When the hell did fat shaming become such a NO NO!

[SXFX]

Now i'm saying fat.
So all of you brothers from Spanish Harlem can just sit down!
I'm not talking about thick....i'm talking tank ass double sheet cake top women who demand that I look at them as if they are in anyway a sexual being.
I'm talking about women who are no joke one cupcake away from diabetes!

When did being morbidly obese become....the norm?

I have to agree..
http://www.returnofkings.com/25103/f...-airplane-seat

and the video in the end......i lost my lunch!

[SXFX]

Yeah ok...if a guy is fat he's just a fat fuck....but if a girl is 40 lbs over weight ... i have to be ok with it?

Bitch! WTF! Why do you think i go to the gym three fucking days a week and am not stuffing my face with food!

Not only do i want to look good but fuck...i want to live a long happy life! WTF!

[Tapatio]

So, you're saying you like the big girls?

That's cool.

[lordworm]

Saying 40 lbs overweight is not really a good way to say it. You could be 40 lbs over in lean body mass.

[BellaBellucci]

I think bigger people have a lot to offer, but it's only 'just a number' if it's not a reflection of how lazy or unhealthy a person is. Health is more important than size. There's a reason they sometimes call it 'morbid' obesity. And as has been alluded, some people really are just genetically predisposed to being overweight.

~BB~

[tsmirandameadows]

I don't mind someone being overweight. I do mind constant bitching about it, behavior which suggests it is an incurable condition out of their control, or attempts to rationalize it. Yes, some people do have legit medical conditions which predispose them to obesity. No, most overweight people don't have said conditions. If being fit is sufficiently important to you, you will find the time to exercise -- 30 minutes, 4-5 times per week is sufficient for most adults -- and you will keep track of what you eat and always ask yourself whether eating that cookie or extra helping of dinner is worth the extra calories. I'm not gonna judge UNTIL you start acting like this isn't a straightforward thing to fix.

[Ben in LA]

Considering how I look, I'm in no position to judge ANYONE on their looks. For folks seriously overweight, I DO worry about their health...but I'm to nice to say their overweight to their face.

I do love a bit of thickness though. See the three young ladies below. None of them are a size 2, but goddammit they're still very attractive to me.

[tsmirandameadows]

In fairness, being overweight is usually a result of a complex pattern of learned behaviors, and thus getting back to a healthy weight means disentangling those behaviors and modifying them. In that respect, it's not an easy task. That said, the fundamentals of weight loss/gain are VERY straightforward, and the principle steps of exercising regularly and eating fewer calories are not particularly hard.

[runround04]

Just how big is she? If you dont fit in a seat, you need to rethink some choices.

[GroobySteven]

The question "when did fat shaming become such a NO NO" is the topic. It should always have been a NO NO. Why shame someone for who they are? Does it make you feel better about your own inadequacies?

This is where school bullying starts and it continues through their lives. You may as well ask why does "race", "hair colour", "height" or "disability" shaming become a NO NO.

It's more about you - then it is about them.