First time.. advice & recommendations?

[starkem]

Having a "first timer"experience with a TG escort varies by the person and not the escort. Search your heart first, and settle for jerking off to some TG porn in the meantime.

All experiences are not as your fantasy expectations may suggest. They are best left to the fantasy realm. You should do some soul searching inwardly about the realities of your desire to TG intimacy, escorting legalities, and the level of anonymity you are willing to sacrifice for said desires.

Also remember that encounters of any kind take mutual respect as well as mutual benefit.

If you are still willing to take the plunge: do not discuss sexual acts for money until you are iin person to negotiate this mutual exchange...and before any money exchanges hands. You must remember the escort is seeking the same safety from harm and legal impropriety. The person may seem aloof, but, it is surprisingly difficult to establish a mutually beneficial engagement without a mutual accord.

Persistence and learning from your mistakes is key here, regardless to the course that your efforts may leaning towards. LOL but I often over think things and end up alone. (smile). Therefore, further caution to any advisement you receive here or elsewhere. I am just concerned that a 21year old does impulsive things without measuring the costs to benefit for the desired result.

Ok..good will hunting!

[farvahar]

Thanks for all your replies, although maybe I should point out that I wasn't nervous or worried because i was confused whether or not im gay or straight.. I couldn't really care about the labeling to be honest, i only mentioned i'm straight in my thread because i was trying to introduce and say a bit about myself and what i find attractive.

I couldn't stop thinking about what it would be to be with a hot TS girl so I took the "you only live once" advice and I actually ended up booking an escort through one of the agencies for an hour. She was unbelievably beautiful, I was shocked! it turned out to be a really good experience. Nothing really felt awkward or weird during the session and I was so glad i went though with it. She seemed to really enjoy herself too as time flew by and I didn't even realise until i was about to leave that I actually stayed just over 2 hours! But then she mentioned that she wants to see me again and I told her I don't really have money to be spending like that she said it doesn't matter... now i'm in a dilemma of whether or not I should go down this route.. It seems a bit 'unprofessional' and maybe something i shouldn't get into, even though she said there's no money involved I don't like taking advantage of people and i definitely don't want a relationship or anything like that... but at the same time it's very tempting and I really do want to go and see her again..