Girl meeting parents/family first time

[Jericho]

Its her story to tell. Not His. What the parents beliefs are is a side-issue.

I disagree.

If he's taking her to meet his parents, then their beliefs are the number one issue.

If they're going to be cunts about it, it's not going to be a very pleasant visit for her, is it?

And if they're cool, it's a bit of a shitty thing to do to ambush them with it.

IMO

[Jericho]

And before some smartarse asks, But what if she's totally passable?

(And I know I'm pulling statistics out of my arse here but), I'm willing to bet that there are less than 5% of the girls on the plant who could pass the withering inspection of a future Mother-in-Law and not get clocked!

[my my my!]

I disagree.

If he's taking her to meet his parents, then their beliefs are the number one issue.

If they're going to be cunts about it, it's not going to be a very pleasant visit for her, is it?

And if they're cool, it's a bit of a shitty thing to do to ambush them with it.

IMO

yea, agree wholeheartedly, personally, I think there's no foolproof plan of doing it.

If the parents are cunts, then the girl feels bad, unappreciated

If the guy ambushes the parents, then the parents feel bad and it's alot of news to be taken quickly.

The subtle hints are the best way IMO but I do respect what Victoria said too.

[VictoriaVeil]

I disagree.

If he's taking her to meet his parents, then their beliefs are the number one issue.

If they're going to be cunts about it, it's not going to be a very pleasant visit for her, is it?

And if they're cool, it's a bit of a shitty thing to do to ambush them with it.

IMO

Its ok, you have the right to be wrong.

Her parents have zero business knowing what or who is between her legs. You wouldn't share the sexual history of a partner when having them meet your parents would you?

Apparently more needed to be said.

Sigh.

[VictoriaVeil]

I don't disagree Victoria but in this instance, she's already said she wants to be introduced (I assume that meant openly).

So how would you proceed?

Great Question. I'd let them know I'm an open book. But before they ask me any question that the should be prepared for any answer.

But hey, thats me.

[Jericho]

Its ok, you have the right to be wrong.

Thanks...If that ever happens, I'll let you know!

[VictoriaVeil]

Thanks...If that ever happens, I'll let you know!

hahaha!!!!!!

[Rusty Eldora]

I did a trip with a Tgirl to a family resort. She was quite noticeable because she is tall. OK I see some things that give a clue, but I don't think anyone at the resort clocked her. This includes several extended talks between my friend and a housewife / mommy that was very much girl talk.

Man, where does one learn that, lots of fact and phrase traps.

I would think I would go with it without any warning.

[MacShreach]

Its ok, you have the right to be wrong.

Her parents have zero business knowing what or who is between her legs. You wouldn't share the sexual history of a partner when having them meet your parents would you?

Apparently more needed to be said.

Sigh.

You are right.

The OP knows his parents, but I would expect any normal parents to behave politely and hospitably and if they had any concerns, to bring those up with the OP later, when the girl was out there to be embarrassed.

Frankly, if you don't trust your parents to manage this basic level of common courtesy, I would reconsider letting them meet the GF in the first place.

[MacShreach]

sorry, that should have read 'not there to be embarrassed'.