Can You Be Considered High Class When You Sell Sex?

[Fairly Lussier]

I read a thread on here recently, which I can no longer locate, so I have started a new thread. It made a very interesting point about having class, and selling sex .... and how really the 2 ideas conflict with each other. It raised the point that to sell yourself for sex to another person, eliminates the possibility of having any class whatsoever. It raised a similar point for porn stars.

This was actually raised by a ts girl,who herself was an escort,and it is a point I agree with, I mean no matter how much money you make as an escort, you cannot buy class. You can live in the middle of Mayfair, Chelsea, Upper Manahattan or Beverly Hills, you can wear Chanel, Fendi or Versace, you can stay at the Ritz or the Dorchester, but none of this gives you class, you either have it or you do not. When you sell yourself for sex, you can call yourself High Class, and you can charge ridiculous amounts of money ... but when it all comes down to it ... you are a prostitute, plain and simple.

In the a fore mentioned thread, some people people felt that class was defined by personality, and how you treat other people. They felt that a lot of these girls have no option but to escort, due to their looks, and how passable they are. Due to them being alienated by their family, and friends, and being black balled by society. I used to be in this group of thought too.

However, when you have a girl who has had so much surgery prior to the age of 19, that she has finished her transition. Who is so convincing, she could do anything she wants. Who has the support of her family and friends in her transition. Who has a place at university studying law. Who drops out, sells herself for sex, against the wishes of her family, in turn alienating herself from them, and takes crystal meth. Can she really be considered high class? or even low class for that matter? I'm sorry but in my humble opinion you cannot possibly be described as having any class at all. Calling yourself high class, or a VIP and charging people excessive amounts of money doesn't change this fact .... it simply means people are dressing something to appear as something else, in order to stroke ones own ego, and I feel That! ..... is quite sad.

[topboy]

I agree with you 100% but you gotta keep in mind that most of these girls are delusional and think money can buy class, so let them think the way they want to think.

[Jericho]

Ok, come on, name 'em, who knocked you back?

[Fairly Lussier]

Knocked me back? Rather cynical, and quite far from the truth. No naming names, Im in enough trouble as it is. Someone I used to date, who I ex-communicated actually. Due to the points made above.

[Jericho]

So, not cynical at all, really!

If you've an axe to grind, why not come out and say that, rather than beat about the bush.

[Fairly Lussier]

No, no axe to grind.

On the previous thread, people made the argument that most girls have no choice but to do it. I was merely using my personal experience to highlight a point that this is not always the case, and that some people make a choice to do it. Hence raising the issue of the class debate.

I will say no more on this thread myself, other people can give their opinions, which is the point

[trish]

Can anyone be considered high class if they sell their labor; i.e. burn their own calories to provide a service? Whatever that service may be? How about if they grind burrs off molded aluminum beer steins? Or shuffle papers in accounting? Feed and mow lawns in Beverly Hills? Or draw espressos for the patrons of a coffee shop? A blow job is a blow job and every job is a blow job. Who’s to judge whether the people giving them or the people buying them are high class? If you find worth in your work and you do it well, what the hell?

Isn’t the whole notion of class a bit repulsive? It’s just an excuse for passing judgements on personal worth. E.g. He’s just a blue collar worker. She’s a prostitute and always will be. [Just last week an escort in these forums called me a prostitute! WTF?] If you’re okay with yourself and what you do to supplement your income or make a living, that’s class enough for me (as long as you aren’t hurting anyone in the process).

[Bridgettaxo]

huh? yes you can..

[christianxxx]

let's be clear, you are incorrectly painting all sex workers with a broad brush.

prostitutes are streetwalkers - selling sex on the street to random johns for 50 quid

we are talking about escorts/companions - selling sex online for much higher rates to a much wealthier clientele.

So your premise is false on its face. High class escorts are way way way above prositutes, even though the actual definition is the same.

[Bridgettaxo]

i don't see what other people judgement has to do with self worth? screw that idea! we all are valuable spiritual beings.. this whole thing is absurd..