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04-09-2014 #11
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
Online dating is mostly for one night stands for any race or gender in my personal experience. I've met a few couples who were successful through online dating sites but they were the exception not the rule.
Jamie's advice was spot on. You're beautiful amber I think you'll meet someone eventually.
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04-09-2014 #12
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
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04-09-2014 #13
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
Wait... what? Not disclosing your gender, (if it's been altered or is in a state of flux) is the worst possible thing you could do to a stranger who might be a attracted to you if you in turn have a similar interest towards them you intend to act on.
What do you expect to gain other than disappointment, stress and a sour outlook on life if you hide things like this from people?
You weren't born a woman, you were born a man that had to transition. That alone is a solid thing to be. It's real, it exists and you aren't alone. You get to own that and by lying about it through omission you are disrespecting every party involved in whatever social interaction you play a part in.
Does the lady behind the register at Walmart need to know all about your gender? No more than you need to know her blood type, but a potential mate deserves nothing less than to know, upfront and in no uncertain terms.
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04-09-2014 #14
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
Originally Posted by Jamie French
I personally find it awkward to disclose my gender to a guy because I'm a shy and private person.
What I like about edating is that my gender history is known from jump.
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04-09-2014 #15
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
Originally Posted by Jamie French
Wise words from Jamie.
But in defence of on-line dating I would say that i have three sets of very good friends who met this way and have formed solid long term relationshios that appear to be stable.
But then again they are conventional hetereosexual couples. I think Amber is right that disclosure of your gender identity as a TS in a dating forum will inevitably attract a lot of fetishists. Jamie's advice is pretty sound.
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04-09-2014 #16
Re: but trans woman aren't fetishized....its all in our head right?
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