Confessional: A tgirl escort talks about her experience

[asianphoenixx]

Here is a simple test, to determine whether or not you can be a successful escort:

1. Are you socially liked..with lots of friends, admirers and boyfriends..
2. Are you good at managing your time and money...
3. Are you punctual and reliable...
4. Are you attractive, being hit by men every where you, even if you don't wear any make up, sexy clothes, or even if you don't feel like having an attention...
5. Have you offered money from men several times in the past to accompany them, even you don't feel like working or being an escort
6. Are you fit, healthy, and have a good sex drive...
7. Can you sleep with various men with different age, background, body type and race...


If all of the answers are YES, then you can join the club

Based on my observation:
some attractive tgirls fail on point 2 and 3

Most girls fail on point 4.
Men Sexuality is very complex. Some girls think that they are attractive, unfortunately not on men's eyes.
On the contrary, few of us, including myself, think that we are average looking, but thanks God....Men think differently.

Personally, I am still on the business, because escorting is still a lucrative business for me

There will be time (i don't know when) when this business will not be lucrative anymore for me
If that time comes, i will be more than happy to say it QUIT and move on with my life with a different profession and call one of my boyfriends to marry me.
Seriously!

time to go to bed....at least i am trying to sleep now

good night

[tarot]

By my maths, a decent Tgirl can earn easy £100k a year .
If she is charging £150 an hour and only sees two clients a day , she is making over 2k a week .
If she is good at marketing , writing and HaS social skills , she can expect to build up a lot of regulars .
Then there are the Tgs that specialise in bdsm and they also seem to do very well.
I kind of disagree on the look thing , as I'm more drawn to the older Tgs , but that's just me.
So all in all not a bad business if you target two clients a day .

[Rusty Eldora]

Here is a simple test, to determine whether or not you can be a successful escort:

1. Are you socially liked..with lots of friends, admirers and boyfriends..
2. Are you good at managing your time and money...
3. Are you punctual and reliable...
4. Are you attractive, being hit by men every where you, even if you don't wear any make up, sexy clothes, or even if you don't feel like having an attention...
5. Have you offered money from men several times in the past to accompany them, even you don't feel like working or being an escort
6. Are you fit, healthy, and have a good sex drive...
7. Can you sleep with various men with different age, background, body type and race...

If all of the answers are YES, then you can join the club

With 4, I have found that it works if she is sufficiently attractive (both for cis and trans), being model material does improve success. But if no social skills even model material women won't get repeats.

Where I first was going is that if an escort has business talent, does a professional effort at satisfying their client and interacting with them it can be a personally and financially rewarding. They can really love their job.

Many don't like their clients, that is felt and it is a big money grab. For those girls it is debasing and usually not successful.

Tia, you are a perfect example of success. You love your work and enjoy most of your clients. Very attractive but it is who you are and how you give to your clients that makes you exceptional.

[Elisabeth_TS]

Here is a simple test, to determine whether or not you can be a successful escort:

1. Are you socially liked..with lots of friends, admirers and boyfriends..
2. Are you good at managing your time and money...
3. Are you punctual and reliable...
4. Are you attractive, being hit by men every where you, even if you don't wear any make up, sexy clothes, or even if you don't feel like having an attention...
5. Have you offered money from men several times in the past to accompany them, even you don't feel like working or being an escort
6. Are you fit, healthy, and have a good sex drive...
7. Can you sleep with various men with different age, background, body type and race...


If all of the answers are YES, then you can join the club

I would say 7 is the one that gets most people, as for most people that is a lot harder than it sounds. As you effectively have to be able to view what you are doing as a job rather than as having sex.

I would also add in a number 8, which would be;-

8. If someone annoys you, can you put that behind you quickly and move on with your day without it affecting everything else you do.

As if you are someone who ruminates on things like that, then you will have some issues when it comes to timewasters and blokes who call you up to have a quick wank over the phone. Which will impact your working day and potentially cost you work.

[Plaything]

Based on my observation:
some attractive tgirls fail on point 2 and 3

Most girls fail on point 4.
Men Sexuality is very complex. Some girls think that they are attractive, unfortunately not on men's eyes.
On the contrary, few of us, including myself, think that we are average looking, but thanks God....Men think differently.

