ask someone that just got friendzoned by a ts anything

[Jamie French]

Yeah. You have a lot to learn about the human condition. We aren't talking about a person making decisions under duress. We are talking CLASSIC butt hurt ego.

"I'm SO perfect for her and she's deciding NOT to choose ME! The world doesn't make sense! It's all so perfect in my head! How can she not see that?!!"

She is a prize. A thing to be won. And end game. He doesn't care about her. He cares that things aren't going his way while she's busy just trying to live her life with her own goals, ambitions and thoughts that he can't even begin to fathom because they don't involve HIM.

Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)

I'm not good at math. Stephen Hawking is. Stephen is the authority there.
This guy's a loser. I'm not. I'm the authority here.

Jamie, Jamie, Jamie. SMH that was a little harsh don't you think? of course that's what you do - harsh isn't - do you really believe people don't put barriers between themselves - barriers like fear and or confusion - if you don't I believe that you have much to learn about the human condition perhaps almost as much as I do BTW you have an incredibly nice ass

[fred41]

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps?

Lmao...I'll definitely be using this sentence someplace / sometime in the future.Thanks.

[Amber Littlefeather]

I look very much like my avatar, although it should be noted that (spoiler alert) my skin isn't quite that white. Not quite the answer I was shooting for, but I'll take it.

yes he looks very much like his avatar

[maaarc]

Yeah. You have a lot to learn about the human condition. We aren't talking about a person making decisions under duress. We are talking CLASSIC butt hurt ego.

"I'm SO perfect for her and she's deciding NOT to choose ME! The world doesn't make sense! It's all so perfect in my head! How can she not see that?!!"

She is a prize. A thing to be won. And end game. He doesn't care about her. He cares that things aren't going his way while she's busy just trying to live her life with her own goals, ambitions and thoughts that he can't even begin to fathom because they don't involve HIM.



I'm not good at math. Stephen Hawking is. Stephen is the authority there.
This guy's a loser. I'm not. I'm the authority here.

"Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)"

Oh so you are some how special right? LOL

and how do you KNOW all this about their relationship Jamie??? I guess you are now the arbiter of all human relationship matters LOL

[Jamie French]

Yup.

"Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)"

Oh so you are some how special right? LOL

and how do you KNOW all this about their relationship Jamie??? I guess you are now the arbiter of all human relationship matters LOL

[maaarc]

Yup.

I love fucking with you hard cases baby - seriously, be well Jamie

[gaysian71]

Ouch Jamie, thats so harsh. But maybe that's what this guy needs to hear from a girls point of view. It could be very therapeutical for him. If he is smart, he'll just get over it and find another girl. TG or GG.

Uhhh... No one puts a barrier between themselves and who they want. That's simply not how actual humans work.

At all.

She's not preventing herself from dating you. She just doesn't want you. Want proof? She's not with you even though you are 100% available. You aren't wanted by her in that way. She's not attracted to you.

Are you fat? Old? Too young? overly muscular? Too skinny? Too manly? Too femme? Whatever you are... she ain't into it. Want proof? Go shake hands with the last sentence in the second paragraph.

Nobody wants to ask a "friendzone victim" any questions... you're on the lowest rung of the ladder. Everyone else is already relatively well adjusted when it comes to relationships. We already have the answers. You're simply posting this to hear yourself talk about it... pretty typical of a guy who thinks they are the star of their own movie. You aren't capable of acknowledging that a girl might have any agency outside of your influence and desires. Just like you weren't able to catch that whiff of cynicism in my initial reply.

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps? Totes serious.

[Jamie French]

Cop out. I guess it's back to the kiddy table with you. Aim high champ, you'll be able to hang with the grown ups some day. I believe in you.

I love fucking with you hard cases baby - seriously, be well Jamie

[Jamie French]

Coddling is just the worst. Not even this guy deserves it.

Ouch Jamie, thats so harsh. But maybe that's what this guy needs to hear from a girls point of view. It could be very therapeutical for him. If he is smart, he'll just get over it and find another girl. TG or GG.

[Skye]

Yup.

Agreed.
Shutdown.
Game over man, GAME OVER.