escorting shemales vs. non escorting shemales.

[Onyx]

i was referring to myself and how this topic has been browbeaten to death....i think u need to walk in the other persons shoes b4 u can pass judgement on a whole community....

I'm not passing judgement so much as stating the facts, I don't mean to knock anyones hustle

[Quinn]

They [guys] want in for the fun and then out...Ts will will learn about this at a very early stage in their transition...and so the balance of power..Most decide not to be used and make arrangement for guys that wanna engage with them...after a while..it's routine and becomes a lifestyle...and so i think...at least i can confirm this for myself and all of my friends....

MOST GUYS DO NOT WANT US LONG TERM. . . YEARS PASS AND U KINDA JUST LEARN FROM EXPERIENCES WITH THE GUYS..I RATHER DIE THEN TO LET SOMEONE BREAK MY HEART ONE MORE TIME.

It’s been my experience that some version of the “guys just use us” perspective is common to all women that escort (TS or GG). The explanation for the existence of this “phenomenon” may differ slightly with each woman, but the underlying reasoning is invariably the same. It’s an opinion formed after they experience numerous failed relationships.

I have no doubt that this will anger some people, which honestly isn’t my intention, but I think it needs to be said. So far as the vast majority of escorts are concerned, it’s their own fault. I say this not because they are escorts – which, frankly, isn’t a big deal in and of itself – but because of the culture that tends to accompany any form of escorting (from high-end all the way down to strippers who do “side work”).

There’s something that happens to women after they escort for a while. The creative license that is a necessary part of their work gradually makes its way into every aspect of their lives. Everything, no matter how well-intended, usually becomes a scam, an angle, or part of some ultimately fraudulent representation. Even when dealing with someone that they truly care about, escorts tend to occupy themselves with schemes entailing numerous forms of manipulation. In short, manipulation, lying, and deception become a way of life.

As with anything involving broad generalizations, there are obviously exceptions, but it has been my experience that, with reference to this issue, they are few and far between. For more than 14 years, I have had exposure to escorts – and not as a client or lover (well, once as a lover). I’ve bounced for them at parties, and I’ve provided protection for the high-end types. In all that time, only one of them ever stood out as being even a marginal exception to the rule. Out of the many others that I have dealt with, none were trustworthy enough to merit consideration for a relationship, which is the primary reason why most of them never “find true love.” At the end of the day, a man wants a woman that he can trust – and keep in mind that I am referring to far more than questions of fidelity.

-Quinn

[BeardedOne]

i was referring to myself and how this topic has been browbeaten to death....i think u need to walk in the other persons shoes b4 u can pass judgement on a whole community....

This thread has moved faster than I can read it (A very rare treat, indeed) and I've heard my own voice speaking from some of the posts.

That's just plain scary.

I don't know if it'll be a rant, a whine, or a story about the stray cats on my porch, but it's coming.

I just need to digest some more of this before I start typing out random characters.

As for the shoe thing:

Don't judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes...Then you're a mile away and you've got their shoes.

[Onyx]

