scared to be a bottom

[Chaos]

What a pain in the ass it has to be to keep all these hang ups and outmoded views of sexuality straight!

So many puns...but I agree.

[nysprod]

Interesting. I have total respect for those who prefer to top, for the versatile (my category) and for bottoms. But I seriously don't think it says anything about your masculinity whatever your preference.

Forget labels, i'm all for doing what you want...but a woman recieves the man, that's biology.

your only gay if you start pushing back

Lmaooo!

[amberskyi]

Forget labels, i'm all for doing what you want...but a woman recieves the man, that's biology.

I agree

[Ms.Stepford]

Forget labels, i'm all for doing what you want...but a woman recieves the man, that's biology.

That's for reproduction. We're way past that.

[nysprod]

That's for reproduction. We're way past that.

People play roles in many aspects of their lives, and to play the female role is to recieve.

[Rusty Eldora]

Hi Fred - It was good to meet you at the after after party in LA.

No, I don't think you do. I think you like an image that you try to convey...not the same thing.
I think that someone who truly likes themselves..is totally at ease with themselves , including their sexuality.
Don't get me wrong...I'm not saying I'm completely at ease with everything about myself...lol...lord knows I have my own problems....as do most people. But to deny yourself something you might enjoy for the sake of artificial self-image...that's probably not a good way to go.
Just my two cents based on two sentences...so.

I agree, I have found that interaction with Tgirls has made me far more understanding of myself and more at ease - but I need far more study in this area.

I personally have found that being a bottom to someone that vibes fem is a huge turn on and the most intense rush of my life. If they don't feel very fem it is so-so to stop now for me. Something about submitting to a female, having her in control flips a lot of things in me on many levels.

[transfan8591]

I don't believe in no man bending over and receiving..that is feminine.
I don't and would not, when I see a Trans woman, I see a regular woman
and want to have sex with her as such.

[TSaddicted]

Lol I'm loving the debate here, never knew it would receive such a response. It's obvious that this is a topic that all us guys dwell on as we entertain these beautiful ladies.

[mrtrebus]

I love t-girls and genetic women but I just feel if I give up my ass to a t-girl I could never consider myself straight again. The crazy thing is, is that I always watch "shemale fucks guy" porn, major turn on for me. I absolutely love watching two t's tear a guy up.

It's getting closer to the day it happens, a T has offered to try it with me (fuck me) twice now and the second is scheduled for this week. I don't know if I can do it. I don't want to enjoy it and forever chase dicks up my arse. I like who I am now, I don't want to change. I feel like I'll give up my masculinity.

What an odd post. If it is something you want to try then do it. Why get hung up on definitions of masculinity. . .

[Ms.Stepford]

People play roles in many aspects of their lives, and to play the female role is to recieve.

Yeah...except for in the cases of lesbians, gay men, and many trans people.

I know your mode of thought works for most cis hetero people, but there's a lot more to the story. Just because cis and hetero people are the norm doesn't mean that the experiences of sexual minorities should be discounted and thought abnormal. Your simplistic viewpoint does disservice to a significant portion of the population.

Also, as a man, you have no business defining a "female role."

In short, you're a fifties kind of guy, and the fifties are way over.