Should a Post Op TGirl tell a man she had an operation?

[runningdownthatdream]

It's irrelevant to me. I don't need to know although I would hope that at some point she would feel secure enough to mention it. However, it really comes down to the character of the man and whether he's the type that needs to know and the reasons he would need to know. If there are things you think you cant tell your partner because of their bigotry or intolerance its probably wiser to just find another partner. No way should it be divulged at the beginning of the relationship as it's something that could either kill it or have it progress for the wrong reasons - i.e.: pity or empathy. Better to gauge the man and make the decision later.

[AdaBlackXXX]

What? It's not about me being afraid. It's about having the RIGHT TO KNOW! That's it, I seen some clown say the TGirl have all the rights, yet that same clown isn't thinking about the person's rights that has a long relationship in the dark. That's it, it's not complicated!

Nnnn.. NO. Post op trans women don't need to discuss some medical problem with anyone. It would be as simple as a broken finger beyond that point. As far as she is concerned shes female. Your right it's really not complicated at all. Shes been female all her life and shes packing a vagina. A relationship in the dark? He married a woman and fell in love with her. Look your a chaser your gunna stay that way. We understand you cant wrap your tiny brain around trans issues so how about you just stop. Here you go. Some tube porn for yah. See you in 2 minutes. ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ

[AdaBlackXXX]

Have fun ^^

[dreamon]

In my humble opinion, a successful relationship requires full honesty between the two partners. If you want to have a long-term, healthy relationship, you need to be able to trust and fully understand your partner. With that in mind, it would be hard to fully understand what makes your significant other who they are without knowing about their childhood, their past, etc.

[Anika]

What? It's not about me being afraid. It's about having the RIGHT TO KNOW! That's it, I seen some clown say the TGirl have all the rights, yet that same clown isn't thinking about the person's rights that has a long relationship in the dark. That's it, it's not complicated!

If you are shure you can tell a post-op from a GG everytime, you know it anyway.

So whats the point of your big letters?

[jamesedwards]

Hmmmmmmmmm did you just say medical problem and don't need to discuss it to a guy in a relationship in the same sentence?

All you people is doing is talking and haven't showed any facts, it's just opinions, I don't want that show facts! I have shown there are problems with this if the man expected to get with a woman but turns out to be a TGirl who transformed into a female in her point of view. Stop worrying about what I feel, and worry about the guy for once. You all are trying to make it seem like I have the problem but it's really you!

So riddle me this smart ass, TGirl married to a man who don't know anything about TGirls, don't like them, she has SRS then he finds out 10 years later by someone else. He's mad as shit, and he is ready to kill the TGirl, how do you solve this old wise one? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Nnnn.. NO. Post op trans women don't need to discuss some medical problem with anyone. It would be as simple as a broken finger beyond that point. As far as she is concerned shes female. Your right it's really not complicated at all. Shes been female all her life and shes packing a vagina. A relationship in the dark? He married a woman and fell in love with her. Look your a chaser your gunna stay that way. We understand you cant wrap your tiny brain around trans issues so how about you just stop. Here you go. Some tube porn for yah. See you in 2 minutes. ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ

[jamesedwards]

Asking me that question is nuts!

Ask me:

"Should a Post Op TGirl tell a man she had an operation?"

If you are shure you can tell a post-op from a GG everytime, you know it anyway.

So whats the point of your big letters?

[jamesedwards]

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam! Profoundly said!

The key word he said was "honesty between two partners"!

All I have been seeing is one sided views for the TGirl not to say nothing. I accept that if the TGirl didn't, buuuuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttt! Accept the consequences that come along with that if the guy gets really upset.

The reason I started this because who knows someone might be going through this. I am getting bashed basically for starting a thread that might could help someone through a serious situation. The FACT is TGirls are getting KILLED! Those that say she don't have to say nothing aren't realizing TGirls are getting killed behind this very subject.

Thank you Dreamon for that profound presentation!

In my humble opinion, a successful relationship requires full honesty between the two partners. If you want to have a long-term, healthy relationship, you need to be able to trust and fully understand your partner. With that in mind, it would be hard to fully understand what makes your significant other who they are without knowing about their childhood, their past, etc.

[holzz]

erm...ok..

so i've seen arguments like "well if the guy is dumb enough not to tell the difference, then he's a fucking dope and deserves what he gets!!"

Ok...lolool.. so the man must go to medical school, and be a practicing gynaecologist, to not be deemed a dope now? i think this would "fool" many men who don't have that medical knowledge..and through no fault of their own. to assert that any man is dumb not to tell the difference is...well retarded and dopey....

And let's put the shoe on the other foot....he fucks hi gf/wife in her pussy or arse, she gets a rash and he says "oh, sorry babe, but then my semen has an infection, nothing serious to me though, i live with it without much trouble..." and say she needs to go to the hospital to get special antiobiotics to clear it....still OK to lie then?

[mrwiseguy]

Some here have mentioned the appearance of a post-op pussy in comparison to a GG vagina as a telltale sign somebody has had work done downstairs.

Well, I have seen post-op vaginas - in pictures, unfortunately so far not in real life - that were positively a beautiful work of art by whatever surgeon created them. But in the end, I think I would spot a post-op vagina any day, any odds.

Would it put me off if it came to a real life sexual encouner? I don't think so. If I am turned on enough by a person to land between the sheets with them, it would probably be a detail where I would think "oh... now that's something...!" - but in the end, I would very probably just keep doing what I have been doing up to that point...