LET ME CLARIFY SOMETHING....IM NOT INTO THIS LIFESTYLE FOR THE SEX ASPECT OF IT..I SEE TS GIRLS AS MY MATES , I DONT HAVE SEX UNLESS IM IN A RELATIONSHIP......MOST TS GIRLS ARE YOUNG AND AWWWED BY MEN THAT LIVE FOR THEM....UNFORTUNATLY MOST, NOT ALL BUT MOST, START ESCORTING & BECOME LAZY AND DO NOTHING WITH THEMSELVES....THEY ARE GOOD FOR ONE THING ONLY..SEX!!!...THTS ALL THEY BRING TO THE TABLE WHEN IN FACT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF SO MUCH MORE.....WHOOOPIE A RETARD CAN GIVE A BLOW JOB OR FUCK SOMEONE IN THE ASS....HORMONES ARE NO EXCUSE FOR LAZINESS AND YOUR LIFESTYLE...PLEASE I KNOW MORE ABOUT HORMONES THEN ANYONE.....YOUR PREACHING TO THE CHIOR..... THE ESCORTING GIRLS LOSE THEMSELVES ALONG THE WAY, LIFES A PARTY, MEN LIVE FOR ME, IM MAKING COINS DOWN!!!!....BUT...WATCH WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SOME TS SUPER STAR DIE!!!....OH YEAH BABE , WTCH THAT SAD STORY, A FEW OF HER COCK PICTURES GET POSTED ON THE WEB WITH GUYS TALKING ABOUT THEIR ESCORT EXPERIENCE THEY HAD WITH HER, BUT NO ONE REALLY GIVES A RATS ASS ABOUT MISS SUPERSTR AS A PERSON...NOT EVEN HER FRIENDS MOURN HER SOUL...YEAH THEY FEEL IT FOR A DA OR TO BUT THEN ITS GONE......MY GIRL KNEW EVERYBODY, SHE WAS SUPER POPULAR , WHEN MY GIRLFRIEND PASSED AWAY AS POPULAR AS SHE WAS 3 GIRLS CAME TO HER FUNERAL...3.....SHE DIED IN HER FRIENDS BED, THAT GGOD FRIEND DIDNT COME TO MY GIRLS FUNERAL , NO DID THAT GOOD FRIEND EVER EVN TALK TO MY GIRLS FAMILY....AS A MATTER OF FACT I WAS AT A CLUB AND THAT GOOD FRIEND DIDNT RECOGNISE ME AND TRY TO HIT ON ME........NO ONE CARES, YOU PORNO QUEENS AND ESCORTS ARE LOVED BY THESE MEN FOR YOUR COCK.......THATS IT......CUT IT OFF AND WATCH HOW MUCH LOVE YOU GET THEN.......NOW AS FOR ME, I SEE YOU AS MY SISTERS, I LOVE ALL OF YOU IN MY WAY.....I DO CARE.....I SEE A LOT OF GOOD IN A LOT OF YOU GIRLS BUT UNFOIRTUNTLY ITS WASTED TALENT, YOU DONT LOVE YOURSELVES ENOUGH...I BELEIVE YOU GIRLS COULD DO WHAT EVER YOU WANT IN LIFE BUT THE ESCORT THING MAKES YOU LAZY AND YOUR POLUTED......UNFORTUNATLY UNLESS YOU CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT PATTERN , YOUR NEVER GONNA DO ANYTHNG BUT ESCORT...THATS SAD...WHEN A LOT OF GIRLS GET OLDER THATS WHEN REALITY HITS THEM, THEN THEY WANNA MEET A GUY WHO WILL TKE CARE OF THEM BECAUSE THE YOUNG NEW CUTIE TRANNY IS NOW THE NEW SUPER STAR......ITS REALLY SAD BUT ESCORTING RUINS THESE GIRLS IT A CURSE THEY DONT SEE...ITS LIKE DRUG DEALING, SHIT WILL HIT THE FAN EVENTULLY BUT TILL THEN LIFE IS A PARTY AND FOR A FEW DOLLARS YOUR SOUL IS FOR SALE.....YOU CAN BE ANYBODIES GIRL FOR MONEY....I HURT FOR YOU ALL...IM NOT BEING SHADY BUT I KNOW THE DEAL , I BEEN AROUD A LONG TIME, WAYYYYY LONGER THEN ANY OF YOU GIRLS , TRUST & BELEIVE IV SEE DEATH FIRST HAND, I SEE AIDS EAT UP A LOT OF GIRLS IN THE LATE 80's & EARLY 90's , I SEEN GIRL THROW THIER LIVES AWAY.....GET THIS IN YOUR HEAD , IM NOT SOME FREAK ON THIS SITE WHORSHIPPING TRANNY COCK....THAT SICKENS ME MORE THEN ANYTHING ELSE.......THIS IS MY COMMUNITY & YOU ARE MY GIRLS.

