Do looks drive transsexual acceptance... or competenecy

[LilyRox]

Passing: have yet to see a tg who cannot be outed by a gg, even a very famous tg was not able to pass with my ggfs. Even with all the make up and photoshop And in real life, a sober cat or gg can spot a tg anytime. But finding a competant cocksucker is very difficult. Cocksucking should be an easy task, invovless actions learn as a child, a female can have endless practice and numerous cats to volunteer, plenty of how - to videoes videos avalible, yet woman still cant be skilled in the art of cocksuking. How does this happen?

What do you mean? There is tons of butch gg's out there... If you're talking on a high class model scale like a 5'10 gg with all the works vs a TG, of course not. I don't think you can classify all gg's in general though. Hell there's tons of gg's out there that don't wear make up that need it.

I think if everyone would stop thinking in their minds "pass pass pass" every damn second of their life they would be a lot calmer. No one gives a damn in the real world and people aren't on "tranny patrol" 24/7 trying to figure out if a questionable lady is TG or not.

[VictoriaVeil]

Besides for the walk and sound of the voice, there is that unique girl talk (also guy talk) about thoughts, phrases, approach, manners, et al that girls use when talking among themselves. It is really a foreign language, kudos to all TG's that master it - it is essential to be accepted by women.

Having a good sense of humor, the warm smile, and being happy really helps carry the day. Guys nearly forget everything if they are with a happy woman.

I am 99% certain the guy staring thinks you are smoking hot, unless there is a panty bulge. For those of us that know Tgirls we might notice something that makes us think "is she", but without knowing and watching Tgirls the thought "is she" wouldn't exist, they might think that you may have been a tomboy growing up (a really good thing).




You've gone for the classy social circuit woman look, besides for being stunning there is nary a thought you are around the industry. Instead you are the woman men wish to have on their arm at the important business party.

That was very sweet of you to write.

[Quinn]

Right or wrong, women, transgendered and GG, are judged primarily by their looks in our society. Men, by contrast, are judged primarily by their education and financial status.

[SXFX]

Competency in whatever it is we do... if you're a working girl then sucking cocks; if you're a marketing person how you market your product; if you're a financial planner, how rich you make your clients, if you're an inventor, how world-altering your creations are.

BINGO!
but that is only in the civilized north east.....

[robertlouis]

How good you are at your job, how good you look, means nothing for my money in comparison to the type of person you are in your heart.

That just about sums it up. If only society in general wasn't so shallow in its judgements.

Oh, and don't be a wanker....

[Rusty Eldora]

What do you mean? There is tons of butch gg's out there... If you're talking on a high class model scale like a 5'10 gg with all the works vs a TG, of course not. I don't think you can classify all gg's in general though. Hell there's tons of gg's out there that don't wear make up that need it.

I think if everyone would stop thinking in their minds "pass pass pass" every damn second of their life they would be a lot calmer. No one gives a damn in the real world and people aren't on "tranny patrol" 24/7 trying to figure out if a questionable lady is TG or not.

OK I'm not from LA, London, or NY but I've been into porn and checked out my first tranny porn a decade ago. I've watched (probably too blatant at it in the past) women my whole life, but Tgirl didn't register in my thoughts as I checked out. Only after I started seeing them did I, yet very few that I see make the "could she" point, yes I note lezzies pretty often. I would venture that outside of big cities over 80% of guys and 90% of woman it is outside of their concepts.

If her way of dress and makeup are more "normal girl" vs "stripper" or "wild", her voice is at least neutral, and her actions aren't male (no peeing on the fire hydrant now) she will probably pass with at least the 90%. The 10% that clock her are probably cool about it.

Not sure what the exact British definition of Wanker is, but I take it as being an asshole. If someone acts friendly, nice, and non-threatening it should be easy to have friends and impress people.

[LilyRox]

OK I'm not from LA, London, or NY but I've been into porn and checked out my first tranny porn a decade ago. I've watched (probably too blatant at it in the past) women my whole life, but Tgirl didn't register in my thoughts as I checked out. Only after I started seeing them did I, yet very few that I see make the "could she" point, yes I note lezzies pretty often. I would venture that outside of big cities over 80% of guys and 90% of woman it is outside of their concepts.

If her way of dress and makeup are more "normal girl" vs "stripper" or "wild", her voice is at least neutral, and her actions aren't male (no peeing on the fire hydrant now) she will probably pass with at least the 90%. The 10% that clock her are probably cool about it.

Not sure what the exact British definition of Wanker is, but I take it as being an asshole. If someone acts friendly, nice, and non-threatening it should be easy to have friends and impress people.

That's the problem, most TS's dress like sluts 24/7. I mean it's so obvious. If you really want to pass cut the crap and be a girl.

[BellaBellucci]

That's the problem, most TS's dress like sluts 24/7. I mean it's so obvious. If you really want to pass cut the crap and be a girl.

LMFAO! How true!

~BB~

[buckjohnson]

Lily rox I agree with you a 100%. Wish tgs would quit trying to pass so much. Hell I get mistaken for being gay all the time, because I am neat clean, fresh in my apperance, particular about what I eat, wear clothes that fit, take care of my body, read alot, listen to all types of music etc...when I was younger I was offended, but now take as compliment. Most tgs will never look like a gg. They should concetrate on solving any inner conflict. And like most ggs, that is a daily struggle. I just re-read what I wrote above. I am gay.

[Prospero]

Get some sleep Wendy!

Lovely thought Sammi....