Rant about shemales

[saifan]

my apologies for 1- misuse of terminology and 2- not being clear in my post, my post was written out of frustration.

Lets get things clear, i do not expect sex on the first date this is the whole idea of going on a date it is to get to know the other person its to see if your personalities match etc.

I understand that you might be in a relationship with your client and thats great but it doesn't feel right (personally for me anyway) that i could date someone that i used to pay for sex, it doesn't sit right with me.

So no i dont expect sex on the first date, yes i would pay for dinner but in no way should i have to pay for her to come out to dinner, and then pay for dinner the whole point of going out is to get to know each other i dont want anything from her and it should go vice versa in my opinion, meaning she shouldn't just expect me to pay for her 'time' thats bullshit, UNLESS it was a transaction of money for sex, but a date isnt a transaction and to the person who said relationship is transaction i disagree entirely, relationships are supposed to be deeper than physical attractions and actions.

I was a client exactly 1 time. I've know this girl for 6 years now and she is now one of my best friends. I don't understand the hang up with "paying" for it. Your problem as that might be how you're meant to find your "soul mate".

[Lester316]

I was a client exactly 1 time. I've know this girl for 6 years now and she is now one of my best friends. I don't understand the hang up with "paying" for it. Your problem as that might be how you're meant to find your "soul mate".

I'd say that's a little unfair Saifan, yours is a very unique situation and can hardly blame the original poster for wanting to meet someone separate to meeting them as an escort, particularly seeing he already has had negative experiences with escorts.

On another note to the original poster Eva is right, if there aren't TS specific bars/clubs head to other LGBT places, people have to have someplace to go after all.

[Tapatio]

OP, thanks for clarifying.

But if she's an escort, you are DEFINITELY paying for her time or you aren't seeing her. (Not at first, anyway, unless she picks you up- and that's probably not happening online.)

In the US time is all you pay for. Anything even close to sex is incidental. It says so right on the escort ads.

If you choose to take her to dinner while paying for her time, you pay for that too.

If your complaint is that too many TS are escorts, that's a different rant.

[Jamie French]

The moment a trans girl senses that a guy wants them for what they are rather than who they are it becomes a cash only proposition. That's the nature of our particular little slice of life. Interaction with a guy has to be 100% fluid and organic and we generally have to pick YOU - not the other way around. This means most dudes interested in us have to pay because the level of game you must possess is beyond the scope of most men who are into us.

It's why 'transbianism' is becoming so popular amongst girls these days. Why put up with bullshit and creepy guys when there are people in this world who you can readily identify and connect with without any weird hassles?

Protip: Wanna score a tranny with ease? Be born one.

[itsnotme]

theres only afew trans girls ive ever really liked or been bothered with just go for a cis girl my friend less complicated just trying to get with some trans girls not worth it especially if they work in the adult industry which tends to turn people into asshole no offense to the pornstars and not everyone in the adult industry

[Jamie French]

Porn doesn't turn people into assholes. The business attracts a certain kind of person. Assertive, personally ambitious, image conscious, self important, sharp tongued natural promoters searching for a buck and the next big dopamine fix.

Assholes.

(This is not an indictment. Possibly a thinly veiled bio.)

[itsnotme]

i made no statement on your character lol nothing wrong with being assertive or confident unwarranted self importance really rubs me up the wrong way so you fuck for a living lol dosnt make you the shit get back down to earth with everyone else lol

[Jamie French]

And another post goes soaring over another head.

i made no statement on your character lol nothing wrong with being assertive or confident unwarranted self importance really rubs me up the wrong way so you fuck for a living lol dosnt make you the shit get back down to earth with everyone else lol

[itsnotme]

ok i see what your saying now at least you know your abit full of yourself :P

[Deimos]

get out... meet people.... TALK to them... like they are... you know... people, not objects of sexual desire.

worked for me.