The Time I Got Counter-Clocked

[runround04]

Awhile back I was blowing this girl when all the sudden she said "Hey, you like transgirls, dont ya?" I dont know how she figured it out.

[Prospero]

If she was from Thailand of COURSE she would know about ladyboys...

[Ms.Stepford]

So...basically, you chickenshitted out.

[nysprod]

So...basically, you chickenshitted out.

Who?

[BeardedOne]

Oh I was reading it real fast. I didnt read she was a stripper. I thought it was just some girl you met at a bar.

Well...It was some girl he met at a bar.

[ed_jaxon]

The good thing about being "out there" is that nothing really shocks those who know you.

I had a girl try to out me to my brother and his girlfriend. So she says "yeah, Ed runs the local tranny bar". My brother's girlfriend turns white and I heard her whisper to my brother "did you hear that?" My brother just shrugs and says "yeah, Ed's into a lot of things".

If you act like it's a big deal you need to hide then others can tell you have that internal conflict. I'm not shouting shit at the top of my lungs but most of my closest friends know I am a wild mofo.

[Ms.Stepford]

Who?

Guess.

[nysprod]

The good thing about being "out there" is that nothing really shocks those who know you.

I had a girl try to out me to my brother and his girlfriend. So she says "yeah, Ed runs the local tranny bar". My brother's girlfriend turns white and I heard her whisper to my brother "did you hear that?" My brother just shrugs and says "yeah, Ed's into a lot of things".

If you act like it's a big deal you need to hide then others can tell you have that internal conflict. I'm not shouting shit at the top of my lungs but most of my closest friends know I am a wild mofo.

I'm not worried about friends, but I do think about my 21 year old...there's no way he's going to know...not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

Guess.

This is good advice for you Trixi:

I don't put myself in what I call "zero percentage" situations, which means situations where there's nothing to gain but plenty to lose.

What was there for me to gain by telling that Thai stripper or my friends that I like Tgirls? Absolutely nothing. But there was plenty to lose, starting with my privacy.

So why would I, or should I, put myself into a position where I can only lose?

[ed_jaxon]

I feel you on that Nysprod. Would not want my kid or mom to know either.

Funny thing about kids though, they know a lot more about us than we give them credit for.

[Ms.Stepford]

You could...have integrity, and be an agent for positive change.


Instead, you've perpetuated within yourself and with that woman the idea that people like me are a dirty secret, and undeserving of open affection.

I live this strength, courage, and integrity that I speak of everyday, so once again I'm calling nursery school shit on the fragile sexual self-image of the cis-hetero male who can't walk the walk.