I have never been "In the closet", therfore i don't really see a reason to "Come out of the closet" I just do what i do and don't really say anything about it. I have dated Trans women who are obviously Trans and no one has ever said anything to me. Although it wouldn't surprise me if some people I know talk behind my back. But as long as they don't comfront me with some rude commemts, i dont really care.

Although Natina is right. If you come out stating that you think of Trans as women and enjoy their company,9st people will call you a faggot. Especially if she is pre op. If you date a post op woman, they probably won't think you are a faggot as long as they know what post op is. But they will probably think you have psychological issues and self esteem issues.