"THIS IS MY COMMUNITY AND YOU ARE MY GIRLS"

I don't know man you just seem straight out of your mind

[sdman]

LET ME CLARIFY SOMETHING....IM NOT INTO THIS LIFESTYLE FOR THE SEX ASPECT OF IT..I SEE TS GIRLS AS MY MATES , I DONT HAVE SEX UNLESS IM IN A RELATIONSHIP......MOST TS GIRLS ARE YOUNG AND AWWWED BY MEN THAT LIVE FOR THEM....UNFORTUNATLY MOST, NOT ALL BUT MOST, START ESCORTING & BECOME LAZY AND DO NOTHING WITH THEMSELVES....THEY ARE GOOD FOR ONE THING ONLY..SEX!!!...THTS ALL THEY BRING TO THE TABLE WHEN IN FACT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF SO MUCH MORE.....WHOOOPIE A RETARD CAN GIVE A BLOW JOB OR FUCK SOMEONE IN THE ASS....HORMONES ARE NO EXCUSE FOR LAZINESS AND YOUR LIFESTYLE...PLEASE I KNOW MORE ABOUT HORMONES THEN ANYONE.....YOUR PREACHING TO THE CHIOR..... THE ESCORTING GIRLS LOSE THEMSELVES ALONG THE WAY, LIFES A PARTY, MEN LIVE FOR ME, IM MAKING COINS DOWN!!!!....BUT...WATCH WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SOME TS SUPER STAR DIE!!!....OH YEAH BABE , WTCH THAT SAD STORY, A FEW OF HER COCK PICTURES GET POSTED ON THE WEB WITH GUYS TALKING ABOUT THEIR ESCORT EXPERIENCE THEY HAD WITH HER, BUT NO ONE REALLY GIVES A RATS ASS ABOUT MISS SUPERSTR AS A PERSON...NOT EVEN HER FRIENDS MOURN HER SOUL...YEAH THEY FEEL IT FOR A DA OR TO BUT THEN ITS GONE......MY GIRL KNEW EVERYBODY, SHE WAS SUPER POPULAR , WHEN MY GIRLFRIEND PASSED AWAY AS POPULAR AS SHE WAS 3 GIRLS CAME TO HER FUNERAL...3.....SHE DIED IN HER FRIENDS BED, THAT GGOD FRIEND DIDNT COME TO MY GIRLS FUNERAL , NO DID THAT GOOD FRIEND EVER EVN TALK TO MY GIRLS FAMILY....AS A MATTER OF FACT I WAS AT A CLUB AND THAT GOOD FRIEND DIDNT RECOGNISE ME AND TRY TO HIT ON ME........NO ONE CARES, YOU PORNO QUEENS AND ESCORTS ARE LOVED BY THESE MEN FOR YOUR COCK.......THATS IT......CUT IT OFF AND WATCH HOW MUCH LOVE YOU GET THEN.......NOW AS FOR ME, I SEE YOU AS MY SISTERS, I LOVE ALL OF YOU IN MY WAY.....I DO CARE.....I SEE A LOT OF GOOD IN A LOT OF YOU GIRLS BUT UNFOIRTUNTLY ITS WASTED TALENT, YOU DONT LOVE YOURSELVES ENOUGH...I BELEIVE YOU GIRLS COULD DO WHAT EVER YOU WANT IN LIFE BUT THE ESCORT THING MAKES YOU LAZY AND YOUR POLUTED......UNFORTUNATLY UNLESS YOU CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT PATTERN , YOUR NEVER GONNA DO ANYTHNG BUT ESCORT...THATS SAD...WHEN A LOT OF GIRLS GET OLDER THATS WHEN REALITY HITS THEM, THEN THEY WANNA MEET A GUY WHO WILL TKE CARE OF THEM BECAUSE THE YOUNG NEW CUTIE TRANNY IS NOW THE NEW SUPER STAR......ITS REALLY SAD BUT ESCORTING RUINS THESE GIRLS IT A CURSE THEY DONT SEE...ITS LIKE DRUG DEALING, SHIT WILL HIT THE FAN EVENTULLY BUT TILL THEN LIFE IS A PARTY AND FOR A FEW DOLLARS YOUR SOUL IS FOR SALE.....YOU CAN BE ANYBODIES GIRL FOR MONEY....I HURT FOR YOU ALL...IM NOT BEING SHADY BUT I KNOW THE DEAL , I BEEN AROUD A LONG TIME, WAYYYYY LONGER THEN ANY OF YOU GIRLS , TRUST & BELEIVE IV SEE DEATH FIRST HAND, I SEE AIDS EAT UP A LOT OF GIRLS IN THE LATE 80's & EARLY 90's , I SEEN GIRL THROW THIER LIVES AWAY.....GET THIS IN YOUR HEAD , IM NOT SOME FREAK ON THIS SITE WHORSHIPPING TRANNY COCK....THAT SICKENS ME MORE THEN ANYTHING ELSE.......THIS IS MY COMMUNITY & YOU ARE MY GIRLS.

