Beware this girl - a horror story

[Prospero]

I received this PM a few weeks back from a guy who was worried and wanted advice:

"Hi I recently slept with XXX without a condom stupidly as i was drunk. You seem to have lots of information on her i was wondering is she ok or should i be seriously worried?"

He wrote to me this morning. He has tested HIV positive. Now he faces hell. he is married. He is sick. He is scared.And he is angry. I can see why.

So I am posting on here to warn anyone who might be tempted to see her.
So to all the guys who see escorts - don't risk your life and, if you are married or have a partner, your relationship for a few stupid moments of risky fun.

[miketaylor912]

how can we allow this girl to offer her services when we know she is hiv positive she should be reported to the police,if she is trying to sleep with guys bareback then she is trying to commit manslaughter !! her infected body should be kicked out of the country !!

[Turlington]

Some folks will never learn...

[Stavros]

I received this PM a few weeks back from a guy who was worried and wanted advice:

"Hi I recently slept with xxxx without a condom stupidly as i was drunk. You seem to have lots of information on her i was wondering is she ok or should i be seriously worried?"

He wrote to me this morning. He has tested HIV positive. Now he faces hell. he is married. He is sick. He is scared.And he is angry. I can see why.

So I am posting on here to warn anyone who might be tempted to see her.

So to all the guys who see escorts - don't risk your life and, if you are married or have a partner, your relationship for a few stupid moments of risky fun.

Without mitigating the importance of the thread, and even with the evidence XXX performs sex without a condom, are we to assume that the man concerned knows without a doubt that he became infected from having sex without a condom with XXX and not from another source, and that XXXis indeed HIV positive? There is a critical difference between behaviour deemed 'reckless' and behaviour deemed 'intentional', although I doubt this man is going to pursue XXX in the courts, the burdens of proof courts require need to be understood. An issue as serious as this one ought to be verified on both sides before allegations are made.

The Terence Higgins Trust has provided some very useful guides which can be accessed here:

http://www.tht.org.uk/myhiv/Telling-people/Law

[nysprod]

I received this PM a few weeks back from a guy who was worried and wanted advice:

"Hi I recently slept with XXX without a condom stupidly as i was drunk. You seem to have lots of information on her i was wondering is she ok or should i be seriously worried?"

He wrote to me this morning. He has tested HIV positive. Now he faces hell. he is married. He is sick. He is scared.And he is angry. I can see why.

So I am posting on here to warn anyone who might be tempted to see her.


So to all the guys who see escorts - don't risk your life and, if you are married or have a partner, your relationship for a few stupid moments of risky fun.

Would you mind terribly if I inject a bit of logic here:

If a prostitute offers you unprotected anal sex assume they have HIV until proven otherwise.

[Prospero]

Pending legal advice the ID of the escort has been removed.

[Prospero]

If a prostitute offers you unprotected anal sex assume they have HIV until proven otherwise.

I heard tell yesterday of a guy who visits the UK and Spain regularly from Paris who boasts that he has slept with scores of girls in London and Spain and engaged in anal intercourse and only twice used a condom. No need for him to get tested I guess.

[nysprod]

Pending legal advice the ID of the escort has been removed.

Right, how could it be assumed this yoyo got it from XXX just because he says he had unprotected sex with her...and odds are he was the bottom anyway.

I heard tell yesterday of a guy who visits the UK and Spain regularly from Paris who boasts that he has slept with scores of girls in London and Spain and engaged in anal intercourse and only twice used a condom. No need for him to get tested I guess.

I throw out around 75% of what I hear as unripe bullpoop...

[Stavros]

What is important about this topic, as shown in the summaries of the law provided by the Terence Higgins Trust, is that it is not enough for A to claim he was infected by B -the Court not only requires blood tests to be made, but for both parties to reveal the details of their sexual history (and this can go back 10 years) as well as evidence that might be on their computers. Even if in this case the person accused of bareback sex is revealed to be HIV positive, it would not be sufficient to obtain a conviction -a court would also need to know about the sexual history of the man making the accusation -indeed, the extent of the revelations that are required on both sides is just one reason why many such cases never get to court in the first place.

[GroobySteven]

I've removed any identifying information. This is hearsay from one individual.

The ethos stands - if you sleep with ANYONE you should take precautions.