Reality check: My first "I don't see black guys"

[BeardedOne]

you are comparing buying a TV to paying for sex? and you call me blind?

Really, teevees can be more expensive and come with warranties. Jeez.

[YasminLee]

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY ANYMORE...SEEMS LIKE SOME OF YOUR GUYS ARE JUST VERY IGNORANT.....I FEEL LIKE I'M EXPLAINING MYSELF TO GUYS THAT ARE SUPPOSIVELY INTO US MORE THAN I DO TO SOMEONE WHO ARE PROVOKED BY THE IDEA OF A CHICK WITHA DICK....CIAO I NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THIS PLACE..IT'S TO NEGATIVE...I NEED TO FOCUS ON ME RATHER THAN YOUR STUPIDITY....

[blackrob]

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY ANYMORE...SEEMS LIKE SOME OF YOUR GUYS ARE JUST VERY IGNORANT.....I FEEL LIKE I'M EXPLAINING MYSELF TO GUYS THAT ARE SUPPOSIVELY INTO US MORE THAN I DO TO SOMEONE WHO ARE PROVOKED BY THE IDEA OF A CHICK WITHA DICK....CIAO I NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THIS PLACE..IT'S TO NEGATIVE...I NEED TO FOCUS ON ME RATHER THAN YOUR STUPIDITY....

Please dont go but on a side note i'd love to see a movie with you and a hung black guy.

[Jamie Michelle]

I went to Los Angeles on a business trip and came back last week. While I was there, when I had free time, I decided I would do all the tourist stuff, try out new things, and have general good time overall. One of the things I wanted to try was a white TS with a large...scratch that....a HUGE package. I gave a few a girls a call, but to no avail, I had to start delving into the Latin pool, so I called ALYSSA.

http://www.erostranssexuals.com/chic...a-alyssa38.htm



When I called her she seemed friendly at first and then she made it a point to ask me what I was. I was a little confused by her question as she posed it, and then she clarified by asking me if I was black. I told her I was. And then she abruptly ended the pleasantries and told me she didn't see black men and I might wanna try other girls. I tried to get things back on track by explaining to her that there is no money problem as I definately have more than enough to satisfy her requirement. She just reiterated her "non-black-guy" stance.

I thanked her for her time and hung up.

I live in the Bay Area and I haven't really experienced that before because theres a little bit of everything here. I myself am a friendly, Articulate, squared-out and gainfully employed young mid to late 20's guy.

I now finally see what some folks who say, "I can't get a freakin cab", or "They wouldn't serve me right", etc.

I got over it with the next phone call but it wasn't nice to be treated that way.

I brought this up because one of the posters brought up a experience with Yasmin, and I don't know if the circumstances were similar, I just hope that some girls figure out that people come in all races both good and bad and all that shines isn't gold.

Maybe Alyssa isn't turned on by black men. Sucking a guy's cock and allowing a man to put his penis into one's rectum--or for that matter, putting one's penis into a man's rectum--is a very personal experience. Perhaphs Alyssa only allows that for men that she finds somewhat erotically attractive.

People like what they like. One can't very well blame a girl for not putting out if it's for someone she is not erotically attracted to. That's her right. It doesn't mean that she's a Grand Wizard in the KKK.

I personally find that looking at most Asian girls (whether genetic girls or T-girls) to be rather boring. Some of them really turn me on, but most don't do much for me.

But there are lots of girls (i.e., genetic girls and T-girls) who specifically seek out black men. Some do so because they're size-queens, and are looking for a big, black cock to ride. Whereas others find it kinky to be the "bitch" of a black man (playing off all the erotic taboos contained therein).

So far as the size issue is concerned, some girls (whether genetic girls or trannies) will mentally upsize a guy's cock if he is black. So if a black guy has an average 6" cock, some girls will think they're riding a monster cock just because it's black.

Overall, I'd say black men get more lays from being black than they lose.

Personally speaking, I've rode on and sucked quite a number of beautiful black cocks, including having my ass filled with loads and loads of man-cream from hard black cocks (i.e., me being fucked bareback by my black lovers). I've never had any problems with any of the black men I've been with. They've always treated me well.

