No Strings Sex - Charging For It

[whiteitalianchocolate36]

I just saw another thread about someone posting for no strings attached sex with an attractive tgirl with a big dick.

What made me post this was that someone said don't expect a tgirl to give you no strings attached sex without charging you.

My question is why does charging someone for a night out and sex have to be a prerequisite with a lot of TGs? I have been with GGs and TGs. I have never experienced that mentality with GGs and I have been with a decent amount (not too many and not too little). I have been with 3 tgirls and 1 out of 3 asked me for money AFTER I got to her house (didn't give it to her and fucked anyway lol). I was just curious as to what the responses and discussion would be. Why does it seem to mostly be like that in the TG community? I see it so much on all TG websites.

I've never had a GG say I had to pay her if all I was looking for was sex whether it was before meeting or after meeting and we were attracted to each other and about to do something. Nobody has ever said after I've kissed them, "If we are going to just fuck you are going to have to pay me.".

I'm not knocking anyone for doing what they do either.

[amberskyi]

Because the amount of men that approach a trans girl for just sex is disproportionately higher than the men who are approaching her for something real.often times these men are closeted and just looking for an experience.doesn't really sound all that appealing when someone hits you up on some "I've never been with a shemald, be my first" type shit.
It can be a bit discouraging so some charge for it.

[Rabbiteyes]

I've never had a GG say I had to pay her if all I was looking for was sex whether it was before meeting or after meeting and we were attracted to each other and about to do something.

Because GGs know even if it is a hookup or something like that...there is still the real possibility that things might progress into more of a relationship. Yea, for that moment it is "just about sex", but many relationships start with FWB and then you get to know each other.

TGs learn that most guys JUST want sex and the idea of anything more is out of the question (even just going out in public together to spend time together isn't something a lot of guys would do because they are so ashamed / embarrassed to be seen with you). Basically, the TG is just a dirty little secret / fetish that the guy wants to try once or twice before moving on... so you are pretty much a whore at that point anyway, might as well charge.

Also given the financial difficulties many TGs have (transitioning isn't cheap, combined with the huge discrimination in terms of work opportunities)... it makes the idea of earning money from sex even more appealing (if you are going to be used and thrown away, might as well try to get further ahead in transition).

Ideally getting enough money will allow a TG to transition far enough (surgeries and whatnot) that they might finally get a shot for a real relationship (most TGs end up alone though, regardless of how they look).

[giovanni_hotel]

If more guys actually DATED TS instead of just seeking them out only for booty calls, tgirls wouldn't think sex with random men had a price tag on it.

If admirers like myself still didn't have issues about being out and proud all the time about our attraction to trans-women, it would kill the whole escorting game because most of these girls would be snatched up with BFs.

For a guy, just imagine that 99% of all the women you knew ONLY wanted to see you behind closed doors and ONLY for sex. After a while it would fuck your head up.

I've been kicked out of a girl's apartment a few times after sex and even that minor diss made me feel used. I imagine for TS dealing with DL men that feeling is 100x worse.

It up to admirers to change the game, not TS.

If a guy treats a girl, GG or TG, like she's a prostitute(only good to fuck/suck then bounce), she would be dumb not to charge for the experience.

[amberskyi]

So are you saying your still closeted because i never really got that vibe from you

[nysprod]

If more guys actually DATED TS instead of just seeking them out only for booty calls, tgirls wouldn't think sex with random men had a price tag on it.

C'mon man, no way to factually ascertain this "statistic."

If admirers like myself still didn't have issues about being out and proud all the time about our attraction to trans-women, it would kill the whole escorting game because most of these girls would be snatched up with BFs.

That I'll buy, and I admire your honesty

For a guy, just imagine that 99% of all the women you knew ONLY wanted to see you behind closed doors and ONLY for sex. After a while it would fuck your head up.

Life sucks, then you die...what you gonna do...lol

I've been kicked out of a girl's apartment a few times after sex and even that minor diss made me feel used. I imagine for TS dealing with DL men that feeling is 100x worse.

Why kicked out?

It up to admirers to change the game, not TS.

Two way street here.

If a guy treats a girl, GG or TG, like she's a prostitute(only good to fuck/suck then bounce), she would be dumb not to charge for the experience.

Word

[LexusFire]

[Amber Littlefeather]

Hey everyone....I am going to add a little fuel to the fire... its only right that some of the shady guys out there with wives and girlfriends at home should indeed have to pay extra for girls that have extra.

[giovanni_hotel]

So are you saying your still closeted because i never really got that vibe from you

Closeted in the sense that I'm not at that I-don't-give-a-fuck about what anyone else thinks about my attraction to TS 24/7. Like I won't volunteer that info but if it comes up, I won't deny it either.

I also say I'm still in the closet because although I have been in public with TS I'd been intimate with, that's not always the case.
If you aren't OUT about vibing on transwomen and treating them EXACTLY the way you would a GG you're fucking all the time(like going out, getting something to eat, etc.), you IMO aren't totally out.

I still feel like I live two lives; the one that includes TS and a totally different set of friends and places I hang out, and one that doesn't really show that side of me.

TS can be shady for a million different reasons, but bottom line the problem with most transwomen begins and ends with the men who lust after them.

[amberskyi]

*sigh* this life is really fucking depressing sometimes.makes you want to give up