How many are comfortable enough to tell your boys or your girl about liking tgirls

[AshlynCreamher]

Well for some trans people are more than just something they get off too.like i mentioned, some guys actually date/marry ts woman.In those instances a dialog about it is bound to happen at some point.
Its not an obligation of course but people will be curious and ask questions.

Following up on this:
For other trans people they may go 15 months of there private life living in deep stealth. Some of these trans people pretend to be or actually do get married to a man with family, friends and work associates. These trans people typicly interact with the family, friends and work associates pretty regularly too.

Why do you think it is that a trans woman can go this long without anyone from family, friends and work associates asking curious questions?

[amberskyi]

Following up on this:
For other trans people they may go 15 months of there private life living in deep stealth. Some of these trans people pretend to be or actually do get married to a man with family, friends and work associates. These trans people typicly interact with the family, friends and work associates pretty regularly too.

Why do you think it is that a trans woman can go this long without anyone from family, friends and work associates asking curious questions?

Not all ts woman are capable or interested in going stealth.thats allot of pressure to hid a vital part of ones identity and past.how does one has a genuine connection or relationship under those circumstances?
A common theme is allot of stealth trans woman narratives is the fear and paranoia of their past getting out.Some described their fear as crippeling or always present.I personally couldn't focus on fostering genuine relationships with that kind of cloud over me.

[disnug]

Most of my friends and about 1/2 my family know, as they have met my girlfriend.
I quit living a "half-life" and decided to tell those that mattered.
Fortunately, nobody gave a shit!
I guess coming out at 40 was not as big a deal as I thought.

[south ov da border]

if I date now its a prerequisite that its out in the open

[Deja Vu]

I've said told my ex, my family and some friends know. It's not a big deal tbh

[longestnamever]

But I have no desire to have a heart to heart with my friends or family about my porn viewing habits.

But to the statement of telling friends or family about liking/watching Tgirl porn. Same reason why I don't tell them how much pot I smoke. It's nobody's business but mine.

ditto!

I never had the inclination to discuss any sort of porn I watched so why start now?

[Chaos]

I have no kids. I have said before that my family doesn't DESERVE to know my business,they made me an outcast at an age when I had no idea what was happening.BUT, if I DID have kids? I'd hide nothing from them(once they're old enough to know). I'd be honest,I'd tell them that NO ONE has the right to look down on you for any choice you make,and to never let OTHER people dictate what YOU live for. ( I hope that came out right).Shit, IF I found the woman of my dreams right now,I'd tell everyone that they can accept it or fuck off.Like I said, no kids,so I may not seem child friendly...