[beatmaker]

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY ANYMORE...SEEMS LIKE SOME OF YOUR GUYS ARE JUST VERY IGNORANT.....I FEEL LIKE I'M EXPLAINING MYSELF TO GUYS THAT ARE SUPPOSIVELY INTO US MORE THAN I DO TO SOMEONE WHO ARE PROVOKED BY THE IDEA OF A CHICK WITHA DICK....CIAO I NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THIS PLACE..IT'S TO NEGATIVE...I NEED TO FOCUS ON ME RATHER THAN YOUR STUPIDITY....

Yasmin, I think you believe you are in your "Con Artist" thread, because no one is talking about you. This post had to do with a Eros escort named Alyssa.

Furthermore, just because you don't agree with someone's politics doesn't make them stupid. Maybe, if more black men knew where they stood in this society and had knowledge of self, you wouldn't have to deal with all of these buffoonish ass thug types, who are ignorant and have no pride in themselves or their history. Many close minded Christians types, will call you a "stupid man in a dress". Does that make them right? I find it stupid that a escort totally shoots down a black man, especially another person of color, based solely on his skin color. Yet, because we are discussing this and the mindset that drives it, you call us stupid and negative. Talk about blaming the victim!

Jamie mentioned something about attraction. That's an oversimplification, especially in the escort industry. If some white guy who looks like Norm from "Cheers" gets to third base, but a good looking, in-shape black man with a good job and income get's the door slammed in his face, there is a deeper psychology at work people! You could look like Tyson Beckford, Kobe Bryant or Boris Kodjoe and have money like them too, yet be met with resistance. Matter of fact, the only way a brother could score with someone like Alyssa, is if there were actually the three aforementioned celebrities and meet her at some function where their celebrity and wealth were apparent.

[Jamie Michelle]

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY ANYMORE...SEEMS LIKE SOME OF YOUR GUYS ARE JUST VERY IGNORANT.....I FEEL LIKE I'M EXPLAINING MYSELF TO GUYS THAT ARE SUPPOSIVELY INTO US MORE THAN I DO TO SOMEONE WHO ARE PROVOKED BY THE IDEA OF A CHICK WITHA DICK....CIAO I NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THIS PLACE..IT'S TO NEGATIVE...I NEED TO FOCUS ON ME RATHER THAN YOUR STUPIDITY....

Yasmin, I think you believe you are in your "Con Artist" thread, because no one is talking about you. This post had to do with a Eros escort named Alyssa.

Furthermore, just because you don't agree with someone's politics doesn't make them stupid. Maybe, if more black men knew where they stood in this society and had knowledge of self, you wouldn't have to deal with all of these buffoonish ass thug types, who are ignorant and have no pride in themselves or their history. Many close minded Christians types, will call you a "stupid man in a dress". Does that make them right? I find it stupid that a escort totally shoots down a black man, especially another person of color, based solely on his skin color. Yet, because we are discussing this and the mindset that drives it, you call us stupid and negative. Talk about blaming the victim!

Jamie mentioned something about attraction. That's an oversimplification, especially in the escort industry. If some white guy who looks like Norm from "Cheers" gets to third base, but a good looking, in-shape black man with a good job and income get's the door slammed in his face, there is a deeper psychology at work people! You could look like Tyson Beckford, Kobe Bryant or Boris Kodjoe and have money like them too, yet be met with resistance. Matter of fact, the only way a brother could score with someone like Alyssa, is if there were actually the three aforementioned celebrities and meet her at some function where their celebrity and wealth were apparent.

Actually, ARMANIXXX mentioned Yasmin in his original post in this thread.

And who cares if there are escorts that won't fuck black men, for whatever reason?

Not everyone is going to want to jump in bed with you, no matter what race you are, and no matter how famous or wealthy you are. It's not such a big deal. Get over it.

Belaboring this issue makes it seem as if black guys are so desperate that they worry about if an escort turns them down. Which is the opposite of what is the usual case, as there are more chicks that want to get with black men than there are chicks who won't sleep with black men. That is to say, black men get more ass for being black than they lose from being black.