Personally, I am still on the business, because escorting is still a lucrative business for me

There will be time (i don't know when) when this business will not be lucrative anymore for me
If that time comes, i will be more than happy to say it QUIT and move on with my life with a different profession and call one of my boyfriends to marry me.
Seriously!

time to go to bed....at least i am trying to sleep now

good night

As a 'client' who is no longer young. (55) But still in good order (Fire-Fighter) I can't tell you how much positivity I take from a meeting with a beautiful Trans Escort...Some of you have such charisma and grace...possibly acting skills, but that doesn't matter - if the illusion is maintained...belief is suspended, easily and willingly.

A secret afternoon, or evening...sharing a slice of each others lives...beautifully and passionately used, one or other.

Thank you girls. Sometimes it makes such a difference. Sometimes it pops a glide in my stride.

Sometimes it makes me feel young.

A gift.

And I'm sure it isn't nearly as easy as you make it look.

x

[asianphoenixx]

I am back

Thanks for the input Tarot, Rusty, Elizabeth and Plaything.

That was a simple test I posted, in reality, it is indeed quite complex to be a successful escort, as you all already explained above.

For instance, social skills alone can be broken down into the ability to calm the nerve of first timers, the ability to create a positive, friendly but sexy atmosphere in the session, and so on...so on.... the list goes on...

The ability to sleep with different type of men can be broken down into versatility, the ability to role play, etc

One last thing, being attractive is very subjective. Some men love chubby girls, some into older women, skinny women, CD, etc....
These type of girls are considered attractive in their category. I didn't mean that we have to be a model material per say. Though of course, being a model material is definitely attractive too.

I have been doing well as an escort since I was 16 as a boy...gradually evolve as a femboy....now as a full fledged TS...and soon to become a woman/post op. I might not be attractive for everybody, but yet, those who like my type, find me attractive, thus i fulfill the criteria of point 4.

Anyway, i can keep going and going to discuss this matter...but i have to go soon.

talk to you later my friends!

[nysprod]

When I first got interested in tgirls, escorts were a simple and easy way for me to explore and find out what it was all about...but now, I've changed.

It no longer is a thrill for me to have sex with someone purely as a business transaction, so I restrict my activities mostly to Traps! who are just looking to get it on with someone they like.



Mostly I hook up thru craigslist...it takes work but it's exciting...when a good looking one runs an ad, depending on time and day of the week, they could be hit with 50 or more responses...so when I get lucky, it's much more gratifying.

Escorts are good for beginners, married guys etc...but for a chaser like me, part of the thrill is in the hunt...simply offering money is boring to me.

[SammiValentine]

1) I wouldnt base ones personality for the job on how many admirers or friends you have etc, people will still admire you if your a twat or not as they dont know the slightest thing about you and your interaction with most admirers and many associates will be a bare minimum. A better judge is to analyse how you socially interact with people, your family, your real friends, then with strangers, possibly the admiers you speak of , or people who have been friendly towards you in real life that you dot know, people who have reacted negatively to you. How do or did you handle these things, how do you react etc. Those answers will determine ones grade I think

3) i agree!. However my punctuality is my worst thing, i am always late, always through my life. I was born at 9.30am , as my mum uses to say late for school from day1. Sorry guys, dont turn up early. I am trying though ahem.

4&5) Obviously you need to be attractive but i think 5 is a bit OTT, when it comes to looks and attraction everyone is different which is why there is potential for any escort to make some kind of decent money. Ok if your extremely young and extremely pretty great but I personally know some older TV girls who have had fantastic careers as such.
I also think being able to simply pass and interact in society as a average/reasonable looking female is far more important, not everyone wants their dinner or weekend date to be the centre of attention or having joe bloggs offering £50 for a nosh, however I am aware that some gentlemen do get aroused by such shenanigans

7.) I think that should be more like do you want to? I can do and I want to are entirely different I think you have to want to do that to be truely into it, if you can do it sure you will manage - but I see a difference. " I can do it for money" vs " I want to do it for money"

9) your own personal life is a massive factor, whats going on in the background always has some sort of effect of how things go down in the office (thats a generic reference lol).. Using myself for example I have been off the radar a lot the past couple of years, a couple of close family losses and a constant underlying issue of acceptance and what not with the close family I have left etc. this has and does affect my work, not in "session" (as far as I am aware) but my availability has been somewhat random at times since march 2012.

