Unreachable desires

[RallyCola]

what you are saying makes no sense because tgirl porn stars are just hot women. there is really nothing different about them than other hot women except if you can't get a ggirl who is a 10, you won't get a tgirl that is a 8. it's that simple. there is greater demand for a small supply of transwomen BUT that doesn't mean it is impossible.

this is the dude that impressed bailey jay and convinced her to marry him.


i think you are elevating porn stars because you think they are more than they are...they are just regular women who happen to be hot. if you are not able to find a non-porn star transwoman who is just as hot as the ones who fuck on camera, then clearly you don't know where to look. tgirl porn stars are NOT the only hot transwomen...they are just the ones comfortable enough to do porn. porn, simply, is not as lucrative as many fans think it is and also, is not for everyone. it takes a certain set of qualities to be able to fuck on camera and have that floating in the ethos forever.

if you are losing interest in tgirl porn because you will never fuck domino or bailey jay, you might as well not drive anymore because you will never drive a koenigsegg ccxr trevita...you might as well stop breathing because you will never smell the clean air atop Everest. that is the result of your line of thinking because if you can't have the best, what's the point!?!?!

[holzz]

porn isn't reality.

[niceguy4ts]

The porn business knows what makes a fantasy. That's why its a billion dollar industry. If a porn star escorts you have a chance to make that fantasy come true for a price. But that's it its not reality. After someone views so much porn their sense of reality changes and their motives become sexually charged. Im guilty I been sexually addicted to trans woman for a long time but having meet so many trans woman I see them all as a unique human being that can teach people so much. I will probably never be able to be in a relationship with a trans woman if I don't come to terms with my addiction. Trans woman just want to be accepted and loved like anyone else. The thing is the porn industry is out of control but people are making a lot of money on fulfilling fantasies. This addiction is suffocating me. The fantasy has made me delusional.

[RallyCola]

The porn business knows what makes a fantasy. That's why its a billion dollar industry. If a porn star escorts you have a chance to make that fantasy come true for a price. But that's it its not reality. After someone views so much porn their sense of reality changes and their motives become sexually charged. Im guilty I been sexually addicted to trans woman for a long time but having meet so many trans woman I see them all as a unique human being that can teach people so much. I will probably never be able to be in a relationship with a trans woman if I don't come to terms with my addiction. Trans woman just want to be accepted and loved like anyone else. The thing is the porn industry is out of control but people are making a lot of money on fulfilling fantasies. This addiction is suffocating me. The fantasy has made me delusional.

its not an addiction if you recognize the problem unless you are pushing old women into traffic and curb stomping little kids who are in your way to get home and fap.

it is just sex...if your only sexual goal is to fuck a porn star, then yes, you have a problem, but there really is nothing stopping you from having a relationship, if that is what you want, other than your sexual hangup which should be easier to cope with than you are eluding to.

[niceguy4ts]

Im not saying its an addiction for everyone but this is just in my case to where fantasizing about trans women has become compulsive for me. For some people its not an issue.

[RallyCola]

Im not saying its an addiction for everyone but this is just in my case to were fantasizing about trans women has become compulsive for me. For some people its not an issue.

when was the last time you were with a transwoman and, was she a porn star, or were you disappointed that she wasn't one?

[niceguy4ts]

I think my constant fantasizing about being topped by a trans woman is stopping me from having a healthy relationship with one.

[niceguy4ts]

I actually cant remember when. I think a yr ago. It wasn't with a porn star.

[RallyCola]

I think my constant fantasizing about being topped by a trans woman is stopping me from having a healthy relationship with one.

well, that can be viewed one of many ways of which 2 seem relevant to me. it could be so many other things so correct me if i am wrong.
1) you are reducing a transwoman to her anatomy and focusing on that
2) you are so enamored with getting fucked that other positions and her satisfaction are irrelevant

if either of these are true, or as stated any number of other potential reasons, you may be so anxious to get fucked that it ruins your chance of anything more. i honestly do believe that in a relationship...something based on mutual attraction that results in passion and potentially love, that even the most submissive bottom transwoman may top her man because that's the point of a relationship...to do what makes the other person happy because they make you happy. in that, i contend that if you are truly after more than just getting fucked, you just have to realize that the transwoman in front of you, unless you are paying her, is just a regular person who has needs, desires, urges, baggage and drama just like you do. once you come to that, it becomes easier. now, if you are paying her...fuck it...treat her like burger king...your way right away.

[martin48]

There's fantasies, there's sex (OK to wow), and there's relationships. All have a part to play - the mistake is thinking you can have all three at once, or that one leads to another.