Frustrated

[Merzbow]

Hello,

I'm posting this because I've found myself a bit lost amongst all the information, and the direction of how I should go about doing this, let alone the experiences I've had. I've been in Lisboa for almost a month now, and have attempted, with some devotion, to find a transsexual escort who can help open my world to an experience I've thought about for 80% of my life. I've done tremendous research, I've found escorts who are legitimate (verifiable identities, etc), but for the first x-dozen-number of times, every number I called was out of service. I, then, found a rather beautiful escort who I talked with for hours. We set up a time, and a date, I then showed up, and was subsequently stood up. When I wrote back to her, no response, none. She's well known, but I don't find putting someone on blast to be polite, or professional, so I'll leave that at that. Thankfully, however, everything in Lisboa is close, so I wasn't at much of a loss, but I'm beginning to find myself losing the passion I had for this based on the continuous negativity I've found in pursuing these experiences. Can someone provide me with some insight? I need some hope. At first I found myself clueless, and a bit shy, now I find myself a bit put off at the fact that there are, apparently, a tremendous amount of transsexual escorts in this large city, and I haven't been able to acquire the company of a single one.

[Bark]

Hello,

I'm posting this because I've found myself a bit lost amongst all the information, and the direction of how I should go about doing this, let alone the experiences I've had. I've been in Lisboa for almost a month now, and have attempted, with some devotion, to find a transsexual escort who can help open my world to an experience I've thought about for 80% of my life. I've done tremendous research, I've found escorts who are legitimate (verifiable identities, etc), but for the first x-dozen-number of times, every number I called was out of service. I, then, found a rather beautiful escort who I talked with for hours. We set up a time, and a date, I then showed up, and was subsequently stood up. When I wrote back to her, no response, none. She's well known, but I don't find putting someone on blast to be polite, or professional, so I'll leave that at that. Thankfully, however, everything in Lisboa is close, so I wasn't at much of a loss, but I'm beginning to find myself losing the passion I had for this based on the continuous negativity I've found in pursuing these experiences. Can someone provide me with some insight? I need some hope. At first I found myself clueless, and a bit shy, now I find myself a bit put off at the fact that there are, apparently, a tremendous amount of transsexual escorts in this large city, and I haven't been able to acquire the company of a single one.

One thing i know about groups is its scary because its unknown. All i can advise is start one on your own, set up maybe an hour more or less for a meet up at a public place like a coffee shop. See if anyone shows up?. Do not ever give your home address or phone number unless you feel safe about it, always go to the meet up you set up.

Meet ups are usually Dutch (Pay for your own stuff) give out the address of the shop and time you wish to meet at, Do have a topic like Just meeting you or Coffee and drawing or something like that. As an artist myself I always went with coffee and art.

Lastly, I hope you make friends and do find folks you need to give you the information you want, not obligated to go home with them unless its what you want, I'd advise against it until you know them better as friends. Never know if your going to be meeting a freak so its best keep it in a public place where you can't get abducted if the weirdness goes that way. Just be careful, hasn't happened to me but it could.

[SuzySnappz]

Hello,

I'm posting this because I've found myself a bit lost amongst all the information, and the direction of how I should go about doing this, let alone the experiences I've had. I've been in Lisboa for almost a month now, and have attempted, with some devotion, to find a transsexual escort who can help open my world to an experience I've thought about for 80% of my life. I've done tremendous research, I've found escorts who are legitimate (verifiable identities, etc), but for the first x-dozen-number of times, every number I called was out of service. I, then, found a rather beautiful escort who I talked with for hours. We set up a time, and a date, I then showed up, and was subsequently stood up. When I wrote back to her, no response, none. She's well known, but I don't find putting someone on blast to be polite, or professional, so I'll leave that at that. Thankfully, however, everything in Lisboa is close, so I wasn't at much of a loss, but I'm beginning to find myself losing the passion I had for this based on the continuous negativity I've found in pursuing these experiences. Can someone provide me with some insight? I need some hope. At first I found myself clueless, and a bit shy, now I find myself a bit put off at the fact that there are, apparently, a tremendous amount of transsexual escorts in this large city, and I haven't been able to acquire the company of a single one.

It sounds like you are not finding the right website to contact these girls. Are you just finding them on possibly out of date review sites with links to old websites/phone numbers? It just seems odd that you would get that many out of service numbers. You would not get that calling Eros or Backpage in the U.S. (Now you might get a girl that looks different than her Backpage pics, but you won't get out of service phone numbers, lol. ) Just find whatever website in Lisboa/Lisbon has up-to-date escort listings.

Bark's advice doesn't make a lot of sense to me because I assume you're calling an escort to set up a paid date. There is no need for a group or public meeting for that. I will typically not meet a potential client at some special public location for a free date or just to prove who I am. (I might tell him if I will already be hanging out at a particular club on a given evening if he wants to meet me, though.)