Question For The Ladies on BEING a TS (only ladies)

[ezed]

I think it goes a lot deeper than who you like and who you are attracted to. When I first realized that I was attracted to TS women I went out of my way to study it, to try to get some understanding of what it is and what goes on in the mind of the people. It had nothing to do with society or what anyone else thought. I deemed it important enough to go beyond what they look like, the sexual aspect, and the outer.

I know this is a porn board but I thought that we could go deeper than what gives us erections and who we want to do.

After all the goo goo eyes, kissing, sucking and fucking a girl, call me crazy but I would like to go deeper with whoever I am spending time with. I know it’s rare but some of us want the girl even after we achieve orgasm. I can honestly say that it has served me well in knowing how to deal with certain girls and even girls to not deal with and girls to avoid. I think exchanging something beyond who has the biggest, juiciest, wettest, or hardest whatever could do a lot of people on the board some good.

Not to put down the folks driven by the visual, who among us doesn’t appreciate a beautiful vision of what we like. But what’s the issue with wanting to go further that from time to time?

You dive too deep ...beyond where the fishes swim...it's who you like.. not just looks but the person... go with the current you like...and don't study it, follow it. Life is short. follow your compass. It usually points north to guide you. If it's to happen, it won't happen on this board but face to face with the individual.

In the meantime, feel free to pump off a load to the beauty on these boards. It's a good thing. Over analyzing will cause you to miss the bus.

[RangeHova]

Over analyzing will cause you to miss the bus.

Sorry dude but I just choose to go deeper. Like I said, it's cool if you choose not to. I have no issue with that.

In all honesty I don't think it is all about who you like. I have tended to approach my relationships with TS women a little more real. In these relationships I have found that a level of understanding beyond looks and liking them, a level of understanding of where these women are coming from to be a very positive thing.

Hell, in my first serious relationship with a TS, I knew more about the topic than she did. I ended up helping her in ways no one else was able to help her.

There is nothing wrong with the ladies sharing a little knowledge. I'm willing to bet that a lot of guys on HA could benefit from it.

[ezed]

Over analyzing will cause you to miss the bus.

Sorry dude but I just choose to go deeper. Like I said, it's cool if you choose not to. I have no issue with that.

In all honesty I don't think it is all about who you like. I have tended to approach my relationships with TS women a little more real. In these relationships I have found that a level of understanding beyond looks and liking them, a level of understanding of where these women are coming from to be a very positive thing.

Hell, in my first serious relationship with a TS, I knew more about the topic than she did. I ended up helping her in ways no one else was able to help her.

There is nothing wrong with the ladies sharing a little knowledge. I'm willing to bet that a lot of guys on HA could benefit from it.

So be it!

[RangeHova]

Just wanted to thank Allanah for sharing your opinion and your story.

[BeardedOne]

Over analyzing will cause you to miss the bus.

Over the years, I dated/had as 'lovers' so many dykes that it wasn't funny. A handful dubbed me a 'male lesbian', one wrote a thesis on me, and Susie Bright (Dubbed the 'World's Most Commercial Lesbian' by Playboy magazine) used to leave messages on my answering machine.

Someone once asked me how it was that I was such a 'dyke magnet' and I gave it some very brief thought until I realized that I didn't want to suffer the "Centipede's Dilemma".

Someone once asked a centipede how it was that he was able to coordinate his hundred legs so that he didn't trip over his own feet when he walked. The centipede sat down to give it some thought and never walked again.

I don't ponder why I like T-girls because I might come to where I'll truly wonder why I do. I don't need that shit at this point in my life. Is she nice to me? Is she attractive? Does she like to be with me? Is she smart? Does she laugh at my jokes? Is her dick as thick as my arm and as long as this post? Does she like to fuck?

Please. Give me that and a woman that has no agenda up her skirt and I'll be happy.

[RangeHova]

Over analyzing will cause you to miss the bus.

But in all honesty, I don't feel like gaining more info on the subject as the same as analyzing any part of this. I have ben around T women since i was in high school in all of this time after all of these years I'm not sitting around analyzing it, asking questions about my attraction or anything like that.

But just like I get background info on certain kind of people just for general knowledge what is different about seeking knowledge of transsexual women. I think people in general are fascinating. I think the phenomenon of transsexuality is fascinating beyond the sexual. I truly enjoy learning about people. I don't think people know enough about people that are different from them. Even when people are in close proximity differences can be all about sterotypes with no attempt to get beyond the surface.

Was this post about learning, no. For me it wasn't. I stand firm on the fact that i think people who are truly transsexual are born that way. This post was more to settle an ongoing difference that i had on another post.

[ezed]

But in all honesty, I don't feel like gaining more info on the subject as the same as analyzing any part of this. I have ben around T women since i was in high school in all of this time after all of these years I'm not sitting around analyzing it, asking questions about my attraction or anything like that.

But just like I get background info on certain kind of people just for general knowledge what is different about seeking knowledge of transsexual women. I think people in general are fascinating. I think the phenomenon of transsexuality is fascinating beyond the sexual. I truly enjoy learning about people. I don't think people know enough about people that are different from them. Even when people are in close proximity differences can be all about sterotypes with no attempt to get beyond the surface.

Was this post about learning, no. For me it wasn't. I stand firm on the fact that i think people who are truly transsexual are born that way. This post was more to settle an ongoing difference that i had on another post.

Some people don't like to be analyzed. You have to pay them for that privelge. And when you do, they'll blow smoke up your hole (ie tell you what you want to hear). Thus no t -girl responses to this post.

You're not Sigmund Freud, and in my opinion Freud was a fraud. Those who wait for the answers to "Life, The Universe and Everything" will ultimately........................................ .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .........................miss the bus.

And then snap their fingers and say "Damn, what was I thinking!"