Some girls may also have personal life issues to consider, things such as family like i describe above, or different variations or entreily different issues that I fortunately havent had to deal with but know that girls do encounter,-partners,alcohol/substance abuse,problems transitioning- all these things will have a say in how well you do as an escort, just as they would in any other job.

I know it is was only a quick list , just fleshing some bits out. interesting thread.

I am quite sure I will write a book when I retire. It will not be a kiss and tell book, nor it will be an idiots guide to escorting as I am not pigheaded enough to think that the way do things is the only way, as I know it is not. However it will be a rather fascinating, insightful, amusing, possibly helpful, possibly shocking piece of literature- that I can be sure, and it will be fun to write, hopefully whilst in a quiet catalan/spanish coastal town, sat on the balcony... mmmmmmm. oh yes please. If not one reads it who gives a toss, plenty of tosses have been given in the making there of

xx

[SammiValentine]

By my maths, a decent Tgirl can earn easy £100k a year .
If she is charging £150 an hour and only sees two clients a day , she is making over 2k a week .
If she is good at marketing , writing and HaS social skills , she can expect to build up a lot of regulars .
Then there are the Tgs that specialise in bdsm and they also seem to do very well.
I kind of disagree on the look thing , as I'm more drawn to the older Tgs , but that's just me.
So all in all not a bad business if you target two clients a day .

Good simple maths but maybe a bit to simple and gives impression of uber pounds for everyone or that every girl can or will get two clients a day, every day, which is not quite true when you take into account reallife and be sensible about all other things. I would like to better explain my self, therefore in my humble opinion I think one is better targeting a daily figure rather than number of clients, this figure is based and caluclated on outgoings and what needed for savings and of course paying tax..., also taking into account yours days off. Someone should'nt be available 24/7 365 - uber melt down on the way, and if I was a client i wouldnt want to see someone advertising as such myself, just saying. Anyway this daily figure required can be accumulated by a mixture of escort,webcam, content etc, eggs cannot all be in one basket. Simple maths, keeping records, not being a whopper, all essential!

So there are 365 days a year, 96 are weekends approx. People in "normal jobs" have 4-6 working weeks holiday needs to be taken into account, i know self employed people in general often work longer hours and take less holidays but i think its important escorts do have time off. this time off has to be accounted for, even if thats just used for surgery recovery or things like that. So that may leave you with anything from 180-240 days to make your ££. Final factor when targeting ones golden figure is that you also have to take into account that is a short term career, its not for life akin to a premier league footballer , however we earn a lot less and not much chance of punditry, managerial roles or being in shitty television adverts when we retire lol., so there can be an element of make hay whiles the sun shines, but do not burn the sun out..

So in a nutshell yes it can be a reasonable business like most self employed business, some will do fantastic, some will fail. Some will plod along just nicely.

[asianphoenixx]

Thanks for the input Sammy.


Yes, you got the point. It was only a simple test to determine whether or not we can be FINANCIALLY successful as an escort.
(I forget to mention financial thing before)

As you and Elizabeth and others already added, actually things can be quite complex if we break down into details.

You think point 5 is ODD. I can see why you think that way.
I put point 5 as an "ego and reality check".
Each of us might think we are a great escort, but unfortunately, we might not be as good as we think we are.

Since men, our clients, to be more precise, who will judge how good and attractive we are for them, therefore I add point 5.

Some of us, me for instance, do not realize that actually we can be considered very attractive by some men.

Till this day, i could not believe how i could earn 60K Euro in 5 days while i was in UAE (but then i got caught and they put me in jail)....or how i could earn in average $ 45.8K a month in the US, around 60K a month for the East coast, starting from NJ, NYC, Boston, Philly, Connecticut, to DC (but then i got busted).

I am not a super model for sure.

It is indeed still a mystery.

There is an X factor in this industry that can make few of us, raise to the top.

And btw, i don't think i could earn that much in the UK. UK is tough market for me personally.

But i would say, if you have what it takes to conquer UK market, 100K pounds annually is the minimum you could earn.