Was I asking too much?

[ctguynextdoor]

So like many of you I have a few favorite adult TS stars. One of them has a wishlist on amazon.com and I decided to send her a few gifts. I enclosed a nice card and email address and was hoping I would at least receive a thank you email. Nothing......My question is, was I just being naiive to think I'd get a thanks? Have any of you had better experiences?

[EvaCassini]

Honestly, that's pretty shitty of that girl.

I give a lot to those who "spoil/gift/pay" me. Not just a "thank you note/email/txt", but also I shower them in skype shows, custom porns ( videos and photos ), my number for texting and other assorted things.

It's just simple respect and courtesy. Giving thanks in whatever form that's agreed upon or even gratuitous thanks.

Sorry that happened to you hun. Getting a simple "thanks" is pretty hard to receive nowadays from most apparently.

[DeliaTS]

I think when you are giving someone a gift you shouldn't expect anything in return. However, I don't think you were naive in hoping for a response. I know most girls will at the very least send a thank you email and some will even send pictures with the gift or wearing the gift if it happens to be clothing. But when you give something with an expectation of something in return it no longer is truly a gift AND it becomes more likely that you will be disappointed in the end. So I would try to keep your expectations very low when gifting someone, especially someone who is a "star". That way you will be much more excited when you do get a response and won't be disappointed if you don't.

[Jackal]

Assuming this wasn't set up so you (or your user name) was anonymous, she should have sent a thank you note. Nothing more, nothing less. One of the stars on twitter a few years ago offered to mail out a photograph for X $. I bought one and she sent it along with a thank you note. I am sure she would have send a message of thanks if I bought a present.

"Thank you. That was nice of you," is not too much to expect back.

[Foggy]

I too have a wish on my list.


I wish that dudes would smarten the fuck up.

[suttonporksword]

It should be called a begging list, a wishlist is something you strive for personally, not something you expect to be given to you on a plate. If someones motivated by greed then I wouldnt expect that same person to have any manners. Sorry to burst your bubble!

[tsadriana]

I think thats a really kind gester from you.

[GroobySteven]

That's fucked up - I don't mind the wishlists, if someone wants to treat someone, then it's up to them - but some simple courtesy goes a long way.

[EvaCassini]

It should be called a begging list, a wishlist is something you strive for personally, not something you expect to be given to you on a plate. If someones motivated by greed then I wouldnt expect that same person to have any manners. Sorry to burst your bubble!

For those who constantly ( few times a day, everyday ) post and msg and shout out to the masses with their "wishlists", I agree, it's like a sad begging town crier.

There are those who just have them and when it's called for, then it's given. Nowadays I forget that I have wishlists unless someone asks me if I have one. I prefer to make something worth while for fans. Like creating them something unique ( custom porn ) or simply performing for them ( skype shows ). The cost of what I do/make is pretty reasonable, for what you get. I put forth 100% effort, time, and energy and everything is top-notch quality.

[suttonporksword]

it wasn't a personal dig Eva, just my opinion generally on the subject