First time advice - To do or Not to do

[JDeskimo]

I looked all over the site and couldn't find any post on this subject.

I have been an admirer for over a year now of TG's. My experience however has been limited to online boards, chatting and watching porn. I have no doubt that I’m very aroused by pictures of TG’s. I have considered paying a girl for her services, but I decided it wasn’t for me.

So my situation is that I have a friend online that would like to meet with me tomorrow for some adult fun. She is a CD whose pics I find very attractive. She is however a CD and not a TG, plus being aroused by pictures is very different from meeting. I’m not attracted to guys in anyway and have not experimented with any.

I’m in my twenties now and would like to know if I’m really attracted to TG/CD the same way I’m attracted to GG’s, instead of it coming out of me when I’m 40. I’m also tired of wishing girls that I’m with had more to offer. So I figure only one way to find out. It’s a big step though!

I would love to hear from anyone that has been in this position. There’s always is a first time for everyone.

Thanks for your comments. I’m nervous as hell, but excited as I’ve ever been. Kind of like right before your first kiss.

[scorpion]

Hard to say.
But i guess you should see her four a meeting like friends. and see how you feel four eachoters.
Dont ruch.. if you feel its okey... Go four it or wait or maybee it aint what you think. Leave it.
But I think you should see her and tell her about your feelings.... and then you find out.
God luck

[BeardedOne]

Like any first date, just take it a step at a time. Dinner, talk, etc.

Then, when you think you're ready for the next level, go for the usual pat-down (Looking for sharp objects, federal IDs, prenups and other dangerous weapons).

After that, only you can decide.

Good luck, and we'll expect a full report.

[scorpion]

exactly how i mean bearded...
Tell us about your date JDeskimo
Hope its gonna bee real nice

[JDeskimo]

I going to go see her and let things flow where they will. I'm really looking forward to it. I think my biggest worry might be that it ruins GG's for me ad I have to spend the rest of my life searching for the most rare of god's creatures.

I'm still open to any suggestions and I should be back with some sort of sorty in a day or so.

[TheOne1]

DO: wear a condom

[ARMANIXXX]

OP,

You do understand that a CD is a man in a wig and dress right?


As long as your ok then....well.......um.....ok then....good luck with that.

[DJ_Asia]

OP,

You do understand that a CD is a man in a wig and dress right?


As long as your ok then....well.......um.....ok then....good luck with that.

Co-Sign

[rt_saurus]

bump!

Hey - what happened on the date? I am in a similar situation with a local girl myself. She is very worried about being seen in her male guise and would prefer to meet me first en femme.

Spill eskimo

[JDeskimo]

1st off to the whole man in a dress comment: Grow up look in the mirror.
All of these TS women you chase after, at some point where early in there transition and I'm sure they still beautiful people. Sure they might be missing some cosmetic features, but there are some beautiful CD's out there that can pass with or without surgery and they can always leave their shirt on.

Anyways the date:
It went well. A little nerve racking, I felt like I did going on my first date in high school. She defiantly put alot of time into getting ready, she was beautiful. I took the advice of the more experience people on the site and took it slow. Thanks for the input. After talking for awhile I found out that she meets a number of guys on a regular basis. That kind of turned me off, but to each their own. Call me a romantic, but I decided that I would like to find someone I can be more exclusive with. I’m not only concerned about STDs, but I would like to have a deeper relationship.

We didn’t “do” anything just hung out and got to know each other and we have hung out a couple times since then.

All in all it was a great time and I have a new person to call a friend