first have to meet them. Try going out to some parties or wherever the girls hang
Also it helps to not be ugly, and have some $$$

[Trogdor]

I keep getting put into the dreaded 'friends zone' with girls :P

[peggygee]

I want to date a tranny, and start a relationship and fall in love, but its so hard, will it always be wild sex or will there be a time when they wanna settle down...

Well, Youngmc, it's most likely because you haven't had a hit record since 1989s, ' Bust A Move".

And, that's why I don't have a man, cause I am such a wise ass

But on a serious tip finding and keeping a relationship with anyone is difficult. As you are most likely aware, a good proportion of heterosexual marriages or relationships end in divorce or breakup.

So seeking a 'happy ending' (some pun intended) of an LTR with a transwoman, really makes the odds more dificult. Transwomen are a relatively small subset of potential datable woman.

Factor in personality differences, age, culture, geography (your ideal mate is in a city half way around the world), perhaps they or you are in a relationship at that moment . Maybe you or they are caught up in your careers or educational goals.

There are literally millions of variables that may preclude Mr. and Ms. Right from getting together.

With all of that, it may seem as if it hopeless and doomed from the start. But I would suggest to maintain optimism. With the advent of Internet dating Ms. Right might be a keystoke away.

The key thing is to stay out there, be visible. Now that doesn't mean sitting on a bar stool every night with a gin and tonic. You will lose a liver, not gain a lover, that way

Be proactive, creative, seek her out, at events, parties, book stores, colleges, the Net.

And, if, and when you do encounter her, 'come' correct or you won't be 'coming' at all. We have heard just about every lie, line of bullshit, plea, promise, etc, imaginable.

For me personally, if a man comes at me like a gentleman, not like a perv. If he is intelligent, funny, polite, he has a shot. He doesn't have to be a millionaire, though I ain't feeling 'Willie The Wino, or 'Craig the Crackhead. :P

All, he really needs to be is sincere, and speak from the heart, and who knows, we could be sitting in rocking chairs, in the setting Sun, 50 years from now, holding hands, still in love.

[zerrrr]

If you want a relationship with a TS first thing you have to do is drop the sex side of the relationship. A lot of girls have heard the BS lines but first open yourself up to her and prove that you are worthy of being trusted. She may not let her guard down for a while but she has probably been screwed over (not sex wise) more times you can count. Prove to her that you are honest, trustworthy, and not embaressed by being with her in public. Skip the sex part, there will be a lot of time for that later. Work on the friend side first.

[zerrrr]

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[peggygee]

Always a good topic to revisit, for even though
there are more than a few who are only
intersted in transwomen for 'fetishitic'
reasons, there are indeed those who are
seeking LTRs.