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[melody mayheim]

Some men do you dirty and you just dont think right. You become crazy n do anything to make them feel the pain you are feeling. Ive downright exposed guys secret to family n friends...why consider their feelings? Do they think of urs? Guys will say anything to get laid. Its pathetic. But ultimately thats not a good idea..its not safe. People will do everything to break their family...but will also do anything to keep it. I watch the investigation discovery channel! People are CRAZY! Point is why cant people just be upfront about who they are n what they want??? There's no reason to bullshit me...there's millions of fish in the sea

[giovanni_hotel]

Some of the greatest homophobia in this country is directed towards men attracted to TS.
Most folks just can't accept or understand how a 'straight' man can be into both GGs and TGs.

Outing someone to be vindictive is just immature IMO. If a guy isn't living his life out to the world, how is screwing his just to prove a point helping anyone, except to make the TS feel good about herself??

If a guy treats you like only a fuck, treat him in kind as only a trick.
Don't put your emotions out there for a guy who's only willing to see you behind closed doors.

What TS don't understand is when they start outing men, it confirms most of our worst fears about TS; they're all angry, insane and beyond crazy. Approach at your own risk.

BTW saying a guy did you dirty is relative. You'd have to give me general details before I could judge whether or not some dude deserved to be outed.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Some of the greatest homophobia in this country is directed towards men attracted to TS.
Most folks just can't accept or understand how a 'straight' man can be into both GGs and TGs.

Outing someone to be vindictive is just immature IMO. If a guy isn't living his life out to the world, how is screwing his just to prove a point helping anyone, except to make the TS feel good about herself??

If a guy treats you like only a fuck, treat him in kind as only a trick.
Don't put your emotions out there for a guy who's only willing to see you behind closed doors.

What TS don't understand is when they start outing men, it confirms most of our worst fears about TS; they're all angry, insane and beyond crazy. Approach at your own risk.

BTW saying a guy did you dirty is relative. You'd have to give me general details before I could judge whether or not some dude deserved to be outed.

Agreed.
If someone wants a private life, that's their choice. If you try to ruin their lives, don't be surprised if someone retaliates. That's not good and it's not safe. What does liking TS have to do with breaking your family.

Also, a lot of people say they want you to be straight up when they know they can't handle the straight up truth.

[melody mayheim]

I'm saying Ive done it before..but completely agree its not right. I dont have to deal with it. If someone wants to live discreetly for the rest of their life..thats there business.. But I also feel that if your not open or comfortable in ur own skin...then maybe you shouldnt get involved with someone n mess with their feelings n emotions. Go watch porn. Now if i know ur situation n we have an agreement..thats ok...but to portray someone ur not just to get laid is ridiculous. I feel most men will say n do anything to get laid. Ive had guys willing to drive hours..fly states away just to visit. Who does that? I always get labeled crazy..bitch..etc etc i think all women do...but I only treat people the way they treat me. Real talk.

[martin48]

"Point is why cant people just be upfront about who they are n what they want???"

'cos we are driven by all sorts of desires that family and society judges as deviant. Or we feel that they might judge us that way.
Were you totally open about your desires and needs throughout your life? I suspect not - very few of us are.

Be hard on the bastards but not on the whole of humankind.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

I'm saying Ive done it before..but completely agree its not right. I dont have to deal with it. If someone wants to live discreetly for the rest of their life..thats there business.. But I also feel that if your not open or comfortable in ur own skin...then maybe you shouldnt get involved with someone n mess with their feelings n emotions. Go watch porn. Now if i know ur situation n we have an agreement..thats ok...but to portray someone ur not just to get laid is ridiculous. I feel most men will say n do anything to get laid. Ive had guys willing to drive hours..fly states away just to visit. Who does that? I always get labeled crazy..bitch..etc etc i think all women do...but I only treat people the way they treat me. Real talk.

Are these dudes people you date or are you escorting? How are you meeting so many out of town dudes? You're right, flying states away and driving hours is stupid, but most guys won't do that shit, especially fly. And treating someone like a secret isn't the same as treating someone by outing them, so the labels are accurate with that kinda mess.

And guys say the things they say to women because they know it'll work. Guys take advice from other guys on how to get laid, not advice from women, because that shit gets you nowhere. Guys would be up front if they could, but we have to tap dance and bullshit for a little before we get anywhere.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

"Point is why cant people just be upfront about who they are n what they want???"

'cos we are driven by all sorts of desires that family and society judges as deviant. Or we feel that they might judge us that way.
Were you totally open about your desires and needs throughout your life? I suspect not - very few of us are.

Be hard on the bastards but not on the whole of humankind.

Nobody is.

[lifeisfiction]

So when do you mean kept a secret. I must ask in terms of what. Do you mean that they don't tell all their friends and family or they introduce to some of their friends and family. Some times it used as blanket statement. I have some family members that would never approve. They have treated me well, but then again I don't tell them my business anyways. Then are some who would be fine.

Then what is the circumstances of the relationship. If you are my shag buddy to be honest I am not introducing my shag buddy to my family or friends does not matter if they are ts or gg. I am not one to talk about my sex life. I can see it now, introducing two chicks that I am having threesomes with to my parents. Not going to happen. Never had problems with it, because I am not trying to meet their friends and family as well.

If the guy has you as the side chick, it doesn't matter if you are ts and gg, they don't want their business to be out there. If you have agreed to be the side chick, well remember, you can never be number one. That is why you are the mistress. You obligation for such an arrangement is secrecy. If one doesn't like the whole secrecy its not best for them.

If it's and escort relationship then anonymity is an obligation.

Not saying people can't be shady, but I would need more details about the situation.

[Jericho]

There might be millions of fish in the sea...but most of them are old haddock.
Use a bit of bullshit as bait, you might just catch a marlin!

[Lester316]

Some men do you dirty and you just dont think right. You become crazy n do anything to make them feel the pain you are feeling. Ive downright exposed guys secret to family n friends...why consider their feelings? Do they think of urs? Guys will say anything to get laid. Its pathetic. But ultimately thats not a good idea..its not safe. People will do everything to break their family...but will also do anything to keep it. I watch the investigation discovery channel! People are CRAZY! Point is why cant people just be upfront about who they are n what they want??? There's no reason to bullshit me...there's millions of fish in the sea

To point out your own words at the start: 'Some men'. And at the end 'there's millions of fish in the sea'. Both of these are very true. Some men may have hurt you, lied to you and let you down - but there are millions of fish in the sea. This is not a fact exclusive to relationships involving a TS girl but all people. The best advice anyone can give you is if it doesn't work out because the other person didn't do right by you is your own, move on there are plenty more people out there. And 'outing' someone's secret and then posting about it because you were upset is only going to reduce those numbers by making you look bad anyhow.