Blair Ryder cheated me

[maxpower]

we all are happy for you. even blair.
but we all are much happier knowing that ( by simply posting a note here, that alone made a chain of reactions that restored your faith and money ).
it is people like you, who do inform us here about such things, that help straighten up the whole industry even if just a little.
thanks for sharing, now we all have many notes about paybal and about the whole client-performer agreements.

You obviously don't understand sarcasm.

[pikashoo]

sigh, you are right, never did, and maybe i never will. still .... i read my reply now and it kinda add a bit fun factor to the whole thing.

[Tapatio]

You're still a creep, a tranny chaser and a pervert. Fuck you.

Can't understand why nobody "likes" this.

As it played out he even tried to confer shame on her ("interestingly, PayPal wasn't concerned about the adult nature...") and still doesn't understand the real problem. It's not him bring ripped off.

This is the guy who throws his legs over his head, cums in his own mouth, and then pukes and sobs while promising himself he'll never do it again.

[8bit]

i wonder whats a good payment processor that's not paypal and that would let me maintain my anonymity while giving others their safety

[Torris]

Speaking only as a Camgir and not a porn industry expert, I do not call paying customers mooks or any other ugly term. People who beg for freebies or steal the clips I try to sell, I call moochers or losers. I understand not everyone has good income, but being broke does not excuse theft of obnoxious begging. But people who spend money on me, I call them tippers, customers, clients, real fans or just guys.

This is baggage I carry from years of monitoring posts on Usenet. Rec.arts.movies.erotica. The internet was new and it was the first case where porn consumers and fans could gather to discuss all things porn.

Consumer ripoffs were part and parcel of the industry's semi legal years. As people called attention to ripoffs like Vivid editing their VHS releases to half length for DVD's; putting popular girls on the box covers who weren't in the movies, tapes that didn't play or have sound etc, the porn pros who came to the discussion group were incensed over such customer empowerment

It was especially acute when Marc Wallice infected several girls by faking his AIM tests and the porno Omertà was cracked open for all to see

It was also very evident when the reaction to Wallice and Dr. Sharon Mitchell who got her medical degree from the bottom of a Cracker Jack box tried to shame consumers into accepting Condom only porn. When those of us mooks said, "we won't buy it" assholes like 500 pound Jabba the Hut Mark Kernes took to the pages of AVN to condescendingly say J'accuse

End result. VCA went out of business, Vivid lost about half of their sales and the rise of gonzo like Anabolic, Evil Angel and others captured market share.

The porn industry was used to being able to selling a shitty product for high price and telling the mooks to go fuck themselves if they didn't like it

The internet and information sharing allowed for a customer empowerment that forced the industry to finally compete for customer loyalty and like any cartel, legal or illegal, they greatly resented that.

I am not going to assume that I know your motivation Crystal, but as a sole proprietor you are mostly responsible for cultivating your brand for yourself in a highly competitive market

And the tables have definitely turned to consumers having full power to use that same internet to steal everyone's content

For the same reason I don't steal music or use bit torrent I don't do tubes. I like the porn experience of shopping for porn DVDs and music CDs. Try to keep shops and online vendors in business. Otherwise it is a law of diminishing returns.

Only problem I have is where to store it all

[crystalsopen]

i wonder whats a good payment processor that's not paypal and that would let me maintain my anonymity while giving others their safety

I like bitcoin, but any service provider that supports adult work can be good.
Here is a list of possible providers and reviews.

[mrchallenge]

Its funny, when I first started this thread, I was actually expecting alot of backlash from die hard Blair Ryder fans jumping in to defend her honour. But that didn't really happen.

Instead, I get made fun of for the apparent 180 that I pulled once I got my money back. I probably deserve it , since it seems silly of me to do in hindsight. Everything I said in my original post is the truth but I was just trying to take the high road. I don't hold grudges and there is no hate in my heart. I got my money back and that's all I wanted. I didn't want any public shaming or anything.

I've only been a "tranny chaser" for 3 months now lol. I'm a straight guy and ts porn is a relatively recent discovery. I like it even better than genetic girl porn nowadays! 99 percent of the transsexual performers that I have interacted with are awesome human beings. And I make it a point to treat them as human beings instead of just performers. Sure there are a few bad apples here and there, but I don't let that ruin it for me, its still been an awesome experience.

[Stavros]

i wonder whats a good payment processor that's not paypal and that would let me maintain my anonymity while giving others their safety

LiveJasmin uses UKASH vouchers -you hand over, say $100 cash in a retail outlet that sells the vouchers, no names or ID required; then go online to the website and purchase services by using the pin number on the voucher. Anonymous throughout.

[crystalsopen]

LiveJasmin uses UKASH vouchers -you hand over, say $100 cash in a retail outlet that sells the vouchers, no names or ID required; then go online to the website and purchase services by using the pin number on the voucher. Anonymous throughout.

Cute idea, but I cannot pay rent with or utilities with UKASH. It looks like the do prepaid credit cards, which I could use to pay most of my bills. They aren't the only company who does something like this. And most of these prepaid cards have fee's attached to them too.