Is it really that impossible?

[North323]

I have been trying to date a TS for about 5 years now. It has certainly been rough going. I am tired of looking on craigslist and every other ts/cd so called dating site out there. Is it impossible to find a TS for long term relationship? I was in NYC for a month and actually met the most beautiful TS ever. She had everything but all she wanted was 'material' things. Wanted to know how much money I made, what kind of apartment would I get for her. I don't understand.

Anyone offer guidance?

I am not ugly and I do have a job.

[bluesoul]

i don't understand what kind of guidance you want. if you meet someone that wants something different from what you're willing to offer, you move on to the next person. there is no one magical place you can go where all the transsexuals are just sitting around waiting for someone to come and offer them a LTR.

you can try dating sites, personal ads, clubs etc- but this is still no guarantee until you're out in the field engaging people. when you tried craigslist- were you checking the casual encounters section? because that's not where i'd go looking for a girlfriend. unless, you want that girlfriend to be a casual encounter.

another thing: you said you're not ugly. is that your own personal assessment of yourself or a fact?

[North323]

I guess I feel I've tried everything and found nothing. Its a fact that I am not ugly

[LilyRox]

You could be looking in the wrong places.

[EvaCassini]

Why not just go out to clubs around your area that could have trannies as patrons? Get out, go outside, meet people face to face. Don't let the screen in front of you be the only way to meet trannies and hook up.

We are out there! Find out where girls like us go out drinking, and go there. If you are not ugly as you claim to be, then you shouldn't have any problem wooing some shemale at clubs. Buy her a drink, chat, chit, chit chat. Treat her with courtesy and respect and soon you be having her first kiss, sucking her cock, and then having your 1 yr anniversary.

[bluesoul]

I guess I feel I've tried everything and found nothing. Its a fact that I am not ugly

what does everything entail? because you only said you've looked on "craigslist and every other ts/cd so called dating site out there". isn't craigslist mostly for escorts?

have you tried putting a personal ad on hungangels personals section? a fellow user of this messageboard recently recounted to us how he successfully met and engaged in sexual relations with a hung angel member- so dreams do come true.

[LilyRox]

Looking on craigslist for a serious relationship with a TS is a joke. TS dating sites are also normally very sloppy, boring, and a waste of time. I've signed up for a few TS dating sites and had horrible outcomes. Mostly it's just guys on there looking for a one night deal or thinking TS girls are "easy". It immediately made me shy away from TS dating sites. Your best bet is to go out and meet some people at popular bars or join some type of club.

[speedking59]

i've found that when i stopped looking and trying so hard things started to happen. this may not be the best advice. that's how i met my ex-wives

[LilyRox]

i've found that when i stopped looking and trying so hard things started to happen. this may not be the best advice. that's how i met my ex-wives

This is sooo true and can be applied to so many other things in life. Thank-you for this wisdom.

[EvaCassini]

Thats how I met and fell in love with Jamie. Been together a little over 1 yr now!