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[elm]

Normally I don't care for labels but ever since discovering shemales through online porn a few years ago I've been trying to understand what "category" my desires fall under and if others have the same, so here is the situation and maybe some of you can tell me if you have the same situation and what it is I'm supposed to be for the sake of a label, as I'm curious.

I've always been into women (still am) and am in a healthy/loving/sexual relationship for many years.

I've never been into men and have no interest in being with one in anyway.

I'm very much into shemales. A few years ago I was surfing straight porn and curiosity got the better of me and I watched a shemale scene as there was a category for it on the site I was surfing, I think it was either a Lisa Lawer or Dani Evangelista scene and I was soon really into both of them and watched every scene of theirs I could before discovering more and more shemales I liked.

I've never been with a shemale, but I absolutely want to 100%. In fact I've never even met one, my only exposure to shemales has been through online porn. I would love to fuck any number of my many favorite - usually Brazilian - shemales, but I'm pretty certain I never will.

Why? It's not because I don't want to, because I very badly do, it's more because I'm apprehensive of paying for such services (I've never paid for sex before) and what kind of experience it might turn out to be in terms of being ripped off and simply not having the balls to actually do it, I get the feeling I'd just freeze if I got the chance to fuck someone like Bianca Freire even though I've fantasized about it many times. I've read quite a few of the escort reviews on here and so much of it appears hit and miss that it doesn't inspire me to want to go through with it.

My main desire with shemales is the ass, if I had the balls to actually do it, I'd love to pay for the services of a shemale to just lick her ass for an hour, in the event I was too nervous to want to fuck her.

I would happily suck the dick of a shemale but my only desire to do this comes when I see a shemale with a massive dick like a Mariana Cordoba or Adriana Rodrigues. If she has a small dick, I'm not really turned on to do it.

I have no desire to be fucked by a shemale, none at all, it would never happen.

I probably watch more shemale porn these days than straight porn, if I had to put a percentage on it, I probably watch shemale porn 80% of the time over the past year.

So what does all this make me label wise? And do others have the exact same situation? Thanks for any responses, I'm sure this post seems stupid to many of you, but it's been something I've been wondering and wanting to ask for a long time now.

[Stavros]

I saw this thread on shemales and labels and automatically assumed it would be about Louis Vuitton, Givenchy, Armani...

[stan.smith]

No labels. Ur just a straight guy whos into trannies kinda like most guys in here...i assume

[TSMichelleAustin]

Well if ur not into labels why u so concerned? Who really cares. Plus were not shemales were transsexual women. So if u really want to like us, were trans. Shemale is a porn term not what us trans women actually like to be called.

[Tapatio]

I would happily suck the dick of a shemale but my only desire to do this comes when I see a shemale with a massive dick like a Mariana Cordoba or Adriana Rodrigues. If she has a small dick, I'm not really turned on to do it.


So what does all this make me label wise?

What's the male equivalent of "size queen"?

[bluesoul]

[goatman]

Who cares? Spend your whole life worry about what others think & how you'll be perceived, you'll paint yourself in a corner & won't find out that you can actually enjoy yourself(& at some point wonder what might've been). Borrow from Kubrick and "learn to stop worrying & love the gurls"...

[elm]

Well if ur not into labels why u so concerned? Who really cares. Plus were not shemales were transsexual women. So if u really want to like us, were trans. Shemale is a porn term not what us trans women actually like to be called.

Who cares? Spend your whole life worry about what others think & how you'll be perceived, you'll paint yourself in a corner & won't find out that you can actually enjoy yourself(& at some point wonder what might've been). Borrow from Kubrick and "learn to stop worrying & love the gurls"...

Just curiosity, it's not something I worry about.

Michelle, sorry about the use of shemales, ignorance on my part, thanks for the correction.

[elm]

No labels. Ur just a straight guy whos into trannies kinda like most guys in here...i assume

This is what I was thinking but from reading the forum over time I've got the impression it's not considered straight to be into TS. And that makes sense to me since although TS can pass as women, at the end of the day, they are not. So I was curious if there is a label for that beyond a black and white of straight or gay.

[SammiValentine]

This is what I was thinking but from reading the forum over time I've got the impression it's not considered straight to be into TS. And that makes sense to me since although TS can pass as women, at the end of the day, they are not. So I was curious if there is a label for that beyond a black and white of straight or gay.

When entering the world of the gender spectrum its a good idea to leave behind those icky label things that you got accustomed to and embrace the gender spectrum,, the sexuality spectrum, and most importantly..................the cock.

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