Why do guys lie about their anal experience?

[DisguisedHornyGent]

Lol. That pretty much sounds like rape. I have not experienced that either. However to your point for the longest time my ass was a no fly-zone. I’ve been told I have a nice ass across the board, until I met a “beautiful girl” like you said and just went for it. I’ve done it a few times then, but I still prefer to top.

[holzz]

i don't think anal size represents anal experience. maybe they just went for a shit, or have some medical condition. it's wrong to say the anus is loose for any experienced guy. it's a muscle, it gets tight if there is no need to shit.

that said, i don't get the need to feel pensive or lie about this. since the escort knows why you're there and they won't laugh at you. we all know that bottoming is a major part of the deal in sex with trans women.

[Slave 2 Alekssandra]

I used to say this to myself all the time, I have learned to just let go and go with the flow and enjoy it. I am submissive but why worry myself with other labels.

[Lorca81]

Lots of guys, whether they are into other men or trans women, feel ashamed that they enjoy bottoming (hence the term "bottom shame"). However, IMO, the propensity many trans women to engage in blatant bottom shaming of men any guy who isn't a 100% top also plays a huge role.

[mikey_stl]

The last escort I went to didn't even ask me what I wanted (which was to suck her and get fucked and get sucked too) She seemed to know instinctively what I wanted -- and gave it to me.

If it's a provider, I'd just want to know, because she might be using old pictures. I personally don't like to tell my age, so I can understand a lady not wanting to.

I don't want to give the impression that I'm some kind of anal whore. I love anal. However, for me it is a rare treat. I love the feeling of being filled, and to know that the person banging me is getting off. It just feels so good to have a cock slide in and out of me -- it feels better than a dildo. My anus is one of my main erogenous zones. I'd never had a GG fuck me with a strap-on, and I'd love to have that too. But I do like the feeling of a real dick. I rarely get to experience that, so when I go to a trans provider, that's one of the things I want. I don't know if that answers the question, but those are my thoughts.

Anal sex is pretty taboo, especially for a straight guy. It may be easier to just pretend that this is the first time. I personally haven't had anal that much, and I'm pretty tight. I've never said it's my first time, but I am a bit shy about admitting that I like it.

[Yepyepp]

I dunno about lying, but I often just want to suck some girly dick, only to be coerced or even straight forced to take the D

Maybe they lie because they feel intimidated or have encountered heavy handed girls before

Hmmm, heavy handed girls...

[Cereal Escapist]

if you are paying for it...why lie? they only care about your cash and hate you whether you are a top or bottom. you are just their current ATM.

if you are not paying for it...why lie? it only makes it more awkward to get what you want AND when you finally get to it, the chick is going to wonder if you truly are just curious or were lying the whole time.

[Murmdrum]

out of all my experiences I have only had one anal experience ...I wasn't looking for that either. it just happened during the session and was with a well known provider with a weapon that probably wasnt smart being my first time lol. ( Carla Brasil) but the point is she didn't believe me that it was my first time. she said alot of guys say that. I said hand to god I am not lying or trying to play out some fantasy. You just took my cherry. not sure if she ever believed me but I know .