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07-14-2015 #1
Examining Trans Attraction
My latest article for Eros, "Examining Trans Attraction," has gone up on their blog. It's far from definitive, but it's the observations I've made from meeting people who do dig transsexuals. Given that's the majority of you all here on HA, I'm curious to hear your thoughts on the article. Am I off base? On the money?
Originally Posted by Wendy Summers on blog.eros.com
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07-14-2015 #2
Re: Examining Trans Attraction
Originally Posted by Wendy Summers
Note, I put this in terms of desire instead of identity. I understand the need of some people to identify as gay or transgender. But to me, there's also no problem in describing oneself through one's desire, without any identity label. That's why I don't get wrapped up in any of the labeling. I desire this and that, and I don't need any special identity for what this or that is. Anyway, good food for thought.
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07-14-2015 #3
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Wendy,
Appreciate your perspective - thanks much for writing & posting!
I myself am a 100% top who views transgender women simply as "women". Not sure if I fit any of the "categories" (if one has to binned as such).
Anyways - thanks again for the read!
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07-14-2015 #4
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I think the reason I challenge Kinsey's scale is while it's a better description than the binary, it still looks at sexuality on a two-dimensional spectrum and is still beholden to the fallacy of a gender binary. I think that falls short of explaining how men like MrFanti can be attracted to women with penises but not into a small subset of men with penises. I think a scale like the Kinsey scale, but with multiple axes would be a better representation of the complex realities of sexuality.
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07-14-2015 #5
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Great Read Wendy
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07-14-2015 #6
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Excellent read Wendy. Thank you for sharing it with us.
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07-14-2015 #7
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Wendy I agree regarding the need for multiple axes to describe the non-binary nature of human sexual attraction. However, I get lost trying to think of just how to lay out such a graph. An x/y axis graph is still too simplistic, and even then I'm not sure what the four quadrants would be, let alone an x/y/z 3D graph which would probably be more accurate. Many t-attracted males, like MrFanti, claim to be 100% top who see transwomen as women, but what of those who are versatile, that is, attracted to transwomen as women but also desire a mix of top and bottom action? And so many other flavors. A very interesting question.
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07-15-2015 #8
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You make some very interesting points. This area is so gray. Transsexuals are not in nature, physically speaking. I can only speak for myself about why I am attracted to transsexual women. It runs pretty deep in some parts. Their femininity from their faces, large fake breast, and cocks turn me on. Cocks on men don't do anything for me.
In my opinion men who desire masculine male to female transsexuals are more on the gay side. They are simply into the masculinity more than anything feminine.
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07-15-2015 #9
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"I am, a SIGMA Male...
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07-15-2015 #10
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the story of DICK LUBERS .
lose your dick lose a luber.
the number of samples you need is only like 470 or slightly higher to get a high confidence rate!
Last edited by natina; 07-15-2015 at 03:53 AM.
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