escorting shemales vs. non escorting shemales.

[dabaldone]

Okay, I was going to stay out of this one but...... Ladies, I know that it is extremely difficult to transition. The choice to become who you truly are, no matter what crap society throws at you shows tremendous strength of character. Society pushes you ladies to the bottom and men take advantage of that. But some TS's ALLOW men to take advantage.

Now, I agree with some points Yasmine made. Most men go thru alot of soul searching when they realize they are attracted to TS women. They go back and forth and aren't ready to deal with all of the issues that pop up. If you don't know who you are or how to deal with the questions of sexuality, family profession ect., how can you be in a relationship with ANYONE? I went thru alot myself. There was nowhere and no one I could turn to get advice. So most men suffer alone. I use the word "suffer" because in my heart I knew what I wanted. But, societal morals, family tradition and values forced me AND my brother to deny how we felt and do what was "expected. We got married and had children, knowing all the while we prefered TS women.

My brother and I dated TS women for years, keeping it a secret from everyone. When I finally decided that I was tired of lying to myself, I got divorced and became who I truly was. You ladies have support groups or talk to one another about your issues. How many men on this board talk to their brothers or friends about the women they prefer? It took 15yrs before my brother and I even knew we had the same preference. Men have no where to turn.

I was in a LTR with a TS for 3 years. We dated and met each others families. She even helped me raise my youngest son. Both my sons loved her to death. I paid all of the bills and gave her a new car to drive. All of the money she made was her own. My job requires travel about 60% of the time and I make GREAT money. But, just like JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel said, she started gossiping with other girls. Then hanging around with her escorting friends and became just like them.

But she wanted to do her dirt and stay with me WTF!? A real man would never tolerate that behavior. In fact, she was escorting while I was on an extended business trip. Someone sent me an email with her Eros ad. Now Yasmine all ment don't want a young chippe. I'm 41yrs old and I DO NOT want a 20 something woman. They are too immature and too easily influenced by their so-called friends. I'm lucky though, I met a TS who happens to be an attorney during a business trip. She made me realize that all TS's are not the same.

[BeardedOne]

She already has more than you'll probably ever know.

On a lighter note, she certainly has mine. And that was =before= she posted that history.

[Onyx]

Just because I didn't grow up in a third world country and wasn't raped at age 7 several times makes me 'sheltered'? Damn I guess a lot more people are 'sheltered' than they know.

You're right about that.

I've seen some fucked up shit before in my day, trust me, you don't have to be a transexual to go through some shit,

Really? Like what?

but her story just seems exaggerated and maybe fabricated for attention.

First, you think you're absolved from being a loser because you would never see an escort. And then you say some weak crap about how you've seen some "fucked up shit". Please...

Maybe it's you that needs attention. She already has more than you'll probably ever know.

I don't feel like this is a place where I should post illegal shit I have seen or been involved with. I was just defending myself after being called 'sheltered', though either side of that argument is pretty futile on the internet.

I'm not looking for attention, I'm just saying I don't beleive her story, sorry if that offends anyone, but I don't believe everything I read.

[Onyx]

On a lighter note, she certainly has mine. And that was =before= she posted that history.

Co-sign.

ONYX: Do you go around calling alot of cute girls liars? Does that line usually work?

honestly if I was a party or some shit and some girl was telling that story, I would definitely think she was out for attention.

[Onyx]

I don't feel like this is a place where I should post illegal shit I have seen or been involved with. I was just defending myself after being called 'sheltered', though either side of that argument is pretty futile on the internet.

I'm not looking for attention, I'm just saying I don't beleive her story, sorry if that offends anyone, but I don't believe everything I read.

But it's an ok place to call people liars, right?

Oh, well. Nobody can fool you I guess. I'll have to refer to your worldly wisdom in the future because you're such a great judge of character. With all this hush-hush stuff about the crimes you don't want to mention, I bet you must be one really slick dude.

Like I said, I don't want attention for anything I've done, and if I choose not to beleive something I read on the internet that's my perogative wouldn't you say?

[Onyx]

Like I said, I don't want attention for anything I've done, and if I choose not to beleive something I read on the internet that's my perogative wouldn't you say?

Yeah, ok. And I think you're sheltered and you're bluffing about this illegal stuff. Your quote makes you seem kinda goofy. <~ So that was my perogative to tell you that. So what?

But rape is a pretty serious thing for you to just call somebody a liar about. You'd have to either be a really shrewd person to make such a bold accusation or just a total dipshit. My guess is that you're unfortunately a dipshit. Hey, don't feel bad. You're not alone on this board. <~So I guess you essentially asked to hear that, w/ this whole "perogative" thing you like so much.

that's definitely not my quote, it came from a longer story that I found hilarious because of how absurd it is.

and yeah you don't have to beleive anything I say either, I'm not here to talk about my personal life. You can think of me as a dipshit all you want.

[Onyx]

You can think of me as a dipshit all you want.

Thanks! :P

No problem! :P

[tslvr]

I have been reading this thread and agreeing w/ some and disagreeing w/ others. I think we can all agree on a couple of basic points here: 1) Life for a TS is definitely difficult no matter what...escort or not, society causes most problems for them; 2) Each and every guy(and I mean all) on this board is here because we like going to bed with TS's. We can yell all we want or try to be supportive of the community, but the fact is that we really want to have sex w/ the girls...

[Onyx]

I have been reading this thread and agreeing w/ some and disagreeing w/ others. I think we can all agree on a couple of basic points here: 1) Life for a TS is definitely difficult no matter what...escort or not, society causes most problems for them; 2) Each and every guy(and I mean all) on this board is here because we like going to bed with TS's. We can yell all we want or try to be supportive of the community, but the fact is that we really want to have sex w/ the girls...

I don't know man I just like the pictures

[stillies77]

In a way its the only way for most guys who love Tgirls to meet a tgirl...most guys are either A. Scared to look in a gay club...or B. just clueless (like me) on where to even look for a Tgirl to hang out with, talk to, or even have sex with. Making escorts their only option...i know because i am all of the above. And i still have resisted the urge to get an escort...so im just on the outside hoping to fulfill my tgirl fantasy one day...