Has this happened to anyone else???

[dajerzeeboy]

So when I first got interested in the ts scene I was only into bottom girls. When watching porn I only enjoyed watching girls being bottomed and when I went out to hobby I was only interested in being a top. I did like doing oral but that was it nothing else. Just light oral, didn't want cim, face fucking, or anything like that. The idea of being topped by a girl didn't turn me on at all. As I continued watching ts porn and seeing more ts girls my interests started to shift. I started to get turned on by the idea of being a bottom. I liked watching both top and bottom girls in porn and when I saw a ts girl I wanted to be both top and bottom.

Now I'm only into watching girls topping guys and when I see a provider I am strictly bottom (into cim, getting face fucked, etc). If I'm in the mood to be a top and dominant I'll just see a gg. It's weird how my interests turned around fairly quickly (turnaround probably happened with a year or two). I was just wondering if this has happened to anyone else?

[apocryphal]

Same happened to me, but took longer (five years or so).

[STARTUP999]

Same here. While I like to top I have zero interest in paying for a bottom only. If I want that I don't need to pay.

It must be difficult for the TS girls who hate their penises or just prefer not to or can't top. I remember calling a cute provider who was in the local escort paper. She was all charm "baby" this and "I'm so horny that" until I told her I wanted to bottom. Poor thing sounded like she was going to cry, called me a faggot and hung up. I'm guessing she lost a lot of potential business because of that.

[beastly]

Happened to me. I like topping gg's but when it comes to ts girls it's the other way around.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

When I first discovered my interest in TG's, it didn't take long for me to decide that I wanted to at least try being a bottom. Of course, I didn't actually have my first TS date until about 8 years after I discovered my interest. But, once I tried it, I LOVED it!! I am vers, so I enjoy both roles equally, though my favorite way to cum is by being fucked and stroked by a pretty TG lady. As far as paying for it, I agree with the thread starter. If I am paying, I want options. Sometimes though, the girl is just too big, so I am forced to settle for whatever we can do. lol

[RallyCola]

when i first became interested in tgirls, i never really thought about bottoming...i thought of topping and sucking but that was when i was 14. when i finally got around to acting on it when i was 18, by then, i had already decided i wanted to bottom but didn't want to suck. for a good while and several escorts, i would top and bottom but not suck. i don't know what the mental block was but i never really had any issue with getting fucked because, well, even to this day, i consider oral sex (either way) more intimate than anal sex.

[nysprod]

That hasn't happened to me and it never will..I couldn't even imagine being a bottom.

I have less than zero interest in seeing a manly looking guy bottoming or sucking tgirl dick, although I once came across a clip where a very fem petite guy (the kind who can look hot as a cd) was getting hammered that I liked.

When I go to parties girls know me as a top only, and I like it that way...and the numerous times when I'm talking to a girl and the convo gets around to sex, the look of relief and desire on her face when I say I'm only top is something I find highly erotic.

I can't stand size queen guys either, especially those under the delusion about how straight they are.

[STARTUP999]

Nyspod- I mean no disrespect I am only borrowing your quote because it concisely sizes up the view many have about this issue. If you identify as a straight top, and it works for you great.

"That hasn't happened to me and it never will..I couldn't even imagine being a bottom....I can't stand size queen guys either, especially those under the delusion about how straight they are."

Since I consider a Transgender Woman - Female, that is NOT a man. My perspective in this area is different.

Long before TG's were consciously on my radar, I was booking a parolee for some violation that was going to send him back to prison for a year. He was loudly trying to convince anyone who would listen (esp. himself I suspect) he did not mind going back to prison because of all food, sleep, exercise and sex enjoyed there.

He gave a detailed account of the sex acts he was looking forward to that I will summarize as he saw himself as the dominate / straight participant and his submissive partners were, "gay-bitches and fags."

A guy in for DUI In the adjacent cell came up with this drunken peal of wisdom. "Dude, it don't matter if your pitch'n or catch'n its all the same game!" I laughed so hard I had trouble breathing. The parolee was real quite after that.

For me, viewing a guy who only tops a TS as "straight" and one who bottoms is "bi/gay" makes as much sense as a guy who only sex with big silicone breasted TS's as "straight" but guys who have sex with TS's with those cute little hormone breasts as "bi" and guys who do flat chested TS girls as "gay". To borrow another quote from the next likely next President of the United States Hillary,"What difference – at this point, what difference does it make?"

When I am toping a TG. I am no more "straight" than when she is topping me.
Who's on top? Who's on bottom? Who's on first? Who cares? Its all the same game.

[Paladin]

... Poor thing sounded like she was going to cry, called me a faggot and hung up....

Well, she got that right.

I'm with nysprod on this one; all you size queen faggits can open up your ass & mouth all you want. Just don't bother me with it.

[STARTUP999]

Paladin,
Please explain to me how if I top a Ts I am "straight" but if someone else bottoms for that same Ts he is a "faggit" ? It seems to me its the gender of the person your having sex with than makes the difference not the sexual act that is performed.

Maybe I have it all wrong. Please don't get angry educate me.