Bummer Man

[kirahann]

Sorry Miranda Not all of the guys out there are total Assholes… It’s his lost and time truly does heal all

[Prospero]

tsdvdman displays the sensitivity and deep thought we have come to expect from him. Leave her alone... or do you enjoy kicking a girl when she is down.

[Rusty Eldora]

I am involved myself in a developing friendship with a girl who is escorting. But it is a friendship. I've made it clear that if and when we have sex again I will pay unless we have genuinely moved into something more. (She has offered free sessions) I have said no - because that then makes me someone just out to do what this guy did to you. Score a strings free encounter.

I have a Chinese girlfriend that is an Escort, after 4 years we still do the "pay to play" but all other time is off the clock. It has avoided the "Score the ..." issue. When she stays with me I do cover what she would make on a slow day. It is her livelihood, so it is important to respect that.

Yes, I know and understand she has other customers, I have actually met several of her regulars. It is odd, they are jealous that I am not jealous about her seeing them. She takes special care of me as a reward for not being jealous and understanding the difference between work and love for her.

[Rusty Eldora]

Sorry to hear that Miranda. You're a lovely and charming person and I'm sure more and more guys will approach you for genuine dates as time goes by. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

Yes, Miranda this "Count Chucky" was dishonest with you about his intentions. I gather he brought this up in the morning or by email afterwards. Do you think he had any prior Tgirl experience, also prior Escort experience - it doesn't justify it but many guys think it is demeaning to 'pay for' sex, even though they are often bartering with a fancy dinner, hotel, gifts, etc. of similar value. But by that he was a total jerk.

If you meet someone in the civvie world use your senses to determine how to handle a date proposal. But I think if your meeting is thru HA, porn, or sex industry you really must treat it as "working" and a fee be paid. If you are enjoying your time and wish to provide social time at not cost - fine.

I believe that a good guy that is interested in you would be happy with that and understand it.

[BBaggins06]

I'm with bluesoul. This wasn't the first time this guy has done this. I bet that wasn't his primary screen name here either. That was way too smooth ...

[tsmirandameadows]

But I think if your meeting is thru HA, porn, or sex industry you really must treat it as "working" and a fee be paid. If you are enjoying your time and wish to provide social time at not cost - fine.

I believe that a good guy that is interested in you would be happy with that and understand it.

Yeah I think this will be my approach going forward. If the name you know me by is Miranda Meadows and you want to see me, then you need to pay for an appointment. If you have sincere interest in me as girlfriend material, we can set up some dinner date style appointments, see if anything sparks, and then go from there, but those are still going to be paid appointments until we determine if there is something more between us. I think that ought to be a workable approach that is easy to be consistent about. Thank you for the suggestion, Rusty!

[tsdvdman]

tsdvdman displays the sensitivity and deep thought we have come to expect from him. Leave her alone... or do you enjoy kicking a girl when she is down.

I'm telling her the truth. ALL girls go through dates and situations with guys that didn't work out. All of them DON"T want to get back at the guy by threatening to "out" him to his employers. YOU are the one who is predictable..who slobbers and kisses ass and tells them what they want to hear but what is NOT reality. Besides..in a weird strange kind of way..I think she was actually hearing what I was saying. She may not admit it because the truth hurts.

[scroller]

Turns out the man in question was already attached and had no intention of seeing me a second time.

I'm curious: How was this part communicated to you?

[nysprod]

I have a Chinese girlfriend that is an Escort, after 4 years we still do the "pay to play"

Christ I can't think of anything more lame than this.

[lexucq112]

Christ I can't think of anything more lame than this.

Lol.