Is Porn Changing Us?

[bassman2546]

'changing'? How about 'changed'?

[SheWantsTheD]

As far as porn affecting relationships and causing us to become disinterested in people, I know people who can't live without facebook. I get in line at the grocery store or Walmart all the time behind people who can't pay for their purchases for talking on their phone. I have had had two cars totaled because of talking ( or texting) and driving. Obsession or fanaticism is bad regardless of what you are obsessed with.

As with the reply above, Straight porn And T-Girl porn are as far as my porn interests go. I think sex is a beautiful thing, and I love to watch it. It has not squelched my creativity. If any thing it has enhanced it. I am an artist and porn hasn't stopped me from being an artist. There are far worse things in the entertainment world than porn, like excessive violence. I know " The Walking Dead' has a legion of fans, and I'll make people mad here, but I'd rather watch a beautiful girl ( or T- Girl ) suck a big cock than see someone get their throat ripped out.

I really like this. Porn has influenced you in a very positive way. You are able to draw inspiration from it and appreciate it as an art form.
Very nice comparisons to other compulsive behaviors aswell.

[LongTom101]

I wouldnt necessarily use the word 'changed' but it can uncover deeper recesses of your sexuality that you otherwise would be unaware of

I'm pretty sure that if I hadnt been a regular porn watcher/user then I would never have discovered the strong sexual attraction I have for petite, big hard cocked, feminine, and especially Asian, ladyboys

That aspect of my sexuality would probably have remained dormant my entire life, had I not accidentally encountered the TS porn I did and my strong, surprising reaction (surprising to me) to it

[holzz]

Depends.....I think to men, no.

Teens, yes. I was a teen in the 90s, and even then without (largely) Web porn we used to think amongst my friends that porn was like real sex. And this is probably worse now with pervasive Web porn, and not just VHS or CD-ROMs like in the 1990s.

If porn is seen as just that...porn, then no problem. I think once people reach their 20s though, they should realise just because porn depicts sex, doesn't mean it's a realistic interpretation of it. FIFA 14 on Playstation or PC depicts football, but not a realistic interpretation.

[holzz]

I'd also say porn to me is just entertainment, and based largely on fantasy for me. With GG porn, I actually prefer amateur porn, as it better reflects real sex. So amateur man and woman, I imagine it's me fucking her in a real setting.

TS porn is largely fantasy, and some degree reality, but only fantasy because TSs aren't that common where I live now. Kind of like watching a woman as hot as say Mia Isabella or Angeles Cid sucking my cock and fucking me, and getting spurred on to meet such a hot TS in real life.

[Dima73]

I could not agree more with Yasminleefan! It is strange and disturbing to me, that it is acceptable to have every neighborhood in the US, what murder and violence on TV each night, and then go to the movies to see more of it on the weekend, but sex is restricted secretive viewing material.

[Jamie French]

Porn only breaks people who were cracked in the first place.

[transfan8591]

To add on,
I wouldn't say porn has changed me.
Because for me, it is just entertainment.
I would say it has made a little more open
in what turns me on or what I would get off to, because 16 year old me
would have been disgusted by the thought of
getting off to TS porn (I was pretty trans-phobic in my teen years)
older me doesn't give a damn and I get off just
as gleefully to Eva Lin or Sarina Valentina as I would Asa Akira or Lisa Ann.


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[livepersona]

I would say the Internet in general has more to do with the change than the actual content itself. We have everything so readily available these days and it's instant access.

No more delayed gratification and working for the results.