First time - what did you wish you'd known?

[Slipnslide]

I'm going to try two new things at once - seeing an escort, and seeing a tgirl - and I've realized that I don't really know what to expect, nor what the rules are. I know who I'd like to see. Well, it's down to one of two.

So, the question I'd like to ask (and there can't be a better place to ask it) is...

...if you've ever been with an escort, and/or a t-girl, what do you wish you'd known (or known how to do!) before you went?

I realize I could just wing it, but if I'm going to do something, I'm going to do it well

[saifan]

I've yet to have a straight up bad experience.

Research the girl as much as you can. Check reviews, authenticate...

On the phone don't be too graphic. Find out what you need to know by getting creative. "I'm a guy who like to stay on top of things."

Don't go cheap. If your budget isn't in the $200+ neighborhood save up until it is.

Be clean, be polite and be safe.

Have fun.

[RallyCola]

what do i wish i had known....

even though i wanted it to be "special" and "romantic" and such...i wish i had not built up the fantasy so much and i wish i had realized that i was just a $ to her. i was so into doing everything i had imagined...i was so into thinking "am i sucking her right?", that i was so rushed and didn't take my time to enjoy it.

both times that i lost my virginity, that is my virginity itself and then finally being with a transwoman were nearly identical in that i let my nerves get to me and i was not patient. if i knew then what i know now, i would have slowed my pace, let the sex come naturally and not been so frenetic about it.

my simple advice is, don't think about the clock. don't think about her rates. don't think about labels. just enjoy the woman you are with in any way she allows and you desire and savor every inch.

[Dino Velvet]

I was really nervous my first time with a T-Girl. I sat frozen on a chair basically looking at her. She smiled, leaned over, and initiated the contact. She smelled like peaches and her skin was so soft and moist. Went well and I had a confused by still shit-eating grin as I walked back out to my truck.

Like the other wise fellas said, do your homework and use your resources. Be patient about things so your first time isn't a disappointment.

[Tapatio]

You lost me at special and romantic.

what do i wish i had known....

even though i wanted it to be "special" and "romantic" and such...i wish i had not built up the fantasy so much and i wish i had realized that i was just a $ to her. i was so into doing everything i had imagined...i was so into thinking "am i sucking her right?", that i was so rushed and didn't take my time to enjoy it.

both times that i lost my virginity, that is my virginity itself and then finally being with a transwoman were nearly identical in that i let my nerves get to me and i was not patient. if i knew then what i know now, i would have slowed my pace, let the sex come naturally and not been so frenetic about it.

my simple advice is, don't think about the clock. don't think about her rates. don't think about labels. just enjoy the woman you are with in any way she allows and you desire and savor every inch.

[STARTUP999]

I wish I had known that (for me at least) big cocks are much easier to take doggie style than laying on my back. When a cock slams into that back wall it hurts!

I wanted to look in her eyes when she pentirated me (sort of a romantic fantasy I suppose). I will always remember her beautiful ebony face as she deflowered me though so I guess it was worth it.

[Reinhardt11]

I wish I had checked that she was using a condom.
Im paranoid about being safe. It was my one major issue I had about seeing my first TS. not that I think a TS is anymore risky than anyone else, but I wanted to bottom, and everything on the interweb says that being a bottom carries a higher risk than being a top.
i did ask her and she said that she was wearing one, but I should have made sure and looked, but I was so overwhelmed. it was dark and she was behind me so I wasnt 100% sure. other than my paranoia it was great.

[Prospero]

Reinhardt... if this was very recently and you are still not sure, go get tested.

[Reinhardt11]

it was a couple of years ago and i got tested as soon as I could (3 weeks, 6 weeks & at 3 months) and all clear (and tested since - and learnt my lessoNn). thanks for the concern though.....

[south ov da border]

I wish I had known that (for me at least) big cocks are much easier to take doggie style than laying on my back. When a cock slams into that back wall it hurts!

THIS... I've only been with one lady and she always wanted me on my back so she could jerk me at the same time. I learned to take it but when she got good and going it wasn't that comfortable... but I learned to deal with it.

Also I wish I'd have known that Orlando is such a dead town for this type of action. She was a victim of a shooting and I haven't had any more experiences since