Would you date an escort?

[Mike11]

I have been visiting this TS escort a few time since last year and she is gorgeous and quite a sought after escort in London. She has been really nice to me and very generous with her time and services. She keeps dropping hints at going out and stuff. I kind of say "yes sure and that would be really nice" but have not taken it beyond that.

Is it a good idea to go on a date? I really like seeng her as it is and happy to pay the fee for no strings attached fun. As much as I would love to take her out (she is totally passable) I am afraid of spoiling a good things. I wondered if others may have any thought/experience of this.

[Elisabeth_TS]

I think you are asking the wrong question, what you should be asking first and foremost is, "how would you feel knowing that while you are dating she will be having sex regularly with other people?"


Because if you can't deal with that, then you won't have any chance at making things work. Oh and then there is this blog post which is really worth a read too on dating a sex worker http://christianbvega.blogspot.co.uk...ex-worker.html

[Jericho]

If you can separate business from pleasure, sure, go for it.
If not, run Forrest, run!

[jimme747]

D. E. That was a great blog, reading material for all relations.

[Mike11]

I think you are asking the wrong question, what you should be asking first and foremost is, "how would you feel knowing that while you are dating she will be having sex regularly with other people?"


Because if you can't deal with that, then you won't have any chance at making things work. Oh and then there is this blog post which is really worth a read too on dating a sex worker http://christianbvega.blogspot.co.uk...ex-worker.html

Thats it you see. I am not really interested in that type of intense relationship. Even if I went out with her, it would be for fun and I would be happy to contimue paying her for sex. I am afraid however that meeting in this way will make the lines blurred and I can potentially end up spoiling a good thing. I must admitt though that I am quite tempted as apart from looking great, she is great company.

[Rusty Eldora]

I think you are asking the wrong question, what you should be asking first and foremost is, "how would you feel knowing that while you are dating she will be having sex regularly with other people?"


Because if you can't deal with that, then you won't have any chance at making things work. Oh and then there is this blog post which is really worth a read too on dating a sex worker http://christianbvega.blogspot.co.uk...ex-worker.html

A very good link. I have a provider girlfriend (cis girl) and we are doing well. One cannot be jealous, be prepared to share with others someone you find special.

In the initial and intermediate I still paid for when we had sex, there is a big worry in women - do they really want me or are they just here for free sex. She was the one that said, "it is my choice to be with you".


I see your reply - I seriously doubt you will spoil anything - yes continue to pay for the sex. She also controls the clock. So the lines may blurr - she might become a good friend and your favorite provider. I travel with providers often, less than 10% end up as failure.


Yes, I do hear about her day. Yes, I do hear about the guy she thought was incredibly hot as well as the smoking sex. I also hear about the guys that basically repulsed her.

She chose me, her heart belongs to me, she loves that I see others myself and she has shared me with over two dozen of her friends. I have not ever asked her to quit, instead I have supported her about her career, it is clearly the best rewarding job she could do.

I don't push sex, she takes 'care' of me well, but there are nights she feels exhausted or sex will feel cold not cuddly. She often really wants to be held and told things will be OK.


In your case I would certainly try it with her, be very cognizant that her time is valuable and it is a gift to you. Ask yourself a question - would you prefer dinner with her more than by yourself. Duh!

[Mike11]

A very good link. I have a provider girlfriend (cis girl) and we are doing well. One cannot be jealous, be prepared to share with others someone you find special.

In the initial and intermediate I still paid for when we had sex, there is a big worry in women - do they really want me or are they just here for free sex. She was the one that said, "it is my choice to be with you".


I see your reply - I seriously doubt you will spoil anything - yes continue to pay for the sex. She also controls the clock. So the lines may blurr - she might become a good friend and your favorite provider. I travel with providers often, less than 10% end up as failure.


Yes, I do hear about her day. Yes, I do hear about the guy she thought was incredibly hot as well as the smoking sex. I also hear about the guys that basically repulsed her.

She chose me, her heart belongs to me, she loves that I see others myself and she has shared me with over two dozen of her friends. I have not ever asked her to quit, instead I have supported her about her career, it is clearly the best rewarding job she could do.

I don't push sex, she takes 'care' of me well, but there are nights she feels exhausted or sex will feel cold not cuddly. She often really wants to be held and told things will be OK.


In your case I would certainly try it with her, be very cognizant that her time is valuable and it is a gift to you. Ask yourself a question - would you prefer dinner with her more than by yourself. Duh!

Thanks for the thougthful post. Few years back when I had a larger ego, I would not think twice about it. I am older and wiser now and as such cautious. I also do not wish to hurt anyone's feelings. She is much younger and I have no intention of a relationship. I think I may take her out for a drink/meal but will be well upfront with her as to my intentions and see how it goes. Life's too short.

[saifan]

I am.

Telling someone what job they should or shouldn't do isn't really up to me if I'm not paying their bills.

[Idt20082008"]

Absolutely I would. If I date someone, it is because I enjoy having them in my life and that person really adds to it - I hate being without her. So her choice of work would be irrelevant, but I wouldn't go into it with my eyes close either. She is in the business of sex and I would be comfortable with this going into the relationship. I think Rusty put it well, her heart would belong to me and that is what is most important to me

[Mike11]

. I think Rusty put it well, her heart would belong to me and that is what is most important to me

If I really cared for someone and wanted to be in a proper relationship with them, I could not cope with them escorting as a career. This is in relation to GGs.

Whilst I love tgirls, I have never contemplated being in a long term relationship with one.