first timer, worried experience will affect my attraction to genetic girls

[nysprod]

Hello, I have been very curious about transsexuals even before ever seeing porn, porn only made this stronger.

How did that happen...you must have been young and you haven't seen a tgirl for real, so if not via porn than what?

[whathappenedtome]

How did that happen...you must have been young and you haven't seen a tgirl for real, so if not via porn than what?

A documentary about ladyboys in Thailand

[Kioji]

My main worry is that if I try this, I will be more attracted to cock than vagina and I will be more thrilled by having sex with T girls than genetic girls.

So what? I'm not sure that's actually a problem Also are you seriously attracted to genitals and not the person with genitals that you like?
Like a vagina or penis by itself is nothing, it's meaningless without an attractive lady attached. I have never understood how people can identify with being attracted to genitals.
Are you attracted to Transmen, who have a vagina but present as male??

[Kioji]

How did that happen...you must have been young and you haven't seen a tgirl for real, so if not via porn than what?

It was the same for me i was interested in this before porn mainly due to the Greek figure Hermaphrodite, seeing stuff on bravo and docus about trans people but it was always in passing and it was not until i saw porn did i do my own research.

[whathappenedtome]

and I'm also worried about HIV/hepatitis/other STDs:

Male-to-female (MTF) transgender persons are individuals who experience discomfort with their biological male gender and identify instead as women. Members of this population confront multiple health risks,1 with HIV/AIDS constituting a particularly overwhelming social and medical issue. Estimates of HIV prevalence in the MTF transgender population range from 11% to 78%.2–9 However, few evidence-based transgender-specific HIV interventions exist.10,11

San Francisco, a city known for acceptance of sexual diversity, has a large, multicultural MTF transgender population. Data from anonymous HIV testing sites in San Francisco indicated an incidence rate of 7.8 per 100 person-years—the highest for any risk group in the city.12 Ethnic differences in HIV seroprevalence among MTF transgender persons have been reported in studies conducted in San Francisco and Los Angeles.2,8,12 African Americans showed the highest HIV seroprevalence (44%–63%), followed by Latinas (26%–29%), Whites (16%–22%), and Asian/Pacific Islanders (APIs) (4%–27%). Correlates of HIV-positive status include ethnicity (i.e., being African American), socioeconomic status (i.e., having less than a high school degree), lifetime sexual partners (i.e., > 200 partners), and lifetime history of injection drug use.2 Furthermore, HIVpositive participants were more likely than HIV-negative participants to report unprotected receptive anal sex (URAS) with primary partners and injection drug use in the past 6 months.2

[Caleigh]

Use protection if you are worried

[Caleigh]

As a non-escort who doesn't have multiple sexual partners I have to say that it kind of offends me that TS in general are lumped together with escorts who because of their work are a particularly high risk group. The statistics from SF were from anonymous HIV testing centres which means that they were taken from people who were testing themselves for HIV meaning that they themselves were worried because of their past behavior. There are many TS who barely date at all considering the lack of men who are prepared to have real open relationships with them who are instead looking for anonymous "discreet" interactions because they are in the closet and/or are in a relationship already and just want an "adventure".

[whathappenedtome]

As a non-escort who doesn't have multiple sexual partners I have to say that it kind of offends me that TS in general are lumped together with escorts who because of their work are a particularly high risk group. The statistics from SF were from anonymous HIV testing centres which means that they were taken from people who were testing themselves for HIV meaning that they themselves were worried because of their past behavior. There are many TS who barely date at all considering the lack of men who are prepared to have real open relationships with them who are instead looking for anonymous "discreet" interactions because they are in the closet and/or are in a relationship already and just want an "adventure".

Sorry did not mean to offend you.

I have always been fascinated by transformation as I mentioned earlier and before I discovered porn I never thought about the penis a pre op has. I just considered them to be the same as girls. When I discovered the porn genre it was after years of porn use and I have the feeling it's a result of porn addiction, always needing more intense stimuli to reach the same effect/ tolerance setting in. I cannot believe this is a genuine attraction unless you're bi maybe, but I'm not I find men disgusting sexually.

I would not have a problem dating a transgirl who I would consider to be the same as a genetic girl, but lusting after them for something many transgirls want to remove or feel ashamed of feels wrong. How would you feel if you were a girl trapped in a male body and had to use that 'tool' all the time to save money to get rid of it? For many having a penis seems to be something they are ashamed of and don't want, I think most transgirls want to have the full operation hence why many escort to pay for it. How could I ever feel good about myself playing with that 'tool' if I know it is something they don't want to have and causes them emotional pain?

I just think the fact I got into the porn genre is because of tolerance and addiction, very little to do with 'sexuality' or natural sexual tastes. While I would have no problem dating a transgirl who wants to have an operation and looks/feels like a genetic girl, I do have a problem with persuing a sexual interest that is entirely created by the porn industry and has is not innate at all.

[sockratees]

Why would being attracted to transwomen be an issue?

[whathappenedtome]

Why would being attracted to transwomen be an issue?

Because the vast majority of men who have this attraction are interested in pre-op transexuals or in other words a creation by the porn industry. THe vast majority of transwomen don't wan to be a 'chick with a dick' and they only use their tool to enter the sex industry and make money to get the operation that will get rid of that tool.

If the attraction would be 'I'm attracted to transwomen because they look exactly like a girl and I admire them for what they've been through and all the hard work they did to look exactly like a girl. I'm not bothered by the fact she was born a man', that is healthy and ok, the porn variant however cannot be healthy in my opinion for reasons I explained