Need to Vent

[Tashajones]

Going to be a long post and a bit of a rant about people and Transsexuals.

The one thing I dislike in life is people playing victims. Stop crying and blaming others for your life, grow a pair of balls or use the ones you have and fix your shit. I am sorry if that comes off harsh but I have had a pretty shitty life and have been giving a raw deal most of my life. But I went out on my own at 14 and made something of myself. I was pushed down countless times, had my 5 minutes of licking my wounds and then got back up and made the best of what I had. You do not see me complaining about how I was born with both sexes or how my family/friends treated me. How hard it was to finish nursing school while my BF was beating the crap out of me and my family turned their back on me. Or how most days I felt like drinking draino then having to face the world. No. I dealt with it and made choices to improve myself and to learn from my misfortunes. That is called life people.

Everyone has issues and problems and guess what we all have a past. Just because it happened to you does not make you special or worse off than the next person.

Bitching about being taken advantage of and used by people can only happen when you allow it to. You do not like what someone is offering you, then do not accept it. You do not like the big bad world of porn and the people who run the company’s. Then do not work with them. Or do what I did and start your own. Do not sit there behind your computer and bitch and complain about it. It is business not a fucking charity. People do not start a business to line the road with dollar bills for everyone else to make buck. They start it to improve their own lives. If they make millions good for them. That is called smart business. Unless you own the business your feelings do not matter. They are not here for you.

Last night I was part of a conversation with some girls who were going on and on about a person who runs a porn company. Attacking him to the lowest and making very untrue statements about him as a person. You dislikeing his business is one thing but to attack him on a personal level because he made smart choices and you clearly did not is not acceptable. I had enough and finally said something. My comments where then taken to be used for more victim cry’s about how unfair it was that he was making so much money and they were not getting paid what they think they should. My thoughts were, good for him, smart business move. This is business not a charity as I said. You do not like what he offers or anyone in the business offers you then do not accept. But do not sit there and attack him and cry in your corn flakes about how hard life is.

It really showed me that some girls just need to bitch for the point of bitching. I do not join groups so I can sit there and watch girls act like victims and complain about things while never doing anything to change it. Or standing up and acting like grown woman and having a disagreement or conversation without having to toss in personal insults and attacks. Worst bitching about things they know nothing about. Running a porn company is not cheap or easy. It is time consuming and hard work. Hours of promoting and trying to deal with mental cases on a daily basis. No one is going to just hand you a pile of cash and make no money for themselves that is not smart business.
The other issue I have is girls putting down the porn business itself. “Oh I do not want to be associated with porn” But yet you will go on web cam and wank off or suck guys off in dark ally’s or troll the single sites looking to get your rocks off. Give me a break. Porn can be just as respectful as a 9-5 if done right and you respect yourself. You do not hear GG girls that are pretty with big tits bitching because that is what is in str8 porn. Why is it ok for Transsexuals to feel they are any different? Is the goal for us not to transition into woman? It should not matter what other people are doing. It should only matter what you’re doing in your own life.

You make your own choices in life. You decide how you wish to world to view you. Just because I choose to call myself this or that and get on camera and do things you have no interest in doing. This should not affect you in anyway unless you allow it to. You are in the driver seat of your life. You crash and burn that is your own fault no one else’s.

People who live in glass whore houses have no right to judge others.

Rant over! Feel better now! You do not like my views then please do me a favor and don’t let the “
unfriend button” get stick in between that broom and your ass on the way out 

[AshlynCreamher]

I like you

[Tashajones]

hehe Thank You

[GroobySteven]

To be fair, some company owners have very large heads that they paint a target on - and invite people to throw things at.

[Tashajones]

Steve. I agree but again playing victim and personal attacks that hit below the belt are uncalled for.

[nysprod]

Making money in porn has a lot to do with being in the right place at the right time...if you were producing videos in the early 80's and into the 90's there potentially were millions to be made...today, the highest probability is that with everything available on the internet, starting a porn business will be a waste of time and money for the vast majority.

[gaiseric]

Well said, Tasha

[giovanni_hotel]

It's not uncommon.

Mainstream actors complain about the money Hollywood studios make and how they aren't paid enough too.

If a girl's brand is that strong, go solo with your own site and build your fanbase.

Or hell start your own company.
There are better more productive things to do than feel sorry for yourself.

I think many girls have wildly unrealistic expectations about how much money you can earn as talent in TS porn.

[hairyguy]

Making money in porn has a lot to do with being in the right place at the right time...if you were producing videos in the early 80's and into the 90's there potentially were millions to be made...today, the highest probability is that with everything available on the internet, starting a porn business will be a waste of time and money for the vast majority.

nope. offer something unique. all vids in HD of course (the tube sites have 'em but they are for-pay). sell used items such as panties or cum-soaked panties or bras, etc. interact with your clients. entertain them (webcam most likely). have casual chats with them where they pay you ($5 an hour if 20 people join, so you make $100 that hour). there is so much you can do to make money in porn. there's no such thing as an industry, ESPECIALLY like porn, collapsing. people have to be creative and offer something better than what is free. i see free youtube videos but if i want better, i have to subscribe to satellite or cable TV. i see the NFL on tv (i really love the NFL) but if i want better, i will go to the games to experience the presence of being there and watching the best athletes (gladiators) go at it. if i have even more money, i will meet the athletes or get a personal trainer to get a body/skillset like them. there are plenty of people in this world who have money to spend and EVERY human loves sex. that dopamine high is just like cocaine and we chase it whether we like it or not because our testosterone makes sure we remember why we are here on earth and why girls wear skirts - so we can fuck them real good, and that costs money. what will YOU do to make money off that?

no, porn hasn't failed its producers. there is plenty-o-money to be made. in fact, now that it has become so mainstream and casually accepted, more people are consuming it. what will YOU do to sell your services to your consumers?

and i don't think TS porn as a niche is to blame for income. i am sure vaniity, who was hanging out with celebs like justin beiber, has made a lot of money so far. if you are not that pretty, save money and get facial feminization surgery. be a bit more feminine or learn your industry to become a top earner.

[TempestTS]

Some people are just tainted by their own self doubts and cant seem to lift themselves up without tearing down someone else.

- In the end there are two kinds of people in the world - those that lift you up when you are down and then there's the bastards that put you there in the first place -

- take care for one is often and easily mistaken for the other.