Are Transgender girls hard to deal with as a girl friend?

[dderek123]

In my limited experience. Yes.

[rockabilly]

In my limited experience. Yes.

Lol ironically in my limited experience ... No.

It depends on the girl i suppose. This applies to tg and gg some girls are just difficult to be with. I have a friend who is constantly arguing with her bf and takes his phone to check who he texts , calls and his browser history. She will yell at him in front of mutual friends and slap him and it's no shock to anyone that when they go home he beats her ass like a redheaded stepchild. Im not condoning his actions by any means and have tried to help her leave him and be independent yet she always goes back.
The fucked up thing is that she seeks out these abusive relationships ... No matter if she's dating a man or a woman she becomes a battered woman.

It's sad , she has little to no self worth and keeps allowing it to happen.
But you can't help someone that refuses to help themselves. All i can control is what suit I'll wear to her funeral should we get the call one day.

[Castor_Troy05]

Entirely dependant on the girl as already said. I've had less bother with my TS girlfriend than I had with any other girls previously.

Just treat her as you would any other girl and you'll usually be fine. Good luck

[dderek123]

Lol ironically in my limited experience ... No.

It depends on the girl i suppose. This applies to tg and gg some girls are just difficult to be with. I have a friend who is constantly arguing with her bf and takes his phone to check who he texts , calls and his browser history. She will yell at him in front of mutual friends and slap him and it's no shock to anyone that when they go home he beats her ass like a redheaded stepchild. Im not condoning his actions by any means and have tried to help her leave him and be independent yet she always goes back.
The fucked up thing is that she seeks out these abusive relationships ... No matter if she's dating a man or a woman she becomes a battered woman.

It's sad , she has little to no self worth and keeps allowing it to happen.
But you can't help someone that refuses to help themselves. All i can control is what suit I'll wear to her funeral should we get the call one day.

Sorry to hear that about your friend. As a former teacher, i believe behaviour like that is 100% learned behaviour. Maybe from her parents or whoever is close to her. The good news is that it's possible she could "unlearn" this lifestyle with the right help. I believe there is too much emphasis on genetics and not enough on culture and social learning lately. Is it really genetics or just a self-fulfilling prophecy? But I digress.

Yeah I mentioned "in my limited experience" because I think it's annoying when people think they are a genius and preach to others. The TS I had close relationships were ladyboys over in Thailand. So just the difference in culture and language made it more difficult, nevermind the whole TS thing. I wish the best for them though and still keep in touch with one of me exs.

[MacShreach]

I have not found transwomen to be more difficult to deal with than other women, but my sample is not huge. I think it depends on the girl--if you find a good one, look after her.

[BigDF]

I moved to San Antonio now this town has many Transgender women
I'm thinking of dating some and maybe have one as a girl friend
but what do I need to do? anything really different over a GG?

Lord give me strength. I was actually going to start a new thread to make the following announcement, but Bat1's questions give me the perfect opening!

I haven't posted on here much lately because I was tired of the ignorance, mysogyny and pure hate spewed on here by many of the guys who seem to regard every girl on here as some sort of object/toy for them to play with. I'm rather disgusted with myself for wasting so much valuable time trying to correct that behavior when I could have been spending it in the much more pleasant pursuit of expressing my admiration of these hot young ladies who are willing to share images of their naked bodies with us.

Sorry for hijacking your thread, Bat1 (not really) and I'll answer your questions now.In order, what you need to do is try to remember that you're dealing with another human being, who has the same emotional, physical and spiritual needs as you. Your statement that you're thinking of dating and maybe actually having a t-girlfriend sounds to me as if you regard these special ladies as some sort of second class citizen (oh, Lord here I go again) who should be falling all over themselves just for your attention. That attractive and often incredibly erotic penis that some of these ladies sport is quite simply an inverted vagina.

As far as the real difference between a TG and GG the only physical difference is that the TG cannot reproduce in the same was a GG, regrettably. Medical science only goes so far. That is the only real difference I know of and I can empathize with them because I can't reproduce either.

[robertlouis]

Lord give me strength. I was actually going to start a new thread to make the following announcement, but Bat1's questions give me the perfect opening!

I haven't posted on here much lately because I was tired of the ignorance, mysogyny and pure hate spewed on here by many of the guys who seem to regard every girl on here as some sort of object/toy for them to play with. I'm rather disgusted with myself for wasting so much valuable time trying to correct that behavior when I could have been spending it in the much more pleasant pursuit of expressing my admiration of these hot young ladies who are willing to share images of their naked bodies with us.

Sorry for hijacking your thread, Bat1 (not really) and I'll answer your questions now.In order, what you need to do is try to remember that you're dealing with another human being, who has the same emotional, physical and spiritual needs as you. Your statement that you're thinking of dating and maybe actually having a t-girlfriend sounds to me as if you regard these special ladies as some sort of second class citizen (oh, Lord here I go again) who should be falling all over themselves just for your attention. That attractive and often incredibly erotic penis that some of these ladies sport is quite simply an inverted vagina.

As far as the real difference between a TG and GG the only physical difference is that the TG cannot reproduce in the same was a GG, regrettably. Medical science only goes so far. That is the only real difference I know of and I can empathize with them because I can't reproduce either.

You don't come on here often enough these days old friend. We miss your wisdom and crisp common sense. Stay awhile.

All I will add is that with or without the fetishisation that goes with the girl cock, almost all of your criticism could just as easily be directed at immature males in their attitude to all women, whether they be gg or trans. I don't know if it's the exposure to porn or a generational shift, but the raw sexism and misogyny of so many young males these days is a frightening phenomenon.

[my my my!]

In my experience,

The Transgirls that I've dated, meet so many chasers (in gg terms, just "hounds") that they almost have a higher wall of defense against falling for a guy too quickly.

I've had the experience,that you somehow have to prove yourself more with a tg than with a gg and that's through no fault of theirs or yours.

There's alot of trust issues with guys, and believe it or not, they get alot of chasers telling them the same ol' story "ooh babygirl, dayum you're fine, ill treat you right, im different" blah blah blah.

so, like willie said, yes and no, and depends on the girl.

So, in a way , you really have to convince her and be sincere or else you'll come across as a chaser and not sincere about your intentions of forming a relationship with them.