I happen to know that black men have a lot to offer. All of my romantic experiences with black men have been wonderful. Indeed, I would be honored to be married to a kind black man, who would show me the same consideration as I've been shown by my previous black lovers.

There are tons and tons of white chicks (both genetic girls and T-girls) who won't have anything to do with white men. There are also lots of girls of color who won't sleep with white men. Are the white men who are thereby turned-down now going to cry racism? And maybe it is racism, but still, people like what they like when it comes to who they want to bed.

[truplaya4real]

Jamie, I'm a black man and I'd never give your manish crossdressin ass the time of day! Lookin like a long lost member of Van Halen! I don't know what kind of brothaz you been with but I'd say they were pretty desperate cuz you shole is ugly! Stop making up lies and go back to playing in your girlfriend's clothes!

[Legend]

If i girl doesnt wanna see you because you are black then she probably isnt worth your time but instead of crying and complaining try to find someone who will it may not be right but the girl has a right to turn down anyone she wants getting upset and bitter only proves her point.

[Jamie Michelle]

Jamie, I'm a black man and I'd never give your manish crossdressin ass the time of day! I don't know what kind of brothaz you been with but I'd say they were pretty desperate cuz you shole is ugly!

I thank you for your input.

Although lying is never good form. "Ugly" is hardly an adjective that applies to me, unless you have a very peculiar notion of beauty. If you dislike me because of what I speak, then say so. No need to invent an obviously absurd charge in order to vent your fustration with me.

Now, I am not on feminizing hormones at this time, and so I am not as feminine as I could be. (Though, I am rather feminine naturally, as I can't grow much facial hair and I don't have much body hair. And my hands, arms, and feet are quite dainty.) But even so, the term "ugly" hardly applies to me, as I still have stunningly attractive features. Again, unless your precepts of beauty are at great odds with the classical standards.

Classically speaking, I could quite easily qualify as a model for the Greek sculptors or Renaissance painters as an exemplar of human beauty. The charge of me being "ugly" is utterly absurd, unless by that term you have something in mind which goes against most people's understanding of the word.

As far as the kind of black men that I have been with, they were far more upstanding, kind, and honest men than you presently are. Compared to them, you're a dismal lout.

[TooProud2BeGay]

There are tons and tons of white chicks (both genetic girls and T-girls) who won't have anything to do with white men. There are also lots of girls of color who won't sleep with white men. Are the white men who are thereby turned-down now going to cry racism? And maybe it is racism, but still, people like what they like when it comes to who they want to bed.

If i girl doesnt wanna see you because you are black then she probably isnt worth your time but instead of crying and complaining try to find someone who will it may not be right but the girl has a right to turn down anyone she wants getting upset and bitter only proves her point.

Exactly.

You guys really need to stop with this "that's racist" bullshit, because it's not.

An escort can choose to fuck whoever she pleases, and that's her choice. Leave her the fuck alone. If you think they should fuck all races, then why not all sexes too, huh? Why don't you all start complaining at how some of these escorts only deal with men and not women? It's called freedom of choice. You can't take away theirs, and they can't take away yours. Deal with it.

People can have the right to chose all races, their own races, or opposite races if they feel, and if you don't fall into their preferences, than tough luck. Only reason you're making such a big deal is because people always want what they can't have.

There ARE girls out there who prefer black men and don't do other races,you can find them on certain sites (*looking for a tall black man/latinos only... etc). And how would you feel if people called you a racist because you didn't date a certain race, or preferred another race over all others? Doesn't matter if you charge for sex or not, you don't have to deal with people you don't feel like dealing with. These escorts have the freedom to be selective, charge how much they want, etc. Stop acting like they're supposed to colorblind robots.

It's not like she said "Fuck off, n****r" or some shit like that, she told you "I don't do black men". She doesn't have to give you a reason (probably some bad personal experience, who knows), she doesn't have to change her mind because you offered to pay her a lot, and you didn't have to post this. Now move on, and stop your whining.