Men who are attracted to transgendered women- Straight, bi, gay?

[bluesoul]

When we here say "who cares" and "does it really matter", we mean "Dude, love and accept yourself and you won't have any worries. We are here for the very same thing; to admire, contribute, support, and appreciate shemale porn. So just feel welcome and accept yourself...oh, and have fun too."

that's cool. but can't you do all that and still claim a status? like i love and accept myself and i have very few worries. coincidentally, gay (besides meaning homosexual) also means all those things - or at least, being happy

i like this thing about "the new gay". that makes sense to me

[EvaCassini]

well said. They marginalize themselves without thought to how we ( the shemales ) feel and think.

I get that we are "sex symbols" and all that; but one thing has to be understood from everyone, regardless of gender and orientation, fan or producer, is that we ( the shemales ) are human like you. Humans with brains, hearts, lungs, thoughts, ideas, feelings, and habits. Humans, who have very little in the way of freedoms and rights.

You always hear the phrase "C'mon, it's 2013 for crying out loud, get with the times!" Am I right? lol...well....

Racism is clearly still a big issue considering what happened after the SCOTUS knocked the "Voting Rights Protection from Discrimination" law. Most of the southern states, within 48 hrs, after the aforementioned law was knocked, set in motion policies to easily discriminate against minority voters.

According to the SCOTUS at the time of the repealing, they said "that"..."C'mon, it's 2013!"

Apparently they just don't understand how much ignorance there still is.

Now, with that mentioned, think about Transgender rights and such. Because we do not have any type of bills, laws, and policies in place to protect us, we can easily be discriminated against. No matter if it's a job interview, coming out while employed; you can still get fired. Oh, of course they won't say it's because of being transgender; they will and can claim that they are firing, for something entirely unrelated to the fact of the employee being transgender and entirely unrelated to work performance. They can come up with any excuse in the book.

Or...even with help with our hormones. Hormones are crucial to our transition. I am a veteran. I "can" go to the VA. BUT...I ( and I've tried a few times ) tried to get them to help with hormone therapy. They won't do it. My then physician was fine with my being transgender, but according to the "rules", they can't "rightly" aid me with such.

Legal document changes are a whole other thing too...

Don't get me wrong. I understand being "labeled" gay is kind of a stigma ( even now in modern times ), but we shemales have a much harder time...with just daily life. Living. Surviving. Working. Enjoying life.

That is why I am very grateful and thankful for this industry and what Seanchai has built. Yes, it's porn, but this career I have with it has and continues to be the most fulfilling thing for me professional wise. For Thanksgiving, my thanks goes to Seanchai and his Grooby. It's because of him, that I have a job, a market, and a living.

[EvaCassini]

that's cool. but can't you do all that and still claim a status? like i love and accept myself and i have very few worries. coincidentally, gay (besides meaning homosexual) also means all those things - or at least, being happy

i like this thing about "the new gay". that makes sense to me

Yes...but it's not such a big issue, considering real issues. Issues that actually have major impacts in one's life. Like a job, owning and maintaining a car, having health insurance, children/pets ( if one has any ), and many other things.

I can understand this "am i gay" thing, back when Friends was airing. But now, especially on a porn forum, it's honestly moot. No offense to others feelings, but I really think one should concentrate one's time and energy to doing something productive and more worth while with their life. Like finding the next newest porn scene to jack off to.

[STARTUP999]

Help me! I have started to find I am attracted to 'females!! I started watching straight porn in secret. A woman at work seems to go out of her way to hover around my cubical and sit by me in the cafeteria. And It turns me on!!

So if I am attracted to females does that make me ...straight or or bi or straight curious? What will I ever do if my transgender friends and family find out??? I am so confused.

[Prospero]

The one question important to me is, "Will you still love me when my transition is complete?"

"Love is not love, that alters where alteration finds."

W S

[RallyCola]

Help me! I have started to find I am attracted to 'females!! I started watching straight porn in secret. A woman at work seems to go out of her way to hover around my cubical and sit by me in the cafeteria. And It turns me on!!

So if I am attracted to females does that make me ...straight or or bi or straight curious? What will I ever do if my transgender friends and family find out??? I am so confused.

watch strap on/pegging porn. it is one approximation of str8 porn that is close to this genre

[broncofan]

The one question important to me is, "Will you still love me when my transition is complete?"

True fact Trish: this classic by The Shirelles was written by a ts woman to her boyfriend the day before her post-op surgery.

Okay, not a true fact, but a beautiful song that still works in that context.

[trish]

In Yoda speak, a true fact in an alternate world about what some in this world, a game changing alteration, would find

[dderek123]

Am i gay? deep down am i really just into her because she has a dick? I mean I know she's a woman, but then again, she has a dick, am I secretly gay? If my family finds out, based on what I've heard them say, I will lose them. Is my translove worth it. Or will i be without my family forever?

Also while you're in the relationship your partner and everyone around you will wonder if it will last after she gets the big operation. Especially if your partner is inexperienced/immature this can keep coming up again and again during each conflict.

Car needs to be fixed?
Her reaction: "You won't stay with me after I have the operation. And then I'll be alone forever." Then she gets more upset.

Need to pull an all nighter to get caught up on some really important work?
Her reaction: "You won't stay with me after I have the operation. And then I'll be alone forever." Then she gets more upset.

And so on

Relationships aren't always a barrel of laughs but that was a real bummer. Bummer heh

[Michey]

Guys that only like girls and ts girls are straight, not even bi.

I guess this answer would've closed the thread