Never Again!! Your personal dating " NO"

[dreamon]

Someone mentioned earlier that they couldn't date someone who doesn't get along with their family. I've learned a lot about how a woman interacts with her family and how it relates to their "dateability" if you will. My most recent ex had a very odd relationship with her family, and it manifested itself in her with a low self-esteem and an extreme fear of commitment. For me, I need to see a healthy relationship with their family to be able to date them. They don't necessarily have to get along with all the fam (you can pick your friends and you can pick your nose but you can't pick your family so you won't get along with them all) but they do need to have a healthy relationship.

[trish]

Ah common' dreamon, was my post so offensive way back on page three that you had to thumb it down a week later? I liked yours. What you don't like Groucho Marx?

[dreamon]

Ah common' dreamon, was my post so offensive way back on page three that you had to thumb it down a week later? I liked yours. What you don't like Groucho Marx?

I hate when people use the phrase "Tea Bagger" to describe people in the Tea Party. It's incredibly disrespectful.

[trish]

Fair enough, although, hilariously, it is the term they used for themselves before they discovered its secondary meaning. Ironically I've no disrespect for gays or the sexual practice of tea bagging. But again, your objection is fair, as the perceived disrespect for the current Tea Bagger Party was intended.

[Instrumental]

Dating Deal Breakers:
Has kids
Not single
Criminal history
Huge debt mismanagement
Unemployed
Lacking ambition
Dumb
Obese
Uninteresting (e.g. no hobbies or pasttimes)
Religious zealot
Racist/Sexist/Homophobe/etc.
Ugly
Rude

[wearboots4me]

I hate when people use the phrase "Tea Bagger" to describe people in the Tea Party. It's incredibly disrespectful.

The Tea Party used the term "teabaggers" to describe themselves before someone clued them in to the meaning of the term. Google it.

[dreamon]

The Tea Party used the term "teabaggers" to describe themselves before someone clued them in to the meaning of the term. Google it.

Yes, aware of it. Many pejoratives began with other meanings.

[Curiousguy04]

I will never date anyone again that pays more attention to their phone than they do me. If they cant put the thing down long enough to have a conversation then they wont get asked out again.

[Vladimir Putin]

Smokers, unless they don't smoke when they're with me and don't reek of smoke.

Someone who is shallow.

Someone who is self-absorbed.

Someone judgmental.

Someone condescending and patronizing.

Someone opinionated.

Someone insincere.

Someone flaky.

Someone deceitful.

Someone who complains about every negative aspect about life (I actually dated someone like that and my depression level shot up dramatically until I didn't call her anymore.)

Someone who is morally bankrupt, corrupt and unethical.

Someone who always gives unsolicited advice.

Someone who takes advantage of other people.

Someone who thinks more about oneself at the expense of others.

Someone hypocritical.

Someone who can dish it out but can't take it.

Someone with a "me me me" attitude.

Someone who thinks getting ahead requires stepping on other people's toes.

Someone who regards life as a competition or who feels they have to compete against everybody in their life.

Someone old-fashioned.

Fundies.

Someone who wants me to be the father of their child or wants to have children.

And finally, someone who screams out their own name during sex.

[Tapatio]

Smokers, unless they don't smoke when they're with me and don't reek of smoke.

Someone who is shallow.

Someone who is self-absorbed.

Someone judgmental.

Someone condescending and patronizing.

Someone opinionated.

Someone insincere.

Someone flaky.

Someone deceitful.

Someone who complains about every negative aspect about life (I actually dated someone like that and my depression level shot up dramatically until I didn't call her anymore.)

Someone who is morally bankrupt, corrupt and unethical.

Someone who always gives unsolicited advice.

Someone who takes advantage of other people.

Someone who thinks more about oneself at the expense of others.

Someone hypocritical.

Someone who can dish it out but can't take it.

Someone with a "me me me" attitude.

Someone who thinks getting ahead requires stepping on other people's toes.

Someone who regards life as a competition or who feels they have to compete against everybody in their life.

Someone old-fashioned.

Fundies.

Someone who wants me to be the father of their child or wants to have children.

And finally, someone who screams out their own name during sex.

That's a pretty long list. I just want someone pretty, fit, and honest. Pretty and fit for obvious reasons, honest so I can make my own decisions regardless who she is as a person.

Everything else is negotiable.