YOU ARE A REAL ASS HOLE AND STUPID ONE AT THAT!

[LAtoNY]

LET ME CLARIFY SOMETHING....

THEY BECOME LAZY AND DO NOTHING WITH THEMSELVES....

THEY ARE GOOD FOR ONE THING ONLY..SEX!!!........WHOOOPIE A RETARD CAN GIVE A BLOW JOB OR FUCK SOMEONE IN THE ASS....

HORMONES ARE NO EXCUSE FOR LAZINESS AND YOUR LIFESTYLE........ THE ESCORTING GIRLS LOSE THEMSELVES ALONG THE WAY, LIFES A PARTY, MEN LIVE FOR ME, IM MAKING COINS DOWN!!!!........

THE ESCORT THING MAKES YOU LAZY AND YOUR POLUTED....

NOW AS FOR ME, I SEE YOU AS MY SISTERS, I LOVE ALL OF YOU IN MY WAY.....I DO CARE............

THIS IS MY COMMUNITY & YOU ARE MY GIRLS.

Uhh, MEGA -- you need to see someone about your mental state. Please re-read your comments above. You run down these girls in the worst way... and then you have the balls to say, "I love you all; you are my girls." ???

Hmmm, I may be wrong... but I don't think Yasmin would consider herself "one of your girls!"

From your comments above it is clear you have no respect for these girls. Your post is offensive.

[BeardedOne]

Mega may not speak well (And he sure as hell doesn't speak =small= ), but I've been [trying to] reading his posts for some months and he does have an odd sort of sincerity in them.

I've been in similar communities where I felt a wierd sort of bond with the women in the big social circles, and have had some similar experiences/viewpoints.

I'll never be Captain Save-a-Ho (They do too good a job at 'saving' me), but I do have some feelings for the gurls I've been with (Though I don't delude myself into believeing that they even remember my name).

C'mon, I'm a freakin' hermit. Besides the stray cats, who else should I care for?

[LAtoNY]

Mega may not speak well (And he sure as hell doesn't speak =small= ), but I've been [trying to] reading his posts for some months and he does have an odd sort of sincerity in them.

I would disagree. How could someone with such a low opinion of ts girls be sincere and truly "care about them?"

I think it's funny that MEGA hangs out at a site called "HUNG ANGELS" and yet mentions in every one of his posts how much he "hates shemale cock" and "has no interest in sex." ????

[TomSelis]

Mega may not speak well (And he sure as hell doesn't speak =small= ), but I've been [trying to] reading his posts for some months and he does have an odd sort of sincerity in them.

I would disagree. How could someone with such a low opinion of ts girls be sincere and truly "care about them?"

I think it's funny that MEGA hangs out at a site called "HUNG ANGELS" and yet mentions in every one of his posts how much he "hates shemale cock" and "has no interest in sex." ????

Sometimes you have to meet the people that post to know them. A lot of what Mega says is true and it's coming from a man that really walked (and still walks) the lifestyle. The last time I saw him he was with a fine tgirl, so he's not talking out his ass. Sometimes the things he says sound contradictary, but they are right on the money.

[HeHateMe]

"THIS IS MY COMMUNITY AND YOU ARE MY GIRLS"

I don't know man you just seem straight out of your mind.

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NOW THAT IS THE STATEMENT OF THE YEAR!
If I were a psychiatrist, I could have a field day with this guy.