Oral Sex

[ilovesalt1892]

Hello everyone, this is my first posting for my favorite site. The last few years I really have come to love transsexual women. I have a question or I am trying to make sense of something. Not trying to be disrespectful. If the mods dont like, they can delete this post. One thing that I really love like most of us is the transsexual cocks. Mostly thick and big. But I am trying to understand why so many t-girls dont like having their cock sucked or touched. Its so beautiful and so many guys go down on girls with a vagina. To me she IS a woman regardless of the sex. I am only looking for mutual pleasure and to love her body. I cant see myself paying for it ever and I am not gay or attracted to men at all. Are there transwomen who just dont care so much or embrace what I am talking about? Also I could see the psychology in a way cause I hate seeing guys faces in porn most of the time. But yeah most of the time any pictures are posted or whatever the cock is a big thing to show off. Why show it off so much if we cant love it, love you whole for how you came into the world? If I was about to have sex with a women who happens to have been born with a penis and I could not suck it or touch it, I would respect her decision and enjoy the moment perhaps cumming on her ass, tits, or on her mouth or face if she allows. I guess what bothers me is this dominance thing. Why worry about it so much than just having fun. I mean the dominant alpha male can be expressed in so many ways not just through sex. Especially just being open and normal about the relationship. I think she would love me for that, rather than keeping her a secret. Anyways thanks in advanced. Love this site all the best to everyone.

[saifan]

But I am trying to understand why so many t-girls dont like having their cock sucked or touched.

It's the part of the body that they (for the most part) are uncomfortable with.

Also, get over paying for it. So many guys let pride get in the way of a good time.

[ilovesalt1892]

But I am trying to understand why so many t-girls dont like having their cock sucked or touched.

It's the part of the body that they (for the most part) are uncomfortable with.

Also, get over paying for it. So many guys let pride get in the way of a good time.

Ok, I'll agree that some if not a lot of them find that the most uncomfortable part of their body. But I cant believe that all transwomen find it uncomfortable. There has to be one transwoman who embraces it or sees it differently.

Secondly when it comes to sex, I don't believe in paying for it. I invested too much time in myself to learn about relationships and how dating works or how guys and girl or people in general come together to be naturally attracted to one another. Also if one makes their living having people pay them for sex, it invites the std diseases. Not saying they will get one, one can be safe and have sex but I dont know if I would be interested in going on a date with a woman who does that for a living. By the way, I am not saying I am better than anyone who chooses to date someone like that or does that for a living. Also I recently learned that it could be very hard for transwomen to find work cause so many employers may discriminate.

[saifan]

Oh, there are girls that enjoy it sure... for example my girlfriend will get into oral play on occasion. It's just a matter of not obsessing over it and seeming like a "cock hound".

[Instrumental]

Yeah, I'm not in to posting either. Turning sex into a business transaction is awful. Not from a moral standpoint, but from the standpoint off how enjoyable it is. Screw that man, don't compromise your taste and preferences.

[ilovesalt1892]

Oh, there are girls that enjoy it sure... for example my girlfriend will get into oral play on occasion. It's just a matter of not obsessing over it and seeming like a "cock hound".

We'll see, I pray of meeting a woman who likes it and likes that for whatever reason. Seeing the image of some of these woman that are so beautifully blessed with such equipment. Especially when its in your face with video and pics all over the net. But for me it more than a beautiful thick cock. Especially when the rest of her body looks attractive, from the face,eyes, hair, feet, good skin, tits omg and of course yes her ass. I could settle for once and a while but I would prefer whenever I want. I dont know. Haven't even even gotten a chance to meet any of these transwomen.

Yeah, I'm not in to posting either. Turning sex into a business transaction is awful. Not from a moral standpoint, but from the standpoint off how enjoyable it is. Screw that man, don't compromise your taste and preferences.

Yeah its not for me. I am not that desperate. I like to have a girl like me for me. Paying her in my mind is her internally saying he had to pay me to get me cause on the street he couldn't get a girl like me. No thanks that's just me. Spent plenty of time in the trenches with women, dealing with rejection, getting phone numbers, relationships(good/bad). Learned alot over the years.

[saifan]

It's all about options and opportunities. I ended up having a 5+ relationship that started as a business transaction.

[ilovesalt1892]

So I recently found more information. I didnt even know there are non-op transwomen. I heard that these women are more comfortable with their genitalia and have no intention of doing SRS. Does anyone know if these women consider things like breast implants ok? Do they have that done? I am a little confused. Has anyone been with a non-op? Thanks.

