Working with Transexual woman in your 9 to 5 job

[lifeisfiction]

How would you guys handle working with a co worker that transitions on the job in your workplace. Would you show your support? Would your view this as your chance to get to know a trans woman, become friends, ask out, try to date, or see this as a chance to live out a fantasy of sleeping with a ts female, and risk being outted?

It will be 10 yrs ago next month that I transitioned on my job, and for the most part it's been great drama free, more Coworkers say hello or talk with me now than my past life there, and in the past few yrs quite a few of my male coworkers hit on me, flirt, or have asked me out, including a lesbian who became angry and hasn't said a word to me in a few yrs since I turned down her invite to meet her at a bar for a drink. I won't date or sleep with anyone from my workplace thou. Don't need a potential headache developing on the job

I'm also have been celibate now just over 3 yrs, enjoy being single and relationship free

James said it best. Work is for making money. Friends, yes but I am generally friendly to everyone so, yea I wouldn't think about saying oh wow, I want to hook with my co-worker. I have seen enough relationship problems stemming from a work environment. Then you can have major problem if you start dating and it ends really messy, now for the rest of you duration with the business you have work with a person.... Yeah let me stop there.

[JenniferParisHusband]

I used to work with a woman who transitioned much later in life. This was in the mid-90's, in a very conservative city, and I don't remember her having an easy time of things in our office. I never saw her talk to too many people, and never went to lunch with anyone. I was still young, and hadn't had a lot of experience in the world yet, and normally hung with the people in my department. When she got her SRS, she never came back. Always felt sorry for her, of course that office was filled with Corporate douche-nozzles. I was glad when I left.

Later in life, went to law school with a girl who was still pre-op. She was pretty, fun, and nice to work with. Wanted to date her, but I had a job where I very much had to be mindful of my public image, and keep most of my life private (couldn't use Facebook even). We came close, I got about 2 minutes of a blow job from her before she had to quit (public place, people were starting to come close to us.) Always wanted to try again, but left the city before I got another chance to try to get a relationship going. Would have loved to work with her though. She was a lot of fun, and wicked smart.

[RallyCola]

beyond the scope of my work in school where i was fortunate to meet and befriend a few transwoman, admittedly the majority of my interactions have been through porn/escorts. also, despite previously being involved with my undergrad and grad lgbta's, again, those people have faded away. that said, I am fortunate to I work with a wonderful woman who is quite intelligent, funny, engaging, attentive and who is amid her transition. at first it was a bit odd to socialize with her simply because she is one of the department admins and my lab mates and colleagues, well, frankly frown on that because they are aloof...but beyond getting passed that, i had no issue being seen as supportive of her and friendly with her. my wife and i have lunch with her at least 2x weekly and we are all great friends now. she came to the department about 2 months or so after I did. she interviewed as a woman states that at no time during the interview process was she asked about her gender identity. i specifically remember my colleagues trying to be crass but 1) being afraid to do it for fear of harassment charges, or 2) they are just not that crass because they are a bunch of nerds. She does well at her job and for all intents and purposes never needs to address her gender issue.

She is one of only 2 transwomen that i presently count among my close group of friends. my other close friend crossdressed for about 3 years and actually lived as a woman in all aspects other than work for 2-3 years before finally starting to transition with hormones and elective surgeries. she had agonized over telling her boss that she was transitioning because she worked for a very small agency on long island. ironically, her agony was really self inflicted as she was accepted for the woman she was transitioning to be. i am not sure how exactly she managed to do it but one day, she ripped the band aid off and walked into work as a woman and never looked back. it took quite a bit of guts to do it that way.

[Rusty Eldora]

I work along side transgender women quite a bit in my job. It is very difficult to not hit on them and not sleep with them. As a matter of fact if I don't have sex with them the camera man would get mad and I probably would get fired......lol I do love my job

It's in your Position Description to fuck and suck them to their delight. The rest of us are quite jealous. You get paid to be with girls we only dream about.

[Bark]

How would you guys handle working with a co worker that transitions on the job in your workplace. Would you show your support? Would your view this as your chance to get to know a trans woman, become friends, ask out, try to date, or see this as a chance to live out a fantasy of sleeping with a ts female, and risk being outted?

It will be 10 yrs ago next month that I transitioned on my job, and for the most part it's been great drama free, more Coworkers say hello or talk with me now than my past life there, and in the past few yrs quite a few of my male coworkers hit on me, flirt, or have asked me out, including a lesbian who became angry and hasn't said a word to me in a few yrs since I turned down her invite to meet her at a bar for a drink. I won't date or sleep with anyone from my workplace thou. Don't need a potential headache developing on the job

I'm also have been celibate now just over 3 yrs, enjoy being single and relationship free

If she is cut enough I want to go home with her, see her sexy secret.

[Wendy Summers]

I work along side transgender women quite a bit in my job. It is very difficult to not hit on them and not sleep with them. As a matter of fact if I don't have sex with them the camera man would get mad and I probably would get fired......lol I do love my job

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[Tapatio]

A lot of the responses seem to instantly sexualize being transsexual.

I feel that kind of sucks.

I know this is a porn forum, but still...

[gaysian71]

I have only been lucky enough to work with one transsexual woman. I actually hired her. She was married plus I worked with her, so I made no sexual advances toward her in any way. But she was fun as hell to work with. Given the opportunity I would hire another transgendered woman. But there aren't many in y industry, so unfortunately it probably won't happen again.

[SmithXXX]

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HAHAHAHA. .....
You just had to go there huh? Definitely made me laugh. Ed will probably get a chuckle out of that response too.

[MrFanti]

How would you guys handle working with a co worker that transitions on the job in your workplace. Would you show your support? Would your view this as your chance to get to know a trans woman, become friends,

-Wouldn't mind one bit.
I would definitely support and would also love to get to know the individual.

Great question!