Do TS women prefer dudes who are bottoms

[gaysian71]

You are a real woman, and an angel. And now I'm in love.

... and THAT is exactly why so many REAL TGIRLS don't come on this forum anymore.

Not sure why so many people (the vast majority being 'top' men) feel they have the right to define what determines a "REAL TGIRL".

Let's switch it, up shall we? Most people outside of HA would say that you 3 aren't straight or even REAL MEN, just because of your attraction to trans women. Regardless of whether you're a top or a bottom. Hence why you secretly come to HA to discuss your attraction to trans women. It's a place where you can safely discuss the taboo that gets you off. You certainly can't discuss this with your boys, your dad, your brother, or ever your gf, because they wouldn't understand. Granted, we all know they are wrong about their opinions of trans women and the men who are attracted to us. Having said that, why would you turn HA into a place that isn't safe for trans women who are tops and men who bottom for us?

For the record, I am a top. For work AND in real life. I can assure you I am not just a REAL TGIRL, but I am also a REAL WOMAN. Going further, I have the legal documents (License, Passport, etc) to reflect my gender. Female is who I am, not what I practice. Therefore what turns me on, and what I do in bed changes absolutely nothing.

It's pretty hypocritical that some people think bottoming for a tgirl is much different then fucking a tgirl while their balls smack on hers.

On that note, once again (like so many other tgirls) I'm seriously wondering if it's worth logging in here anymore.

XOXO
-K

[nysprod]

What i said was not meant to be judgemental in any way...however, it wasn't the smartest thing to say by a longshot so i stand corrected, carry on and have a great day.

[Jericho]

Let's switch it, up shall we? Most people outside of HA would say that you 3 aren't straight or even REAL MEN, just because of your attraction to trans women.

That is very well said.
There's a few cunts around here who would do well to remember that, when they start getting uppity!

And speaking of remembering, i remember who are/were now (yeah, i know, I'm slow), welcome back to HA.

[BBc34]

Have u ever been fucked ? im just curious

[crystalsopen]

Well said.

Crystal, your "sorry I'm still here" blog entry worries me. I wish you the best.

I didn't mean to worry anyone, so I took that down. I was tired, stressed, worried about somebody, and I had lost my direction (career wise at least). As far as worrying about my friends, I need to learn I cannot fix everything for everyone I care about. But I know where I want to go from here. And in my personal live I like to help trans-sisters whenever possible. Thank you for caring.

[crystalsopen]

... and THAT is exactly why so many REAL TGIRLS don't come on this forum anymore.

Not sure why so many people (the vast majority being 'top' men) feel they have the right to define what determines a "REAL TGIRL".

Let's switch it, up shall we? Most people outside of HA would say that you 3 aren't straight or even REAL MEN, just because of your attraction to trans women. Regardless of whether you're a top or a bottom. Hence why you secretly come to HA to discuss your attraction to trans women. It's a place where you can safely discuss the taboo that gets you off. You certainly can't discuss this with your boys, your dad, your brother, or ever your gf, because they wouldn't understand. Granted, we all know they are wrong about their opinions of trans women and the men who are attracted to us. Having said that, why would you turn HA into a place that isn't safe for trans women who are tops and men who bottom for us?

For the record, I am a top. For work AND in real life. I can assure you I am not just a REAL TGIRL, but I am also a REAL WOMAN. Going further, I have the legal documents (License, Passport, etc) to reflect my gender. Female is who I am, not what I practice. Therefore what turns me on, and what I do in bed changes absolutely nothing.

It's pretty hypocritical that some people think bottoming for a tgirl is much different then fucking a tgirl while their balls smack on hers.

On that note, once again (like so many other tgirls) I'm seriously wondering if it's worth logging in here anymore.

XOXO
-K

Well said. Unfortunately its often necessary to explain stuff we consider to be pretty basic, and explain it over and over. That is one of the best and most important forms of trans advocacy. Ignorance is the basis for prejudice; and prejudice is the justification for discrimination and hate crimes. So removing ignorance is the one of the best ways to help our cause. Thank you.

[Marty Mcfly]

I call bullshit on Karabella for the not safe comment..This is a discussion board whicch means people have the right to state theor own view points if you can not hear another view besides your own then NO you should not log on again.A convo is not for you..I as well as MANY other Men,Woman,and TS see nothing at all Fem or ladylike about A TS top and can never see one as anything but a very fem male..Thats my personal view point.You can have yours to many of these guys kiss any and every TGirls ass wothout respect for fellow male posters..
Tops in my view are Gay men.

[Marty Mcfly]

For the record my friends do know about me and tgirls since that is all i date
Not all of us are ashamed to be seen with TSa
Since my girls are bottoms i see them as females.They are GG to me.

[fred41]

I call bullshit on Karabella for the not safe comment..This is a discussion board whicch means people have the right to state theor own view points if you can not hear another view besides your own then NO you should not log on again.A convo is not for you..I as well as MANY other Men,Woman,and TS see nothing at all Fem or ladylike about A TS top and can never see one as anything but a very fem male..Thats my personal view point.You can have yours to many of these guys kiss any and every TGirls ass wothout respect for fellow male posters..
Tops in my view are Gay men.

Constantly repeating a prejudicial statement is not conversation or debate.

Conversation or debate requires one to at least have an open mind to another's point of view or at least respect the answer that was given...your remarks are just pure bullshit at this point given to create a rise...and they did.
In other words your just an asshole pure and simple.

[Karabella]

I call bullshit on Karabella for the not safe comment..This is a discussion board whicch means people have the right to state theor own view points if you can not hear another view besides your own then NO you should not log on again.A convo is not for you..I as well as MANY other Men,Woman,and TS see nothing at all Fem or ladylike about A TS top and can never see one as anything but a very fem male..Thats my personal view point.You can have yours to many of these guys kiss any and every TGirls ass wothout respect for fellow male posters..
Tops in my view are Gay men.

I agree that you have the right to say whatever you'd like. Just like I have the right to correct you like I did earlier. Your 'personal view' is like an asshole, everyone has one. What I stated were facts. I (like every top, bottom or versatile trans woman before and after me) are REAL TGIRLS and REAL WOMEN despite your lack of mental capacity to comprehend that.

For the record my friends do know about me and tgirls since that is all i date
Not all of us are ashamed to be seen with TSa
Since my girls are bottoms i see them as females.They are GG to me.

Anonymous users could claim they're astronauts on here just to prove a point. So, I'm not going to entertain this claim.

Carry on.

XOXO
-K