How to run a business

[Ts RedVeX]

Coming back to the topic, I know that I will not be seeing a person as soon as they send me an email;
Same goes to text messages;
And private numbers;
And wankers in general.

[malmonger]

One thing I can't understand is how quickly these little threads will switch gears "being attacked" before you know it we are all talking about something completely unrelated to the OP post.

Ain't that the truth! It's interesting that people seem to think that 'wrath' means 'beat'. There's no dictionary on the planet that makes that connection, except the one in the brain of some of our readers, it seems. Can a child incur the wrath of a parent without getting a beating? Of course. My own child has done so. No woman, child or dog in my life has ever received any form of physical violence from my hand. (I am blessed that my own dog is so well behaved that I can't recall ever being remotely upset at him.)

He's simply giving advise to the CL Hooker on communication, after all this Hooker clearly wasted his time. who goes 10 emails before declaring your location is beyond me.

That's almost right. But it was I who wasted her time, not the other way round. I treat everyone with respect and courtesy until they demonstrate they are incapable of doing the same, and then all bets are off. So when she repeatedly ignored my simple request to know which town she was in while managing to tell me she wanted my money, then I'm afraid I'm not evolved enough to not have some fun. But I stopped the game before she went off to spend time and effort getting ready. I'm not that insensitive. And I also sent her a nice email saying that perhaps she could improve her service by reading her emails. She thanked me for that, but continued asking me if I was coming over, so she still wasn't doing so well on the comprehension.

Coming back to the topic, I know that I will not be seeing a person as soon as they send me an email;
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Thanks for noticing what the topic is.

But this provider only has email as a contact, so it's what she wants.

[VeraReyna]

I'm sure I'm not the only guy who notices that most of the providers don't have a clue how to actually run their business.

Perhaps we can help them out by mentioning what works for us mongers, and what doesn't. I'm sure that most of them still won't get it, but there will be some smart ones just starting out who could perhaps benefit from this.

So please make polite and supportive comments on how a provider should conduct herself.

And of course, a thread from the provider's point of view might be a great idea, too. What can we do to make them happier. It's not entirely about money, even though that is a big part of the game.

This evening, I sent and email to a girl in Springfield, MA and as soon as I got my first email reply, I knew I wasn't going to be seeing her.

She placed an ad on CL, and it didn't say much. It didn't say if she's top, bottom, versatile. Nor did it say where she was. So my email to her asked about her location and what services she might offer.

The entire response I got was '$$'.

I decided to see how long it would take before she actually identified the town she was in, and it took at least 10 emails. I'm 100 miles away from her, so obviously I'm not going to see her tonight. But I'm also not likely to ever see her because I don't have any confidence in her ability to run her business.

In the end, I wrote her a note that essentially said what I'm going to say here, but I don't think she's understanding this at all.

Now if she'd said something like "hey hun, I'm in Springfield, and I'm versatile but prefer to top. Are you generous?", I would have written back and said "sorry, but I'm 100 miles away, but thanks anyway." Or "Yes, I'm generous, and you're only 15 minutes away. Let's do it!" But because she totally ignored my questions and was only interested in money, she attracted my wrath. (And as my dog will tell you, you don't need my wrath!)

This is a VERY common situation, so much so that it is rare that a provider actually answers ANY of my questions. Those that do answer are about 100 times more likely to get my money. After all, I'm going to want to see someone that I feel I can trust. Well, maybe not trust, but you know what I mean!

So girls - please read your emails. If a guys asks you a question - answer it.

This is a SALES job. You're making a sale, and you will close 100x more sales if you pay attention to your customer instead of just thinking of the money. Pay attention to us, and you're going to get our money. Make us feel like you're listening, like you care, and we'll show up and hand it over to you.

I don't need my provider to be smart, or to posses excellent writing skills. After all, sucking my dick isn't anyone's dream job! But at least make an effort to listen to the guy.

This is only one example of what not to do, and I'll turn this over to my fellow mongers who I am sure have plenty of other suggestions.

Well to answer your question it’s a crapshoot.

As provider on & off for 3 years running. The problem weighs on the idea that the money is attraction but the person means nothing. At least that's the state of our current times. They can care less about the clients feelings, wants desires, long as that donation is coming home. One will find anyway to get it which is unfortunate b/c that’s where the quality drops tenfold.

You’ll get a rush job kick out the door. The lovely bait & switch jobs. Your done. See yah.

Is this with every PROVIDER. NO! So I hope not to see people jump to assumption or conclusions & attack me on this. I'm only speaking from my view on the matter.

I witness this on a day to day basis from my experiences of other girls in the game. The stories from my own admirers (clients). I can go on with this however I’m save it. Let’s just say I’m a heavy observer I lived both sides of the coin.

Being on your side as an admirer I felt there needed to be change.

My main reasons in becoming an provider in the first place was because I wanted to set a different standard. For too many have suffered terrible experiences frequenting one. Why takes years for guys to ever consider going back. They dealt with bad the first, psychologically they’ll assume everyone is the same. Whether my example will be followed in the future? Remains to be seen.

My suggestion is we have to do more research. Be more selective with our interests in providers to avoid these situations from being repetitive.

I have always made it my goal to run my venture efficiently. I knew coming into this I needed to approach this as a business venture. If I’ve maintained my staying power it’s been due to my attention to detail & just being firmly upfront with admirers to ensure there are no issue. That includes answering emails.

However I will not deny sometimes I don’t answer certain e-mails. Quite frankly some people just have no manners. It’s a waste of fingers answering questions to ignorance, uneducated, rude, individuals so to avoid confrontation. I let it roll off although I will admit certain things you guys due really irritates me. Yet I won’t get into it.

Im sure some girls can attest to that. Why waste your energy?

I always measure potential admirers based on their approach. If the approach is sincere & friendly. I'll kindly answer. If it's not I'll trash it. It's an instinct thing with me. It's challenging to explain.

When I produce my future blog I will elaborate on this.

Yet on behalf of myself. My admirers are my priority. I believe in providing the best experience I can possibly give. I am your investment & it's my goal to ensure you get the best out of it. No less. Not I won't feel right with myself.

However, in order for business to thrive it takes two to tango. However our lack of communication on both ends will make this less of a reality. It's a different world we live in. The game isn't the same like it used to be. I always hope for the best.

Myz Vera

[Jamie French]

Seriously, everyone pay attention, for real now. Back on track.

Stop hitting your dog.

[VeraReyna]

Seriously, everyone pay attention, for real now. Back on track.

Stop hitting your dog.

Like Jamie said, Stopping hitting. Please Dont Hit Your Dog(s). That's not Nice. I Love'em too.

[AdaBlackXXX]

Do you punch your dog or just like slap it around backhandedly?

This the type of guy who punches his dogs fart box.

[AdaBlackXXX]

Coming back to the topic, I know that I will not be seeing a person as soon as they send me an email;
Same goes to text messages;
And private numbers;
And wankers in general.

Amen to that. We don't need them cumming to our messages. This is why we keep things short and sweet. What question was he asking? I'm sure her ad answered ALL of them. Or he probably asked for pics although the ad had pics. Typical.

[Tapatio]

...the trurh..I am blessed that my own dog is so well behaved that I can't recall ever being remotely upset at him.


[words]


This provider...it's what she wants.

so, why are we asking your dog about your "wrath"?

I suspect the escort, much like your dog, won't feel it either.

What was the point of that whole bit again?


You type a lot of words. "It's what she wants" is your best statement so far.

[trish]

Please post your location immediately so we can send someone to rescue the dog.

[Tapatio]

A lot of serial killers experiment with animal cruelty first.

It's a thing.