By the way I think about transwomen all the time now. I look forward to meeting one so bad. I am afraid that I'll say or do the wrong thing. I mean not to disrespect one in anyway. We're all just people. Just finding one who is comfortable with what I like. Oral sex seems sexy to me. Personally I am not interested in ever having anal done to me. Never. But me screwing her from behind I am interested in, if she is game.

[GrimFusion]

Nonop girls aren't always down for receiving oral either. It doesn't necessarily mean they're more comfortable; could just be they don't relish the idea of going under the knife, they're worried about a botch-job, or figure that if sex is going to require lube, it defeats the purpose of full GRS/SRS.

It sounds to me like you're not necessarily willing to pay to preform oral for a girl who's just giving you want you want instead of enjoying it. Good luck on that quest, though dude. You're talking about a minority of a minority here. Honestly, if you wanna suck some dick, you'd have a MUCH better chance finding a dude who's willing. If that's just not your thing, my apologies, but the point still stands.

What you're talking about right now is a fetish. There's nothing wrong with being fetish-driven. A ton of the guys around here are. If you can somehow move PAST that, though you'll probably find that the transwomen around you act more relaxed too and your chances of hooking up increase. You ain't gotta lie to kick it, though. You can't just act like it ain't no thang. Get your first experience or two out of the way first, and then figure it out.

You don't have to feel meek for being inexperienced. Believe it or not, the vast majority of guys who claim to be transattracted have NEVER been with a transwoman. I really wouldn't be surprised if that's also true for a small majority of guys around here who claim to have had previous experience. You're not alone.

I know you have this perfect little scenario worked out in your head where you're having sex with the very first transwoman you're able to strike up conversation with, but is that how s*** works with GG's? Nah. Not so much. You're still going to have to woo a chick and risk getting turned down.

[ilovesalt1892]

Nonop girls aren't always down for receiving oral either. It doesn't necessarily mean they're more comfortable; could just be they don't relish the idea of going under the knife, they're worried about a botch-job, or figure that if sex is going to require lube, it defeats the purpose of full GRS/SRS.

It sounds to me like you're not necessarily willing to pay to preform oral for a girl who's just giving you want you want instead of enjoying it. Good luck on that quest, though dude. You're talking about a minority of a minority here. Honestly, if you wanna suck some dick, you'd have a MUCH better chance finding a dude who's willing. If that's just not your thing, my apologies, but the point still stands.

What you're talking about right now is a fetish. There's nothing wrong with being fetish-driven. A ton of the guys around here are. If you can somehow move PAST that, though you'll probably find that the transwomen around you act more relaxed too and your chances of hooking up increase. You ain't gotta lie to kick it, though. You can't just act like it ain't no thang. Get your first experience or two out of the way first, and then figure it out.

You don't have to feel meek for being inexperienced. Believe it or not, the vast majority of guys who claim to be transattracted have NEVER been with a transwoman. I really wouldn't be surprised if that's also true for a small majority of guys around here who claim to have had previous experience. You're not alone.

I know you have this perfect little scenario worked out in your head where you're having sex with the very first transwoman you're able to strike up conversation with, but is that how s*** works with GG's? Nah. Not so much. You're still going to have to woo a chick and risk getting turned down.

Thanks so much for replying. Yeah what I am really finding out with transwomen is "it really depends". It depends on how they feel about everything. I am thinking about a few things in my head like a future relationship with one of these women. Like suppose I do find a t-girl and she is very beautiful and has a great personality, I am thinking of running with it. I dont know right now. But yes I admit I never been with one. I have been around alot of gg's and over the years with the girls I dated and been with I learned about women. I definitely have eyes and ears open now being more experienced. As for the transwomen paying thing...again I don't look down on them for doing what they want or have to do to make money or have fun or whatever reason they are putting themselves out there. Also I am not into shaming anyone for paying for a transwomen. But its going to be hard for me to have or consider that encounter. Like I mentioned I know how to excite women just by being myself and doing and saying all the right things that attracts a girl. I really am listening though when you say a minority, minority. I am straight. Finding a transwomen who is accepting, beautiful, good personality, that is turned on by me naturally. That is a small minority but women attraction themes I am aware of(what attracts women). Also I hear some clients have turned into relationships over time. I dont know it requires me to think on it more. Also another thing is the fact that if I agreed to pay her, how many other men has she seen recently or in that same day? You know what I mean? But I guess the same could be said for a gg. Then there is the whole std thing and being able to talk to a transwomen about the situation like an adult. The mentioning of can we have bloodtests before we sleep together? If I met a transwomen and we at the moment where were about to have sex I wouldn't use language that even mentioned her genitalia unless she brought it up. I would say something like, do you have any things you dont like or things you like? Still learning.