Is it really that impossible?

[Rozayrifa]

lookin on craigslist sucks my friend especially if your looking 4 love but why look 4 a relationship just have fun and let love find you

[North323]

I agree craigslist sucks as do the other sites. I have tried gay bars or going on nights where they have TS. NYC seems to be the only city that has specific times for that. I live in Cleveland where the TS scene is not as robust. I know she is out there. Just having a hard time finding.

[Ms.Stepford]

Just go "normal"places where artists and musicians hang out. That's where you'd find me. At least one guy a weekend successfully picks me up, and a few of them have come close to keeping me, but I'm never into it. I'm just too busy being a whore for a relationship.

Here's the thing though: if you can't provide for a girl the way she wants, don't stand in her way when she wants to step out and get it on her own.

[youngblood61]

i've found that when i stopped looking and trying so hard things started to happen. this may not be the best advice. that's how i met my ex-wives

[robertlouis]

You could be looking in the wrong places.

I think Lily's just answered your question.

There are some genuine dating sites that feature tgirls who want a long term relationship and aren't hung up on material things.

And FWIW while looks help in the initial stages they're less important than chemistry in the long run.

Good luck.

[Jackal]

Do you have any platonic transwomen friends? Maybe they have friends who you could meet and maybe hit it off or maybe not. Try and good luck

[my my my!]

As someone who has been in serious relationships with transsexual women,

contrary to what some have said about craigslist, there are relationships to be found there, you just have to look for the right wording. At least the local one has casual encounters (nsa, whores, fwb), misc romance ( girls open for relationships) , missed connections (someone saw you at a bar/club and didn't have the nerve to say hello) And there are "t4m" variations of all the above.
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example from local casual encounters t4m:
hey guys hosting for any of you who want to come over some fun im verse so you tell me what you have in mind. send your pic with your reply all welcome and black and Caucasian guy$ a plus (whore, escort etc)
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example from local misc romance t4m:
Hello to all....just browsing and looking if theres any men....who are romantic gentlemen.

I am "name omitted", just looking for friendship and what may develops..No Expectation. Just be yourself, and honest maybe...I do work hard. And I do love to work..I do have two jobs right now and I am loving it.

I am 5'6 inches tall.....oh well I am not going to write so much about me...but anyhow hit me up. (girl readily admits to wanting/desiring real relationship/friendship)

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missed connections t4m section: empty
means there are no transsexuals that saw a guy they liked, but didn't have enough courage to talk to them

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You just gotta know where to look

anything with "daddy" "genrou$$" "fun" are just escorts mainly.

[TSMichelleAustin]

Cleveland has more than a few tgirls, but most girls seeking love would never go to a tranny party or a gay club. Most of those girls live normal lives and go to normal places. As for what someone said, when your not looking u find love... how I met my husband of over 5 yrs, we werent looking. We met at a function.

[runround04]

i've found that when i stopped looking and trying so hard things started to happen. this may not be the best advice. that's how i met my ex-wives

"Ex-wives" lol

[North323]

thanks all for the advice. will keep truckin along