so glad isn't me...anymore

[marriedgrl_chasrstayaway]

I've been lurkng on here for a while to see what chasers actually talk about with each other under the cloak of internet anonymity. I escorted for a short while and hated it. It irreversibly colored my views on men. Im not downing escorting(but the stakes are higher for trans women than cis women), but I was just not emotionally cut out for the business and it messed with me psychologically, so the first opprotunity i got(a minimum wage hostessing job) I was out and never looked back...But i see nothing has changed in terms of respect for trans women, but I can't even be upset because now ive come to realize that trans women in depressed and disparaging emotional states due to chasers and the nature of the biz, are exactly where they want to be. You cant cry about these men not respecting you and taking you on real dates and meeting friends and family of his when you defile,denigrate, and disrespect your bodies. Trans women in ancient times held positions as priestesses, shamans, medicine women, healers....were even worshipped as goddesses. It was from me discovering these things that i was able to identify a new frame of reference for myself. I consider myyelf a goddess in human form and with that knowledge of self i NEVER again let a man
disrespect/ojectify/fetishize me. So i guess what im saying to the girls is most of this stuff can be stopped by you, through the choices you make and the men you choose to give your time to.My husband is an incredible man and the love he shows is amazing. As an ex prostie i never imagined finding such a thing... i mean, he gave me a sense of family. I m not even as close wih my own bio family as i am with his. With his mother, for zhe first time, i got the sense of what os actually like to be caed for as someone's DAUGHTER! And all this before the age of thirty. I thought the biz was going to swallow me up into a vortex of bitnerness that wozld be inescapable. Thought i was destined to fake ass movie dates INSIDE...AT MY HOUSE(or theirs) with abismal chasers/trade/dates whose word was never worth a damn. I am happy now and want to share t because this is what i want for EVERY trans woman.Seeing trans women in healthy, mutually fulfilling relationships in lage numbers is what society needs to inspire change. My oly reason for creating an account here was to spread this message. You shall hear no more of me after this. But ladies, please stay hopeful and motivated and respect your bodeies. You too deserve what i have.

[Ts RedVeX]

Hey, who wants to fuck a goddes and experience magic, come over! ;>

Glad to know that you hav finally found peace and fulfilment. Because you have, haven't you, grl?

[marriedgrl_chasrstayaway]

You will too one day, dear.

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

much respect

[SheWantsTheD]

Thank you for sharing your inspirational experience and epiphany. I don't know why your post got so many dislikes. Its very honest and refreshing.
I'm glad that you got out and that you are happy.
But don't be too hard on the chasers. Social stigma effects the chaser as much as the tgirl. I'm sure there were some guys who really wanted to be with you but they just didn't have the courage that your husband has. They may get there one day.

[marriedgrl_chasrstayaway]

I know the dislikes are from the men. The cis white males who control this industry have a vested interest n keeping us in bondage.... If a large percent of girls went into mainstream wrk situations they would be forced o respect trans woman and change their views on them. A good chunk of men simply DO NOT want to do this. There is nothing wrong with a cis male's sexual desire for trans women, but as of now there is no balance. The only point of reference MOST(not all) cis men have for trans women is pornography and escorts. They objectify cis women as well, but they also understand that those cis women are their mothers, sisters, cousins, wives, aunts, old school teacher, boss, cashier at einn dixie or what have you. The coin is flipped for cis woman because there is that positive balance. Trans women dont have that.... yet. And. I know this is a porn forum, bt please dont kick me out. I only have the purest of intentions. Some girls may be happy with current situation, but I knw for a FACT many are not. Those are the ones I care to reach.

[marriedgrl_chasrstayaway]

Like i stated before, i know this is a porn forum and not a place for cerebral discissions... bit. Please note that a lot of "admirers" actually vote against Human Rights Ordinances in heir respective cities that would give trans women protection in employment and housing. I have actually witnessed tricks and clients who are effing city council commissionets sit up in city council meeting and sander and defame trans women. It baffled me and the only conclusion i was left to draw was that they must keep us accessable as prostitutes, hence the legal oppression.

[bluesoul]

You shall hear no more of me after this.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I wholly respect your opinion and understand it comes from your personal experiences and observations. I'm sad that you've grouped ALL us men into the same basket. I wish you nothing but happiness.

[marriedgrl_chasrstayaway]

@Bluesoul-Lol. I know... that wasnt entirely truthful